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 Apr 10 2005, 04:58 PM
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edited&translated: I told my boyfriend that he couldn`t like anybody else during a relationship because there wouldn`t be a point of a relationship if you liked someone else..he got this reaction(I don`t wanna post it up) but I know for sure that he doesn`t like anybody but me. After I got 'caught' for liking somebody else, he got mad and deleted most of my info about him on my site(in my profile).
What do you think? Are you allowed to have feelings for somebody else during a relationship? translation by: miszSERENiTY |
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Apr 10 2005, 05:00 PM
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 I have no life Group: Member Posts: 1,119 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,675 |
First of all could you pleaze stop typing lyke tis kuz it's lyke so lyke annoying.....
Ok now to the question....I don't think you should have feelings for someone else in a relationship, I mean, you can flirt with other girls....all guys do that including me....but having feelings for another girl, he might as well leave you for that girl |
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Apr 10 2005, 05:01 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
umm kinda of hard to read what u typed..please type normally..
and i think its not ok to like someone else during a relationship... |
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Apr 10 2005, 05:17 PM
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 Take advantage of me. Group: Member Posts: 912 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,792 |
QUOTE(pinayprincess @ Apr 10 2005, 2:58 PM) i otld my BF that he couldnt lyk nybody else during a relationship kuz there wudnt be a point of a relationship if u lyked sumone else.... he got this reaction [[dnt wana post upp]] but i kno fa sho that he dnt lyk nybody but me... after i got 'caught' for lykin sumbody else b4, he got madd nd deleted most of my info about him on my site [[in my profile]] wat do u think... ''are u allowed to have feelings for sumbody else during a relationship?'' [[... i think i answered my own question but wut do u guys/girls think?]]  Translation: I told my boyfriend that he couldn`t like anybody else during a relationship because there wouldn`t be a point of a relationship if you liked someone else..he got this reaction(I don`t wanna post it up) but I know for sure that he doesn`t like anybody but me. After I got 'caught' for liking somebody else, he got mad and deleted most of my info about him on my site(in my profile). What do you think? Are you allowed to have feelings for somebody else during a relationship? Of course you`re allowed to, just don`t carry out any actions that might f*ck up your realtionship though. |
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Apr 10 2005, 05:47 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
QUOTE(cocoalightning27 @ Apr 10 2005, 6:00 PM) First of all could you pleaze stop typing lyke tis kuz it's lyke so lyke annoying..... agreed....  The answer to your question....No...I don't think it's right to have feelings for someone else during a relationship. |
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Apr 10 2005, 05:53 PM
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 I like it when it rains. Group: Member Posts: 836 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,294 |
Please speak english.
I agree with everyone else, because if you do have feelings for someone else, you might start to cheat and that's a big no no. |
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Apr 10 2005, 06:19 PM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
its kinda hard to read what you typed.
its ok to have feelings for someone else. for example, if you're a guys, its ok to have feelings for another girl if shes related, a childhood friend, or a really good friend. same with girls. |
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Apr 10 2005, 06:25 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
well first of all you told your bf that he couldn't like anyone else but you, then you go around having feelings for someone else. i mean isn't that contradicting?
well you can have feelings for someone but just don't do or go anything beyond that. but the best is not to like anyone else |
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Apr 10 2005, 07:18 PM
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 blah Group: Member Posts: 313 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,360 |
QUOTE(cocoalightning27 @ Apr 10 2005, 5:00 PM) First of all could you pleaze stop typing lyke tis kuz it's lyke so lyke annoying..... Yes...plz... Anyways...I don't think it's right for anyone to like someone else besides his/her significant other. It's somewhat dishonest and hypocritical. |
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Apr 10 2005, 07:21 PM
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 WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
if you consider doing anything with anyone else during a relationship, then your relationship isn't that strong. to me, anyways.
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Apr 10 2005, 08:43 PM
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 Hah! Its funny cause its true... Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 89,954 |
Of course not. What kind of horrible person would do that?!?
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Apr 10 2005, 08:55 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
like feeling are hard to control so i don't blame you
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Apr 10 2005, 09:08 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
oh my god, will everyone just get over this "stop typing like that" bullsh*t? if you don't like it then don't read it and look at something else
 this is the thing, you most likely will have feelings for other people when you're in a relationship, most people don't admit it though. you're young, just because he's your boyfriend doesn't mean that you have to be with him for life, if you truly want to be with someone else, then be with that person. don't beat around the bush, because you'll just like him more while your boyfriend likes you more and everything will just be worse, might as well pull the band aid off quickly instead of prolonging the pain. |
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Apr 10 2005, 09:41 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
QUOTE(chii @ Apr 10 2005, 7:08 PM) oh my god, will everyone just get over this "stop typing like that" bullsh*t? if you don't like it then don't read it and look at something else oh my god, will you just get over the fact that people are annoyed by shitty typing!!!! If you don't like it then don't read it and look at something else. And obviously you should not really have feelings for anyone else. If you do, then you are not truly committed. |
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Apr 10 2005, 10:37 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
i think thats a really bad thing. u shouldnt like n e one else. that's really bad cuz then u'll wanna be with that person n then ur relationship will go bad so u should just end it if thats the case
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Apr 10 2005, 10:42 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,443 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,050 |
are you just stupid??? its called a relationship for a reason you like that person and should only like that person what the hell are you still with him if you like another person??? i think thats just dumb meaning your relationshiop with him is fake and should be broken up
why ask such a dumb question? .:tony:. |
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Apr 10 2005, 10:42 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
QUOTE(chii @ Apr 10 2005, 9:08 PM) oh my god, will everyone just get over this "stop typing like that" bullsh*t? if you don't like it then don't read it and look at something else this is the thing, you most likely will have feelings for other people when you're in a relationship, most people don't admit it though. you're young, just because he's your boyfriend doesn't mean that you have to be with him for life, if you truly want to be with someone else, then be with that person. don't beat around the bush, because you'll just like him more while your boyfriend likes you more and everything will just be worse, might as well pull the band aid off quickly instead of prolonging the pain. i think thats a really bad thing. u shouldnt like n e one else. that's really bad cuz then u'll wanna be with that person n then ur relationship will go bad so u should just end it if thats the case. but then if your bond is as strong as its should be then u wouldnt be liking another guy. n plus pple dont usually start liking another guys in a relationship if it's strong enough. n no not everyone starts liking other pple in a relationship. some pple think that other pple are good looking n stuff but they dont start liking them really. i dont. its just...watever. dont think that everyone thinks like that cuz every person is unique. n how would u know wat everyone in this world thinks? ur not everyone in this world. u dont know wat goes through thier heads. |
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Apr 10 2005, 11:27 PM
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dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(cHuNsAbAbIe012 @ Apr 10 2005, 10:42 PM) i think thats a really bad thing. u shouldnt like n e one else. that's really bad cuz then u'll wanna be with that person n then ur relationship will go bad so u should just end it if thats the case. but then if your bond is as strong as its should be then u wouldnt be liking another guy. n plus pple dont usually start liking another guys in a relationship if it's strong enough. n no not everyone starts liking other pple in a relationship. some pple think that other pple are good looking n stuff but they dont start liking them really. i dont. its just...watever. dont think that everyone thinks like that cuz every person is unique. n how would u know wat everyone in this world thinks? ur not everyone in this world. u dont know wat goes through thier heads. so since that's what you believe i'm completely wrong?  go ahead and believe that people who are in "strong" relationships never cheat |
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Apr 10 2005, 11:33 PM
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 ^_^ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,141 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,466 |
I refuse to help you because you refused to allow the school system to help you with grammar and spelling. I hope everything works out for the best!
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Apr 11 2005, 12:44 AM
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 Heykidd. <3 Group: Member Posts: 74 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,701 |
 hMm... THaTs hARd... i mean.. u shud talk to the guy and stuff.. try to work it out and test ur feelings for both the people u like..Like.. u shud probably try to see who's the one u hav a future with.. Btw, if u talk to ur bf, and if he doesnt understand.. then hes not worth staying wid... cuz if he onli wanted u to be happie.. he wud probably let u go even if its gonna hurt him.. Hehe.. thats all.. =D hope that answers ur question |
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Apr 11 2005, 01:00 AM
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 HAAAAAAAA. Group: Member Posts: 4,472 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,068 |
uM....//...let meh c...can yoo plsz speek englsh? kthx
Anyways, I think it's wrong to have feelings for another person while you're in a relationship. You might start to become a slut like that. |
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Apr 11 2005, 06:51 AM
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 The windmills of your mind .. Group: Member Posts: 1,317 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 83,699 |
I dont think you should like anyone else but your boyfriend if your in a relationship.
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Apr 11 2005, 08:25 AM
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 "(A.k.a. H.K.T.)" Group: Member Posts: 202 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 110,787 |
ps.................like i would noe
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Apr 11 2005, 11:39 AM
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 Im as fake as a widow's smile ;) Group: Member Posts: 1,045 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 97,851 |
WE SPEAK ENGLiSH iN THiS COUNTRY..ok i need to stop..anyway
If you like someone else, and you told him he couldn`t, you`re a fcukin hypocrite..kay im done =) |
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Apr 11 2005, 06:25 PM
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 baby, be good to me Group: Member Posts: 592 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,358 |
Seriously , learn to type.
I don't think someone is mature enough to be in a relationship in the first place if they aren't capable of liking only one person. It's just not right, and proves that they don't genuinely care about the person they are dating. |
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Apr 12 2005, 03:47 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 349 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,513 |
QUOTE(Shortiiex @ Apr 10 2005, 8:55 PM) like feeling are hard to control so i don't blame you I totally agree, it doesn't make you a bad bf/gf you can't help it, as long as your honest and up front, you have to let them know from you b4 they find out another way, and make the situation worse, a relationship grows stronger through fighting problems you have. |
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Apr 12 2005, 09:57 PM
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Jessica Group: Member Posts: 480 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,118 |
i don't think that it would be right, cus if you do have feelings for another, what was the point of the relationship? o.O
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Apr 12 2005, 10:45 PM
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 highfive. Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,951 |
I don't think that liking someone else while you're in a relationship is good. But if that's how you feel, you can't help it. Don't do anything to push those feelings foward, or goodbye relationship.
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Apr 18 2005, 07:07 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 69 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 121,896 |
I think it's bad cause like then your'll just prove to your bf or gf that you don't really like them and you sort of think you should break up......
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Apr 18 2005, 07:09 PM
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 RAWR. Group: Member Posts: 2,585 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,641 |
if you have feelings for someone else, then leave the person you are with. easy.
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Apr 19 2005, 08:29 AM
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 *~*Yo IcY FrEsH AzN!!*~* Group: Member Posts: 167 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 127,747 |
hmmm well i would say once in a while u could be lilke walkindown da street or something and be like whoa....look at dat hunk hehehehe...but if u guyz truly care about each other then...u should never have feelings for anyone else in dat way.....feelings between da 2 of u should be unique...other than that....ur bf would just laugh at u when u compliment other guys hehehe...just make sure its not an everyday thing....
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Apr 19 2005, 09:48 AM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
nope u shouldnt have started liking n e one during a relationship. then u dont really wanna b with the person ur with.
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