boyfriend?, is he for me? Options

[irenex3]

i have this boyfriend and like after he got with me he never talks to me unless its on aim. he sometimes ignores me like i juss stand next to him and he juss leaves with his buddies. i told him how i felt and he told me her loved me but iono if thats true. my question is if hes right for me cuz i still have feelings for him but he ignores me. im not even sure if were really together. and its been one year and months

[x LUV x ALWAYS x]

you have to talk to him again. and MAKE him listen. don't let him get away just with "i love you", because that's easy to say to anyone. tell him that you feel ignored and if he doesn't change how he's acting, you guys aren't together anymore.

if he doesnt listen, dump him. it's not right to treat a gf or a bf like that.

[Ington]

Thats freaking stupid.

1. This should be in relationships.
2. How are we going to help you? Obviously he doesn't like you. Dump him before he dumps you. You're stupid for sticking with him.

[KELLYYY]

Thats freaking stupid.

1. This should be in relationships.
2. How are we going to help you? Obviously he doesn't like you. Dump him before he dumps you. You're stupid for sticking with him.

Agreed, He's an idiot. DUMP HIM.

[MiLKDUD_DOKiE]

OMG one year? i agree with the others x(

[stenni]

Ok you've been together for one year and he doesnt talk to you at all. Maybe he doesnt like you as much anymore and he cant stand to break your heart. Or maybe he isnt used to having a gf and doesnt know what to do? Either way you need to talk to him and clear things up, and if he is seriously just being a jerk, get rid of him and find someone who wants to be with their gf and wants to talk with her.

[ilauqh]

maybe he doesn't really like you... you should really try to talk or break it off.. don't make urself seem despriate bc ur staying with someone that barely talks to you...

[iTs dopey]

yeh you guys should talk

[pinayprincess]

omgggggggg same exact story... lol..i mean before.. but now i got it straight w/ him, making him realize tha simple things of our relatioship, fo being togehter... talking it out, ova nd ova again

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

Or maybe he`s just shy who knows, try being the one who start the conversations next time and if he leaves pull him back and say you need to talk to him. I mean he has to DEVOTE some time to you.

[onemanshow]

obivously.. i even doubt that are u guys even together...

[vampireduster]

get someone who will talk to you no mattter where. To me it seems like he isnt caring about you enough

[multifaceted]

get a new boyfriend. he's being a perv

[WrathOfOnigo]

I beg of you please please pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeease read this cause I can't let this turn out like my stupid relationship !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! PLEASE just do this for me...

I come from his side of the story. With my ex I would run away with my buddies and just only talk to him on AIM.
Here's my reasonings though, I am a really shy person and I had never had a boyfriend before so I wasn't sure what to do. You know what my ex did? He broke up with me! I spent a week being depressed and hating myself because I had to be such a b!tch and destroy the relationship. But now I regret ignoring him every single day and hate myself since he is now in love with another girl more than he was with me...

So just talk to him about it and MAKE him talk about it to you in PERSON. You never know if you will crush his heart forever. Tell him you think the relationship is dieing because of him ignoring you and tell him you will give him a week to make things better. If he tries to make it better he truly does still love you, but if he doesn't then dump him.

Or send him a virus as payback

[moo.]

tell him to get his acts straight and ignore him until he tries to talk to you.
if he just doesnt try to get you to talk to him, i guess he doesnt want you.

[T_R_G]

Um you sure he knows you guys are going out? lol
talk to him about it
tell him how you feel whenever you can
whenever you think the time is right.
if he still continues to do so do the same thing to him or just leave him overall.
you dont need that.
he should be there for you and not ditch you like that.
if nothing works then ya just leave him.
you could do A LOT better

[sumipark]

maybe he's shy or something..i unno

[sheddingtears]

what? one year and 6 months and you only talk to each other on AIM?

it could be that he's embarassed of you around his friends and just wants a girlfriend ...

OR

it could be that he's really shy

tell him how you feel about him ignoring you ... and find out why he does.

[rOckThISshYt]

Uh.. I'd say he's not for you.

[enyceXaddiction]

heh dis happen ALOT happened to me fur every relationship ive been in. i find it very brave of yu to even tell him how yu felt he shud've juss gotten a clue den. wah reallu surprised me was yu've been 2gether 1 year n months it usually does end up like dah. mostly i dink its cuz hes really shy if dahs not dah case den i suggest yu to break it off wif him!

[dahding]

sounds like ur just a trophy. meaning, ur just for show towards his other friends. there's no emotion backed by what he said. talk is cheap. so pfft, so what if he said he loves u. if he doesn't really mean it, what's the point in actually saying it? cheap talk.

[loljuliana]

talk to him; and tell him straight up how you feel. you cant let him keep doing this to you.

[jue]

oh wo; a year and something months; thats longgg; maybe he is just shy with his friends around and all; if you guys lasted so long maybe you two were ment to be together. get some time ALONE togehter

[_sarcastic_]

he's not for you, dump his sorry a$$