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 Apr 7 2005, 06:14 PM
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i just a new bf and i know that a lot of pple say i luv u rite as they get together. do i have to say it or am i not really into him?
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Apr 7 2005, 06:17 PM
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No, you dont have to said it. You dont know him much and he is your NEW bf. what you want to said seem to be a powerful word.
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| *Azarel* |
Apr 7 2005, 06:18 PM
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Really now? Boy problems about a boy?? That has to be impossible.
 This is in the wrong forum. Should be moved to relationships. You define love. Don't follow what other people say. 
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| *autumn.* |
Apr 7 2005, 06:18 PM
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please don't say it.
i hate it when people say "i love you" right after they have been together for one day....it ruins the phrase. |
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Apr 7 2005, 06:34 PM
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 Class of 2005!!! Group: Member Posts: 1,132 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,080 |
Like Anna said, wrong fourm..
Don't say I LOVE YOU to him. I mean, yeah, after you're dating a year, yeah, you should say it to each other, unless you're not in love with him (duh) only say it when u want to, not any other time.. |
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Apr 7 2005, 06:39 PM
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 Its hard for me to tell you Group: Member Posts: 734 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,326 |
No. Don't say it right away. Say it when you actually are in love with him.
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Apr 7 2005, 06:41 PM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
Moved to Relationships.
You don't have to say "I love you" just because your going out..I know what the pressures like though. With my first bf, he said "I love you" the first day. I didn't say it back..because I didn't feel it back at that time. |
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Apr 7 2005, 06:45 PM
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 Nobody Knows Your Heart. Group: Member Posts: 388 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,906 |
don't say it. everyone says "oh, i love you" when they're like 12 or 13 years old but it's not really love, it's LIKE. but since they can't (i know i couldn't back then. heck, i don't even know what love IS; i never had a bf anyway) see the difference between like and love, they just call it love cause it sounds better.
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Apr 7 2005, 07:10 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 78 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 104,678 |
yeah cus like it bugs me how everyone says it and i know its just like a lie. and that just bugs me! but i just wanted to know
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Apr 7 2005, 07:18 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
only say it when you know you mean it. other than that no don't say it
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Apr 7 2005, 07:22 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 57 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 82,407 |
only say it when you feel that you are ready to say it. don't let other people pressure you into saying it. and like the person above said, say it when you know you mean it.
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Apr 7 2005, 07:27 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
You say it when you have been with this guy for a long time..you say it when you are ready and your feelings show that you love this guy....you don't have to say anything...Besides...it's a new relationship...so...don't stress so much about those three words..
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Apr 7 2005, 07:32 PM
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 Hah! Its funny cause its true... Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 89,954 |
Love has sort of lost it's meaning these days hasn't it? I mean teenagers are ALWAYS telling eachother that they love eachother and just ruins the whole word. Now there is no word to really express your feelings towards eachother.
Don't tell him you love him because it's just way too early. |
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Apr 7 2005, 07:35 PM
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LiL LADY Group: Member Posts: 30 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,294 |
nah, you don`t have to tell him you 'love' him. don`t tell him unless you really mean it .. its a strong word. & u`d feel kinda shitty if he told u he loved u & didn`t mean it right? so yea :]
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
Apr 29 2005, 10:48 AM
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no way, you guys just started going out. Saying I love you is when you`re sure, like when you`re a 1 year relationship or married. I mean you don`t have too if you only "like him alot" don`t say it just cause it sounds better say it when you mean it.
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Apr 29 2005, 10:55 AM
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 Perfectionist, Loner, Confident, Mysterious, Imperfect, Kevyn Group: Member Posts: 370 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,095 |
Oh my...no do NOT say that to him if you do NOT mean it.
Love is such a precious thing to wield but teenagers today twist it so much, I fear that love will not have a meaning anymore. (even some adults.) That's what you'll experience in high school , peer pressure and people will force you to do things. I bet you some day down the line some idiot guy will force you to say "I love you." to them. If you don't feel that way there's no need to say it! Love is something that lasts over time, and just because everyone else is doing it does that mean you have to? No...save those words... The three most powerful words "I love you." are waiting for it's rightful holder to cherish. Don't throw it away like the majority of the teenagers today. -Kevyn |
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Apr 29 2005, 11:03 AM
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 ticktock. Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,235 |
you dont have to say it. it's not required o.0
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Apr 29 2005, 12:26 PM
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I'm Cattt. :] Group: Validating Posts: 1,722 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,831 |
words dont say if you love him. your actions say if you really love him. if he needs words to know that you love him, then he's just really clueless. he should know that you at least care about him since you agreed to go out with him.
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