Oversensitive, is it just me or... |
 Apr 14 2005, 07:47 AM
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Ok I'm not sure if this topic is supposed to be here but it's sorta about me relationships to people I know and are around me. I find it very hard to mantain long friendships and every other best friend I had always ended up with...'silent treatments'. It's really upsetting because I never find any problems with making new friends and everything but when we become like good friends people start to get annoyed with me or maybe it's just me being oversensitive about it. I dunno. It's confusing me.
I don't get why people start to get annoyed with me.....everytime I think about it I've done nothing wrong. Or is it just me being oversensitive and paranoid about things?? 
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Apr 14 2005, 04:03 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
you are paranoid and oversensitive or you really did something wrong that they give you the silent treatment.
ask them. |
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Apr 14 2005, 04:26 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
Maybe you are being paranoid , I get paranoid too but not about that.
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Apr 14 2005, 04:34 PM
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 Hello my name is Yula, I'm a baller! Group: Member Posts: 329 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 125,918 |
Lol, I have trouble making friends with girls because they freak out on me sometimes. I think you might be a little too paranoid. Just stick to what you like and remain by their side and you'll still be tight. I can't make new friends if I don't know anything about them. Ironically I can talk to adults better then kids for some reason.
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Apr 14 2005, 04:50 PM
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 Ah, mon Dieu ! Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
paranoia can be a pain in the ass at times...
=T but hang in there. i'm sure you'll meet new friends that won't turn their backs on you. treat others as you would like to be treated. |
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Apr 14 2005, 05:15 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
if you are honestly not doing anything wrong and it seems like they are getting annoyed by you, there are only two things that could be going on.
1. they really are getting annoyed by you for some reason. maybe becuase it seems like you have to be around them or maybe they just need some space away from you... 2. you are oversensitive one of the two. |
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Apr 14 2005, 05:15 PM
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 Grrrrrrr Group: Member Posts: 801 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,696 |
i know that i am way oversensitive and paranoid. i am paranoid about people around me and moves i make sometimes. it sucks
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Apr 14 2005, 08:29 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Things you might've done...
1.) Irritated them on something.... 2.) Did something wrong.. 3.) You could be oversensitive. 4.) They might just be bored with you.....but hang in there...sooner or later...you'll meet friends that'll love you for who you are..instead of what you can do... 
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Apr 14 2005, 08:39 PM
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 rwar (; Group: Member Posts: 590 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,308 |
hmm, well.. i guess i kinda have the same situation as you.
except, im the one who gets annoyed  soooo anyways, why dont you jst ask them? =D |
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Apr 14 2005, 08:46 PM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
maybe its what you did during the friendship...you should focus more on that instead of what happens after the relationship ends.
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Apr 14 2005, 09:42 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
QUOTE(Emmaliev @ Apr 14 2005, 4:26 PM) Maybe you are being paranoid , I get paranoid too but not about that.  SAME HERE 
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Apr 14 2005, 09:54 PM
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QUOTE(Shattered_Hope @ Apr 14 2005, 8:29 PM) Things you might've done... 1.) Irritated them on something.... 2.) Did something wrong.. 3.) You could be oversensitive. 4.) They might just be bored with you.....but hang in there...sooner or later...you'll meet friends that'll love you for who you are..instead of what you can do... agree 110% Just give it time, eventually they will see what they missed out on, and if they don't, they weren't worth it in the first place <--(provided that you didn't do anything to mess up the friendship) |
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Apr 15 2005, 05:41 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 107 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 87,774 |
Thanks so much for the replies. I guess I'm just being paranoid.
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Apr 15 2005, 08:02 PM
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 yeah, whatever.... Group: Member Posts: 125 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 126,628 |
I wonder that myself...
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