What a huge flirt! |
 Apr 8 2005, 02:58 PM
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This guy in my school and I always used to talk constantly. we were best friends and then we liked each other and went out (all that good jazz) and then we broke up. We remained the best of friends to this day. But lately ( 6 weeks... round there) I have recovered my feelings for him. and They arent those "omg I miss him" feelings. I truely like him. and he has been the biggest flirt with me. For maybe 2 weeks now. and today he complained about me asking for a hug today (when he asks every other time. ) and kinda didnt talk to me. And just seemed so weird.
 Question : Should I call and ask whats going on? Or sit here and wait in fear? edit: I really dont know if he likes me or not, but it sure seems like it. 
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Apr 8 2005, 03:00 PM
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 I have no life Group: Member Posts: 1,119 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,675 |
Call him........if you sit there and wait in fear then you'll never find out if he likes you
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Apr 8 2005, 03:32 PM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
well just be honest!
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Apr 8 2005, 03:39 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
you should ask him
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Apr 8 2005, 03:55 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
I think he just wants to maintain the good Best Friends thing. Idk if he likes you or not but I say u should ask him. If not, then w/e
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Apr 8 2005, 10:21 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
It never hurts to call.
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Apr 8 2005, 11:02 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,443 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,050 |
commnumication call him
.:tony:. |
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Apr 8 2005, 11:05 PM
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 evelyn* <3 Group: Member Posts: 38 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,438 |
talk to him and try to get things clear or else evrythg will be in the huge muddle of mess as it is now. he's probably confused like ure =]
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Apr 8 2005, 11:06 PM
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 blah Group: Member Posts: 313 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,360 |
You should really ask him. Maybe he isn't comfortable because he doesn't see you that way anymore.
P.S. Maintaining your friendship with your ex, especially one who happened to be your best friend, hardly ever works out. Think about it. Someone ALWAYS ends up missing or liking the other and that person cannot stop because he/she ends up being around him/her too often. You need space in order to move on. Obviously, there wasn't enough space between you two. It may happen in movies, but it also happens in real life. If he likes you, that's a plus for you. If he doesn't, you may be mistaking his actions for flirting. |
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Apr 8 2005, 11:48 PM
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 Newbie Group: Member Posts: 9 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,164 |
you should talk to him. you'll never know what will happen if you just sit there and wonder what would have happen.
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Apr 8 2005, 11:55 PM
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 High Voltage!∞ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
mm yes, I say confront him
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Apr 9 2005, 12:10 AM
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 highfive. Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,951 |
Ooh. Since you're very close to him, call him up and tell him whats up. Heh.
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Apr 9 2005, 12:21 AM
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 rwar (; Group: Member Posts: 590 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,308 |
well, if i were you, id jst wait it out.
but then again, i usually dont do the right things in these situations cause im too shy. sooooo what you should do issssssss call him =D |
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Apr 9 2005, 12:40 AM
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 dripping destruction Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,282 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,929 |
even if he likes you he might say no.
you've gone out once. |
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Apr 9 2005, 12:30 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 179 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 82,420 |
thanks guys and girls.
I'll call him and see whats going on |
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Apr 9 2005, 03:03 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
just ask him. it will be alot easier if you just knew sooner than waiting around for him to tell you or not tell you at all. =/
i personally don't think it is good whenever best friends go out. 
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Apr 9 2005, 07:28 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
u can always ask...u should talk to him about since u DID go out with him bfore it might be comfortable to talk to with him.
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