gay guy, at my school Options

[surfhottieoffcoa...]

their is a gay guy at my school...i've never met one. i'm kinda weirded out.
should i be?

[mouse_3k]

Whats wrong with that?? I have a few friends that are gay and im FINE with it.

[JC4P]

yeah...what is wrong with that? i really dislike you so far surfhottie.

[Chaos13]

You're one of those small people who talks about other people.

[*Azarel*]

Uh. Okay. I know a gay guy who's really annoying and when people bitch him out for it, he gets defensive, "It's because I'm gay, isn't it!? You don't know what it's like to be gay!"

And that didn't have anything to do with the original post, so I guess this is spam. I don't even understand the original post.

[Ington]

That was incredibly rude. I suggest someone closes this. This is basically bashing every gay person.

Learn to be more openminded.

[JC4P]

lmfao anna. she was just tryin to see if anyone else is scared of gay people. personnally i'm offended being bi...

[inthemudhole]

What's wrong with being gay, anyway?
Maybe he just likes pink.
Maybe he really is gay.
Either way, it shouldn't matter.
You are what you are, and everyone should be treated equally. We were all created equally, so we all deserve equal treatment regardless of our sexuality.

[IamRad]

whats wrong with gay people.. u homophob.. god

so what if he likes pink? my friend does but hes not gay. he watches porn every time he can =P and i went out with him......

[Pulchritude]

well i know 2 guys that are gay.. i have no shame calling them my friends cuz they are awesome! i dont judge people just cuz there different and have a different mind. So what if you are, gay people dont bite there just like everyone else.. so please dont intent to tease that kid.

[Nicolatofu]

Honestly, I think gay guys are really cool. I've suspected a few people for being homosexual, but that doesn't change how i feel about them. Therefore, I don't bring it up unless they happen to say something about it.

[*CrackedRearView*]

I have three long sleeved pink dress shirts, bitch.

Watch your mouth, before I put it on my ass.

Kthx.

[*Azarel*]

^ Justin..

lmfao anna. she was just tryin to see if anyone else is scared of gay people. personnally i'm offended being bi...

Bleh. If you're offended by this, get ready for a world of shock. The world's full of homophobia, to tell the truth, and while people are beginning to open up, there's not much you can do to avoid it. This post wasn't particularly offending for me though, even though I'm pansexual; it's just rather idiotic.

[Just_Dream]

I think gay guys are cool. Gay guys probably think I'm weird. :[ They're more understanding and I truly don't have anything against them.

As for the pole thing.. "he started scratching his eye on a pole" .... What does that mean? o_____o

[DanielleMaria05]

Ok, so, I'm going to try to be calm. How can you even say something like this. First off, just because someone wears pink, or has pink things does not, repeat, DOES NOT mean they are gay. Maybe he said pink is your color because YOU ARE A GIRL and pink looks good on most girls.

and what does a guidance counsulor have to do with being gay?? Seriously. they all don't act like that, and anyway, its their job. What do you expect?

You are one of those people who just see things to make fun of people for. I'm glad I'm not at your school. I'm straight, but I'm sure you could find something about me to make fun of. People like you are the ones that made my gradeschool life hell.

[Ington]

Yes, like Justin said, I also have pink shirts. I'm as far from gay as anything.

[Shattered_Hope]

Ok, so, I'm going to try to be calm. How can you even say something like this. First off, just because someone wears pink, or has pink things does not, repeat, DOES NOT mean they are gay. Maybe he said pink is your color because YOU ARE A GIRL and pink looks good on most girls.

and what does a guidance counsulor have to do with being gay?? Seriously. they all don't act like that, and anyway, its their job. What do you expect?

You are one of those people who just see things to make fun of people for. I'm glad I'm not at your school. I'm straight, but I'm sure you could find something about me to make fun of. People like you are the ones that made my gradeschool life hell.

I second this..

[xXYouMeBedNowXx]

That's rather stereotypical. A homosexual myself, I can't understand why people like you are so dense, so immature about these things. Is it because you don't understand them, and because of that you fear them? The human mind is fixed to that psychology, and when the brain is conflicted with fear, two things come to mind: Ignorance, and more of it. Denial is the most simple and automatic emotion, and people like you are in the truest and most vast sense of the word. Deal with yourself.

[twelveislands]

Scratching his eye on a pole?

You shouldn't be so stereotypical either.

[*jooleeah*]

What's wrong with gay people? I'm sure you've already realized this, but people at createblog don't like it when you post ignorant things like this. Please learn to be respectful. Hopefully you don't find this post offensive....I'm just saying that you need to learn to respect others.

[lilphoenix]

You're real conceited...

[xXYouMeBedNowXx]

You're real conceited...

That's nearly an understatement.

[banthisaccountno...]

What's wrong with gay people?
Just because they see things differently than you doesn't mean that they're weird.

[*mzkandi*]

And if he happens to be gay then what? I dont see why you are making a big deal of a guy that likes pink and then having the nerve to associate that with his sexuality.

[AngelTears]

Like everyone else has said.

what, by change, is wrong with being gay?

And another thing, why do you care? So he has pink binders.. I know a lot of guys who like/wear the color pink and they're strait (as far as I know anyways )

and he was doing what with a pole and his eye? That part somewhat confussed me, but then again even if I got it, what does that have to do with anything about being gay?

[WrathOfOnigo]

Whoa, this is really offensive. There is nothing wrong with being gay. This should be closed before someone gets mad or hurt!

[juliar]

It takes a real man to wear pink.

Haven't you ever heard that?

Or maybe he's just metro. You never know. Don't assume.
And no, I don't know anyone who's like that.

[DaTru KataLYST]

my friend said he is anti-gay-marriage cuz then in the future he'd have to explain to his children about why todd has 2 daddies.

[surfhottieoffcoa...]

sorry. i didn't know ppl would be offended. i apolagize i take back all that i said. its just i've never known a gay....i dont even KNOW if he's gay. i repeat! i take back all that i said. i apolagize i come from a catty school.


muah****

~vee~











i never said he wore pink

[wonmin]

lmfao anna. she was just tryin to see if anyone else is scared of gay people. personnally i'm offended being bi...

many gay people have said that.. you are usually straight at first.. then become bi then become gay.
people are bi because they cant admit that they are gay.

i really dislike you so far JC4P.

[dahding]

gay ppl are so cool...they're so nice too. bunch of my friends are gay. yay for them.

[*nightmare4taki*]

Usher wears pink. Cameron wears pink. Pink is like a fad. I see thugs at school with pink attire all the time. It takes a true player to wear pink and pull it off. Unfortunately I can't do the same.

The More gay people means the more girls for me.

[*stephinika*]

i don't think that has anything to do with being gay...perhaps he just likes pink? i mean really. i know a guy who knows more about fashion and such things than i do, but he's definitely not gay.

[JlIaTMK]

Meh, I dont know what to say to you. That's just horrid how you judge people like that.

I don't understand what ignorance will get for you. A taste of satisfaction? And just how long is that going to last?

[AngelTears]

i've never known a gay

being GAY isnt all that someone is..

being GAY is a sexual prefrence.. it does not label them as a sertain kind of human being.

I mean, there may be really nice guys who are gay, but then again there could be really mean guys who are gay. Being gay doesnt define anyone as a person.

[lolthissiteisfun...]

sorry.  i didn't know ppl would be offended.  i apolagize i take back all that i said.  its just i've never known a gay....i dont even KNOW if he's gay.  i repeat! i take back all that i said.  i apolagize i come from a catty school.
muah****

~vee~
i never said he wore pink

you know there is an edit button right? you can just at least change your post, to make it less offensive..

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

gay peopler are hella cool. i like that the guys are so girl and some girls may be so boysih or still so girly. theyre fun! and with the gay guys yu can check out other guys together, he can give you tips on clothes and whatnot. theres absolutley nothing wrong with being gay. like everyone else said maybe the foo` just likes pink. it aint nothin` to be sweatin` over.

[SKDMNLE]

i have gay friends. so...?

[HongKongDong]

i think he's gay...he has a pink binder for every class and he came up to me and said PINK IS SOOOO YOUR COLOR! 
my friend say's he's gonna be either gay, or a guidence counsolor when he grows up.  one time i was waching him and he started scratching his eye on a pole and poured bottles water on his eye.....  i was like, "getten fresh with that pole man?"
do u know anyone like this?

You say it as if its a bad thing

But seriously why does it matter? I dont get you homophobes... just because their outside and are different doesn't mean you get to think their weird and just bash right on them

[5ayuri]

I don’t think I know any gay guys …I know some guys that ACT gay but are probably not. But I have nothing against bi/gay.

[Wolverine0723]

Wait! Doesnt that make him a man compared to you? Because he doesnt care if other people dont like Pink. Am I right? I also heard gay people. IF he is really going to be a gay. become like interior designers and stuf.f

[jaeman]

So what if he's gay, there's nothing wrong with that. And pink is just a color, so you'd consider me gay if I liked green and went up to you and said "Green is soo your color."

[WhiteLotus*]

There's this gay person at school.
He's actually really nice. Sometimes I even forget he's gay. It doesn't really matter to me; as long as he's a good person inside, I don't care.

Plus he reminds me of Michael, so that's a plus as well.

[teeners4]

at my school we have 2 gay guys. and they are awesome! one of them is like a fashionista! haha he'll go up to you and tell you to rearrange your clothes or tie that around your hip or whatever

and i have a gay teacher too.

they're awesome!

[FoOd]

i think he's gay...he has a pink binder for every class and he came up to me and said PINK IS SOOOO YOUR COLOR! 
my friend say's he's gonna be either gay, or a guidence counsolor when he grows up.  one time i was waching him and he started scratching his eye on a pole and poured bottles water on his eye.....  i was like, "getten fresh with that pole man?"
do u know anyone like this?

Does it matter to you he is gay? I mean, it isn't going to affect your life... sheesh. And by your post, it seems that you really are close-minded of gay people. Sorrry I just had to say that.

Would this be considered spam because I didn't answer the thread question?

well... so its not spam.....

Yes I know a guy that is gay. There is my answer.

[pingpang_0811]

u discriminate, man.
gay is human, les is human, love female is human, love male is also a human.
what's wrong with them>
i have boy friends love pink too... so what's the conclusion? they r still be my fds.
i dun agree if someone wear pink , then he's a gay.
and even he's a gay, i will also treat him like a friend, nth special, nth scare!
><

[toodlepops.]

Why does it matter?

[misoshiru]

oh. so now pink shirts automatically equal gay huh? what if i told you that if you wore blue, you'd be considered homosexual. would you stop? huh? stop being so damn stereotypical. so what if people are gay? i have a really close friend whose gay. but does that make him different? no. and as robb0 said, someone can be really offended by this? i'm really offended by this.

[vampireduster]

Most of the people I hang out with are gay or bisexual. its cool though because they are the nicest people to me and if they get into trouble i have thier back and theey would do the same for me

[racoons > you]

okey doke, surfhottie.

that is it. you are now officiallly on my 'going to burn in hell, whilst being poked with many forks for being a cretin' list

that is all

a pink binder doen not a gay guy make...

[soulless727]

whats wrong with being gay? if i was a chick id think thats hot but im straight...you should be happy to be in the presence of a guy who you dont have to be afraid of.

[dreamerOi]

hm whats wrong with gay people? ive got gay, bi, everything friends. it doesnt matter to me. whats wrong with being attracted to the same sex? silly -pokes you-

[KELLYYY]

so what if he's gay?! and if he's really gay, what would you do?

what are you, homophobic?

i dont like homophobes.

you can really offend someone with a topic like this.

I know, right?

There is ABSOLUTELY no problem with being gay. I mean, theres like, 3 kids at our school that's in the 6th grade that are gay. We're fine with it.

[nopattern]

Is it your problem? No.

[JC4P]

many gay people have said that.. you are usually straight at first.. then become bi then become gay.
people are bi because they cant admit that they are gay.

i really dislike you so far JC4P.

i have no clue wtf you said. I'm bi becuase i like dudes and i like chicks. Wtf does being gay have to do with being bi? its notr like a gayness evolution. Do you Dislike me becuz i'm bi? then your just like surfhottie...

[iheartjohn]

Like OMG, a PINK binder?!! How GAY is he?!?! What a freaking GAY person, OMG, like that is like, so, like, GAY!!

[laur3nw]

There are some people at my school that are gay, but it doesn't bother me. I actually find them pretty funny.

[ItzOnlySydney]

nope. can't say i do. lol

i'm not a homophobe. but i have had a bi girl come one to me before and it was weird.

[shnuzzles]

i hate stereotypes. i have gay friends hehe dey rock my socks.

[EmmalieV]

I <3 all my gay friends.

[*xcaitlinx*]

lykz oh em gee zee! i cant believe it ... he's a homosexual!!!! =\ i think you're miss prejudice yourself.

[heyyfrankie]

what are you asking? do we know anyone gay? yes
does it bother me? no
do i think you are a little rude? yes

[*mona lisa*]

What's wrong with that. I know many people who are gay and bi, even in my school. Please don't be ignorant and disrespectful.

[iheartsimba]

Hold on. You are asking us if you should be weirded out by someone because they have a different the "normal" sexual preference? wow. Shallow.

He's a person, just like all of us. He just happens to be attracted to guys, he can't countrol who he likes. Don't be "weirded out" because he's just another person. And I have a lot of friends like that, and they usually make great friends.

[Nicole0402]

Theres a gay guy at your school....should you be worried. NO! Jesus. Has he done anything to you?? What if he is like...well theres straight people at my school...should I be worried? It doesnt matter if he's gay. he should be treated like everyone else.

[surfhottieoffcoa...]

OK OK OK!!!! i was just ASKING.... i didnt know ppl would get offended


holy cow u guyz

i'm sorry if i offended u its just i've grown up not knowing any gay guys and my parents tolled me how wrong it is. but its not my fault cause i grew up like that and i dont know anybetter cause i'm a f**king bitch. go ahead admitt it i am.
i'm so mad at myself for asking that question. now i know i shouldn't be afraid...i dont know why i was...i'm an a-hole




muah*

vee~

[*jooleeah*]

^
You thought no one would be offended? o_o

[_sarcastic_]

pssh, what's wrong with being gay
you shouldn't be weirded out.
gay/straight/bi they're all equal

OK OK OK!!!! i was just ASKING.... i didnt know ppl would get offended

you're joking right

[loljuliana]

It would be cool to have a gay friend

[Rachel]

OK OK OK!!!! i was just ASKING.... i didnt know ppl would get offended
holy cow u guyz

i'm sorry if i offended u its just i've grown up not knowing any gay guys and my parents tolled me how wrong it is.  but its not my fault cause i grew up like that and i dont know anybetter cause i'm a f**king bitch.  go ahead admitt it i am.
i'm so mad at myself for asking that question.  now i know i shouldn't be afraid...i dont know why i was...i'm an a-hole
muah* 

vee~

You sound like an 8 year old...

Obviously people were going to offended dumbass. Get over yourself and try to learn things on your own. You cannot always believe what your parents tell you. They told you Santa Claus was real and was he? NO. Therefore, them saying that being a homosexual is "wrong", it also untrue. Maybe try this thing called openmindedness (yes I made up a word, I think ), it will take you far in life. Until then, go the hell away.

[KERP1UNK]

there are quite a few (supposedly) of gay guys at my school...its not that big a deal..

[xxtaintedlips]

wow usually guys are not open about their gaynes...but anyway
no it is not wierd to be a lil wierded out but you will get used to i i promis!
It is just kinda wierd for me cuz almost all the gals at my school are bisexual so some min they are talking about that hot guy and the next they are tell me how they help hands with their gf at the mall..or how pretty i am or how much they love me....umm so ya

[DanielleMaria05]

Wait.. A gay??

so now not just being gay offends you but being A gay. Come on. Grow up. Society has changed since your parents were young. Being raised that way has nothing to do with it. I grew up around parents who were homophobic, and racist. I'm neither of those.

[sandy_lumpy_shor...]

i love femine gay guys. well since i'm a girl i have no problem with them but i guess guys could feel weird because liekt hey might be self concious if they are leading the guy on

[xj_liana_tx]

you'll get use to him.
i want to have some gay friends. i think gay guys make good friends, i can take them shopping.

[xbr0kensmil3]

one of my friends is bisexual, i'm ok with it.

[xsweetxcandyx]

why would you be?? he;s still a human...no matter what BUSH THINKS!!!

I have several gay friends, theres nothing wrong with it.... get over it!

[to-devastate]

NO. You shouldn't be weirded out. That's just wrong.
I don't have gay friends but I think it would be cool to.
Like "Will & Grace", I love how their friendship is. I wish I had one like that.

[wonmin]

i have no clue wtf you said. I'm bi becuase i like dudes and i like chicks. Wtf does being gay have to do with being bi? its notr like a gayness evolution. Do you Dislike me becuz i'm bi? then your just like surfhottie...

lol.. yeah i Dislike you because you are bi and because you have no clue wtf i said.
maybe i am just like surfhottie..

being bi has something to do with being gay, stupid.

i just made a comment that a homosexual teacher in my school told me that he was straight at first, then bi, then he finally admitted that he was gay. he said that people who are bi are just "confused"

[innovation]

she's not saying that there's anything wrong with gay people; just that she feels uncomfortable around them, which is normal, since she hasn't met any before.

[kryzcoak47luv666]

I'm not gonna bust on you for being homophobic, but your a girl and he's gay why would you be worried, he's still human, he just likes guys, and there's nothing wrong with that, gays are people too, and should treated and respected just like everyone else. I have a best friend thats lesbian, a bi friend, and many gay friends, and they can be some of the nicest coolest people you can ever meet. More people have to open their minds and their hearts to gays and people of different races, no wonder the world is so messed up, and no I'm not gay, but if I was I would be open about it and if you didn't like it, your not worth it in the first place.

[sweetdreamsx3]

I know many gays and lesbians at my school and it doesn't scare me..as long as they don't do cat calls or anything (lesbians), then I'm fine with it. The majority of them are nice..and don't worry. They won't have a crush on you. (not to imply anything mean), but Jake likes Andrew at my school and there are just so many other gay guys, but hey..they both stick to one. :]

[Note]

A lez and a gay went over to our school today to explain how it is not bad to not have a relationship with the same sex. i don't think i every met a gay student.

[jerry]

[[o0p]]

its like any other person ;; just act normal like you would with anyone else ;; i have a lot of bi and gay friends.

[angelrevelation]

hmm i've never met a gay person before (that i've known about anyway) but i'm pretty sure they're just like normal ppl too... unless they act like the stereotypes. so i dunno, i guess you can just put the gay thing aside

[whomps]

I have three long sleeved pink dress shirts, bitch.

Watch your mouth, before I put it on my ass.

Kthx.

Lmao.

I don't think you should be weirded out. But seriously, you don't even know the guy and you're already making judgements about him. How do you know he's gay? From RUMORS? From the way he dresses? From his pink shirts?
Meet the guy and decide for yourself whether you should be weirded out or not.

[aZNbLUMUNKEEbUTT]

i know a few..&theres nothing wrong with them...hahhaa plus they can be a girls best friend ;)

[wickedcurse]

you're weird... now a days, gay is not an issue... so there is absolutely nothing wrong about it unless that gay is very annoying!

[hair products]

okay. i guess i'll be the only person here defending surfhottie.

He asked if he should be afraid not knowing any better. Most of you guys jump on him like a gang bang b/c he's not as well informed. You ever think about just saying to him.. hey.. there's nothing to be afraid of.
Does the guy want you? Maybe then you might be a lil scared cuz you aren't gay. No reason to be omg i hate you b/c you are not open minded.
You can't expect someone to be aware of everything. Like he said his parents didn't teach him any better. So tell him there's nothing to be afraid of and that's all that was needed to be said. There are LOTS of people who grow up never seeing gays or minorities. Not knowing what can be considered a racist term or impolite. Didn't you guys watch the real world new orleans cast where julie learned about the N word from her friends cuz she didn't know any better? they didn't beat her up.

Just tell me why are you offended about him asking if he should be afraid?

I don't understand the reason behind being offended because he made a topic to seek knowledge and you guys cram your fists down his throat instead of trying to help.

[*wind&fire*]

how the hell did this get past 2 pages?

[misoshiru]

okay.  i guess i'll be the only person here defending surfhottie.

He asked if he should be afraid not knowing any better.  Most of you guys jump on him like a gang bang b/c he's not as well informed.  You ever think about just saying to him.. hey.. there's nothing to be afraid of. 
Does the guy want you?  Maybe then you might be a lil scared cuz you aren't gay.  No reason to be omg i hate you b/c you are not open minded.
You can't expect someone to be aware of everything.  Like he said his parents didn't teach him any better.  So tell him there's nothing to be afraid of and that's all that was needed to be said.  There are LOTS of people who grow up never seeing gays or minorities.  Not knowing what can be considered a racist term or impolite.  Didn't you guys watch the real world new orleans cast where julie learned about the N word from her friends cuz she didn't know any better?  they didn't beat her up.

Just tell me why are you offended about him asking if he should be afraid?

I don't understand the reason behind being offended because he made a topic to seek knowledge and you guys cram your fists down his throat instead of trying to help.

i thought surfhottie was female

[love vs absence]

..uhh.
thats like saying
"omg. theres a straight guy at my school. i never met one. im really weirded out." --; i mean come on.
stop stereotyping other people.

[hair products]

i thought surfhottie was female 

oh.. really? haha my bad

[glit_gal]

why are do you feel so weird about it? I mean it's not like he's an alien or something. He's a human being too, who just happens to have different tastes and beliefs than you do.

[Tung]

r.e.s.p.e.c.t

[Heathasm]

kick em in the nuts
jjkjk

gay people are human beings just like you !_! its like asking if you should be weirded out by a person with blonde hair

[mickybeans]

maybe the reason why you feel 'weirded out' is because you have never met one. trust me, there are people around here that has never seen a black person before and they get weirded out. there is NO problem with being gay, thats just like asking a straight person- why are you straight? why do you like the opposite sex? everyone is a somebody and that needs to be understood.

get to know the guy, i'm sure you'll find him to be a sweet and nice person. i personally have three gay guy friends and they are freakin' awesome! (:

[wonmin]

she's not saying that there's anything wrong with gay people; just that she feels uncomfortable around them, which is normal, since she hasn't met any before.

thank you.

[JustPeachy]

#1 this is an extremely worthless and offensive post that has obviousely pissed off 99.9% of the people on cb
#2 I doupt there's only ONE gay guy at your entire school, it's not uncommon at all -__-
#3 he's just a guy who's gay. guy=person, a person like any other who deserves respect
#4 if it dose wierd you out don't make a big deal about it. you don't have to be friends with him but don't be mean or rude in any way and don't ignor him and act like he's a freak if you happen do bump into him or become partners for a school project or somthing.

[the_crox]

Heh? Like half of my school is gay. Including staff. It's okay ya know?