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 Apr 7 2004, 03:59 AM
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well my girlfriend said today that she feels like i love her to much and need to give her space...it kinda hurts to hear but ok i will...she feels like shes loosing her friends...she wants me to go with her and her friends to places but they all hate me and i hate them...they make me feel like im lower than them just cuz im younger and stuff...and i do want to go cuz its with her but im not sure about her friends...and there real bad influinces...they all drink and smoke and stuff...and im sorry but i could never date someone who did that...so what should i do?...
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Apr 7 2004, 04:15 AM
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Your girlfriend does what her friends do too? If I were you I'd simply just tell her how I feel about this. And if you go places with her friends, just act like they're not there and just stay with your girlfriend. I'm not a very good advice giver but this is the best I could do...
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Apr 7 2004, 07:34 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
yeah well i would tell her that i dont like ppl who smoke and stuff and tell her how they make u feel... ur gf should be considerate and hang out with them like less... not totally depart from them...
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Apr 21 2004, 03:34 AM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
QUOTE(brian_deegan @ Apr 7 2004, 1:59 AM) well my girlfriend said today that she feels like i love her to much and need to give her space...it kinda hurts to hear but ok i will...she feels like shes loosing her friends...she wants me to go with her and her friends to places but they all hate me and i hate them...they make me feel like im lower than them just cuz im younger and stuff...and i do want to go cuz its with her but im not sure about her friends...and there real bad influinces...they all drink and smoke and stuff...and im sorry but i could never date someone who did that...so what should i do?... whoa thats not a good sign...hmm... wow... it's like an opposite topic haha...lols newais...erm... jus say "whats more important for u?...me? or ur friends? who da ya luv and who do ya care most?" well of course friends too..but if u want to keep ur girlfriend in a good condition.... u shuld tell her to make other friends....heh...and try to help her move to anotha group of ppls so she wont do those stuff^__^ |
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Apr 21 2004, 04:21 PM
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 lil azn supermodel... =] Group: Member Posts: 461 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,841 |
wow....thas kinda lyk a slap in tha face.....i agree wit the_average_xangan n conster, u should prolly confront her bout her friends n tell her how u feel
i really dont wana say this but it might b fa tha best or sumthin lyk that......do u think that she jus wants u jus ta have u? lyk shes wit u jus so she can have a bf? i hope its not lyk that tho......i hope u get thru ta her, gl hun 
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Apr 21 2004, 04:48 PM
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 unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
TALK! communication is key, especially if there's a significant age difference. talk to her about how you feel, and your 'needs', be ready for rebuttal from her tho, cuz stuff like this can get nasty. love can be suffocating tho... i hope u guys can find a compromise
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Apr 21 2004, 08:39 PM
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do you know why they dont like you? sometimes it looks like they dont like you, but its just the way they talk. there are people who criticize a lot, cause thats the only way they know how to make conversation. maybe im wrong.
doesn't your girlfriend see that you and her friends dont get a long? wierd situation your in. dont know much about this. all i can say is, be understanding as possible, and be as calm and cool as can be. cause if one of her friends spaz off and starts to fry you on whatever, it'll make him or her look so bad in front of your girl cuz your keeping your cool and youre acting like you dont care cuz your more mature than that. your girl is gonna be like.. ooh.. thats not right... and let the massacre of - bizatch dont talk to my man like that! - begin. |
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Apr 23 2004, 12:07 PM
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well my girlfriend said today that she feels like i love her to much and need to give her space...it kinda hurts to hear but ok i will...she feels like shes loosing her friends...she wants me to go with her and her friends to places but they all hate me and i hate them...they make me feel like im lower than them just cuz im younger and stuff...and i do want to go cuz its with her but im not sure about her friends...and there real bad influinces...they all drink and smoke and stuff...and im sorry but i could never date someone who did that...so what should i do?...
*i think my boyfriend feels this way about me too...* |
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May 21 2004, 10:43 PM
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 Live Your Own Party Group: Member Posts: 1,261 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,489 |
just tell her how you feel. say something like this:::
'well, i know you like me to go out with you and your friends and all, but they don't seem to like me very much. they make me feel uncomfortable. can we start just going on dates alone? i'd really apreciate it.' or something like that. well, good luck. 
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May 21 2004, 11:01 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
you shouldnt worry about them! but yall should at least give each other sum respect! let you gf have a little time off... and why dont you get to know her friends better? soo yall dont have to hate each other!
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