boyfriend is sad Options

[ix3youx33]

is there a way that i could make my boyfriend happier? like he seems happy and all when i see him like we walk home together after school and he walks me TO school and we hold hands and everything but like sometimes he just seems so depressed does anyone know why maybe cuz like sometimes when hes all sad and then like when i'm with him hes like not sad anymore and then like its really weird.. and sometimes when hes with his friends hes happy and like ok iono wat i jus said but like yeah help !!

[gigiopolis]

You're asking US why he's sad? I don't know. You're the girlfriend. At least give us a little bit more information so we could at least ponder the possibilities.

[Chii]

maybe he wants to talk to you or take you out somehwere but he doesn't know how to...

or things can be going on at home, you can try to talk to him but if he doesn't want to talk about it then don't pester him into telling you

try to tickle him or make funny faces, that's what i do sometimes

[_sarcastic_]

ask him what's going on. he's happy when he's around you and his friends maybe cause he doesn't want to show you how sad he really is and doesnt want you to worry

[ix3youx33]

no like but usually he all sad when hes with his friends and yeah and then like sometimes he just gives me a random hug and i'm like uhh ok so yeah and is everything ok? and hes like its nothing really and i'm like *-*

[ichiban]

You're the girlfriend so try asking him what's up and make him happy :]

[No1_2_NoBody13]

My boifriend is like that...like he has really big anger prob. like its really werid...at school and at random times hes just pissed but when hes around me or talking to me hes so happy and care free...i dont even think he knows what wrong with him...but oh well...

[--x who0ps]

mm, jst talk to him & ask why he was depressed & stuff.
theres nothing eles to do i guess?
if he`s happy around you, then hang out with him more (:

[yukichan]

talk to him..it could be anything..friends, family, school work, etc.. ask him and try to find out..

[AznVi3tGrl]

talk to him how in the worl are we supose to know we dunno him? Hey maybe it's puberty LoL

[Loserwithstyle]

Talk to him about it. Tell him that he can open up to you and you won't repeat any of it. And make sure you aren't pressuring him to do stuff (when talking) or he might regret talking to you.

[*mzkandi*]

ummm talk to him...my psychic powers are not working tonight

[whomps]

You need to ask him why he's sad.. you need to talk to him. How can you expect us to know? o-O

[heyyfrankie]

i agree with them ^ up there. how would we know? but if you really want to know, ask him. maybe he doesn't like his homelife or something. just ask him...not us.

[laur3nw]

Talk to him. We wouldn't know why he's sad because we don't know him. Comfort him.

[Dark Saga]

haha.. Get him some Jack In The Box in the morning, that always makes me feel better..

[vampireduster]

talk to him about it. just be there for him. if he wants some space to think then give it to him. do that. that helps you and him.

[shortiiex]

you can give him space or talk to him or offer sex

[cHuNsAbAbIe012]

ask him if he wants to talk about watever is going on. dont push him tho. do things to keep it off his mind n talk to him about stuff that isnt depressing. n yea...a blow job or sex is always an option...depends on who u are. that will definitely help him forget about watever it is he is stressing about. or do something special for him just for the heck of it. or just do watever he asks...like wenever he wants to see u then go see him. make an effort to do wat he asks or if u do know wat he wants to do then just do it without asking. simple things like that even makes a person feel so much better.

[LittleLulu]

ask him

be like "hey, well i've noticed that you've been sad sometimes..whats the matter? you can tell me."

and stuff like that..we're not phsycic....we dont know

[bravodancer04]

talk to him..it could be anything..friends, family, school work, etc.. ask him and try to find out..

^^it`s probly stress or something.

[cleec]

Woah weird, my ex boyfriend was just like that. He was only happy when me and him were alone, but in school he seemed very sad and moody. We broke up, so really this story has no point, but if I were to do things differently I would have made him talk to me, I mean if your guy is one of those who is always like "no, no, I'm alright i swear" and you know he is lying then you should try Most of the time they just want to know someone is noticing

[FoOd]

If you noticed something with your boyfriend, just ask him. I mean, if its something something that was bothering him, wouldn't be an instinct as the girlfriend(or someone close to the person) to console him and find out whats wrong?

[someflipguy]

Tell him he better be happy or you will dump him!

[starlette]

Tell him he better be happy or you will dump him!

haha. Thats the right attitude. Make his more depressed than he already is.


I think that maybe you should sit down and have a heart to heart. I mean, I don't have any idea how old you are, but I know that I've had guy friends who went thru phases of unhappiness, just because they weren't 100% sure of who they were, where they were going, and who they wanted going there with them. Maybe its just a little uncertainty, or maybe hes having problems at home. Most important thing is, you have to ask questions, and do it in an appropriate environment aka not in the hallway between classes. do it somewhere that he knows he has your undivided attention. Hes more likely to open up that way. No one likes to get cut off by a bell.

[thaichic192]

Something like family problems or something, etc. etc.... Then again, I don't know your bf. You should ask him, and if you know he's not alright yet he says everything is fine or not to worry about it then comfort him. He may not always want to talk about it...As long as you hold his hand or give him a hug, comforting actions that reassure you that you're there for him will make him feel better. Just tell him you're there for him and he can talk to you about anything.

[kryzcoak47luv666]

We can't tell you why he's sad, we don't know him, you do tho, ask him, just tell him you know somethings wrong, and assure him you'll be there for him, and tell him you want to help him get through his problems.

[Rachel]

How the hell do you expect us to help?

well, you should first start try figuring out whats wrong. is there something wrong in his life? thats when you come in and you are suppose to make him feel better while knowing the situation.

also remember to do anything you can if you get a chance to make him smile. could something happened during the day...acting stupid to make him smile......etc.

[pingpang_0811]

u should find the problem out. u said he's happy when he's with u, that means it's absolutely not becoz of u. maybe he had some sad events with his classmates so when he goes to school everyday, he seems so sad. maybe stress is also a problem.
but the most important thing is talk with him, ask him. or ask his fds if they discover or not.
i dun think having sex with him to make him feel happier is a good idea.

hope u can find it out and look into it, then ur bf will be happy all the time!

[joejoe22802]

WHoa THAT Sounds so much like me lmao well when im with my gf its like its all good and theres nothing to worry bout but when im not with her i think bout some bad things on my mind and yea im kinda breakin with her and stuff so iono i didnt really ask her out she just pushed and i went with it i guess sigh ok yea

[AsianUniQ]

first of all, giving him a blowjob or offering sex would only please him. Not make him happy. He'll forget about stress, but it doesn't mean that he will be any happier. So our problem is to make him happy, not distract him from being so.

second of all, she is as clueless as us. That is why she post this entry, and requires a "helpful" reply. And that's wut ill do.

boys ared weird. They had something like a split personality. So he's two differnt person when either being around you or his freinds. when he's around friends, they tend to share a common interest, which helps in expressing who he is. but when he's around you, things are a little more mutual. Becuase he's actually sharing his time with you. If he's the type of bf who would always tell you everything, then you shouldn't worry bout him. He's not as sad as you think. Maybe you are over exaggerating a lil bit. When im with my gf, i seem so quiet and sad. But actually i'm really happy, becuase I get to spend that precious time with her, and nothing else matters. But anywyas, if he's not the type that would tell u everything, then its up to you to confront, so...do your job as a gf. And we'll see

[icy_angelx]

maybe he doesn't like to be alone....or maybe he's thinking of asking you something but he just can't sooo he ponders about it....

[rockbass60]

its seems from what your saying is hes happy when people are around him, maybe he has social problems or sumthing, ask him wuts up

[blah122986]

maybe he's havein problems at home or something...u should talk to him..just keep makin him comfortable.....i usually tell muh gf everything...so usually it helps when i do ...hehe..