my parents fight a lot...what can i do? |
 Apr 7 2004, 12:28 AM
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they fight a lot and i dont know if they will be together for much longer...they fight like children...about silly things that dont even mean that much...what can i do to help them stay together...
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Apr 7 2004, 02:19 AM
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 i'll treat you like milk.. i'll do nothing but spoil you Group: Member Posts: 257 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 577 |
man that's sad to hear.. well i guess you can say i can relate to you coz my parents fight over silly things too.. but its not to the point where they'll just break up.. they'll fight and it'll take them days to make peace.. but thats it.. they'll be making love again.. anyways.. i do remember one time when my mom almost left us.. my sister and i was crying our hearts out and on our knees beggin my mom to stay.. then out of no where my dad picks up my mom's bag and told my mom that he was sorry.. just tell how much you need BOTH parents in your life.. as a teenager growing up.. you really need both of them by your side especially when things are going bad.. beg if you need.. and tell them how much you need them.. i hope everything will work out the way you want it to.. stay up man..
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Apr 7 2004, 07:32 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
u can always ask them if they ever cared about ur feelings cuz if they said yes then they should stop arguing
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Apr 8 2004, 11:32 PM
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 <3~Tara~<3 Group: Member Posts: 345 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,491 |
my parents cant stand each other which is why theyve been divorced ever since i was in 1st grade. ive been raised by my dad n im soo far from my mom.
 in my case seems to me like my parents did da right thing gettin divorced or else how my dad always says...i woulda had to grow up in a constant fighting/arguing environment n dat by now i would hate both of them for always fighting... n when i see them together n when they start fightin again i realize dat he's right somehow..i donn think i can stand being around them when they're together...  bcuz i was always close to one parent it was easier for me but i think in ur case ur probably close to both of them love both of them very much so i know its hard to give up so i suggest you talk to them about it n let them understand how you feel n how much u want to keep da family together n etc. Hope erythin works out for you!! |
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Apr 9 2004, 12:12 AM
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 Retired Posting Whore Group: Member Posts: 699 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,911 |
Kill them all....
Not much you can do...They have to deal with there problems in there own way.. You can't fix things by yourself.. |
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Apr 9 2004, 12:17 AM
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my parents divorced wen i was 5... so i noe what it feels like. at first, i despised them, but now, i think it was a good decision because i dont think they were just meant to be..
 so yea...well i suggest that whatever you do, just dont interfere with them... just make shure to remind them daily that you love them both and that you want them to stay together. and make shure to show lots of love aiite?  its okay. hopefully, they wont break you noe? i mean, its pretty common for parents to fight a lil at times... and sometiems they get stressed out and it just happens that they get on each other's nerves. so dont worry too much!
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Apr 9 2004, 01:20 AM
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 fragile Group: Member Posts: 1,044 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,807 |
man my parents divorced due to fighting...if you sit there and tell them that you want them to stay together for you...all they wil basically due is stay together for your being but when you grow old enough to move out and live on your own they will probably divorce...i've been through it so i know...and trust me having one parent isn't great..at all..
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Apr 9 2004, 03:23 PM
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talk to them. Say u luv them. And u dont want to get hurt as well. But don't talk to both of them infront of each other.
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Apr 9 2004, 05:29 PM
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 t a c o s Group: Member Posts: 1,187 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,122 |
JERRY SPRINGER
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Apr 9 2004, 05:44 PM
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 Mz Nina Nikole Group: Member Posts: 1,343 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,273 |
QUOTE(cutielilsuga @ Apr 9 2004, 1:20 AM) man my parents divorced due to fighting...if you sit there and tell them that you want them to stay together for you...all they wil basically due is stay together for your being but when you grow old enough to move out and live on your own they will probably divorce...i've been through it so i know...and trust me having one parent isn't great..at all.. if you tell ur parents u love them, they might stay together just for that reason becuz they dont want to hurt you, but why would u want them too..if thats not going to make them stop fightin? my parents fought all the time and they got divorced..it was actually a relief. no more fighting, but now my mom is dating this other guy and now all the do is fight, she is whipped... |
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| *CJ1* |
Apr 9 2004, 07:29 PM
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When they're fighting, yell at them and tell them you can't stand it...
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Apr 9 2004, 11:36 PM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
My parents fight alot .... but they're still together ... and I don't know why .. most of the time they're screaming at each other ..
 I wish it would just stop ..Sometimes I wish my family would be like those in movies .. where its like a totally happy family .. |
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| *jimmyjackiechan* |
Apr 10 2004, 09:18 AM
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Is the original posting even reading this? Sometimes I feel like I write this for nothing when no one responds... I dunno
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Apr 10 2004, 04:03 PM
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 >>LILY<< Group: Member Posts: 276 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,632 |
I'm sorry to hear that...
My parents fight too. Lots of parents fight now and then. Just talk to them and tell them you hate it when they fight...And how much it bothers you. If they care about how you feel, they just might stop fighting so much. |
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Apr 13 2004, 03:07 PM
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QUOTE(ichiban @ Apr 10 2004, 12:36 AM) Sometimes I wish my family would be like those in movies .. where its like a totally happy family .. yeah... Bumpy in the beginning and at the end all close and junk... Thats why its a movie... |
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Apr 14 2004, 09:36 AM
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 Live Your Own Party Group: Member Posts: 1,261 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,489 |
im sorry, but there is nothing you can do. my parents have been divorced since i was six. i don't think you should worry about it. i mean, if my parents were still together, they'd probobly be dead by now. lol. but i still see both parents equily. joint custudy. one week at my dad's then one week at my mom's.
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