another year... another chance? |
 Apr 5 2005, 10:30 PM
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te quiero  Group: Banned Posts: 2,586 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,678  |
the guy i like this year happens to be the same guy i liked last year.
the thing is... last year, towards the end of spring semester, he started acting like a complete a-hole. i didn't know why... he just did. this year, it seems all different. he's so nice and sweet and it's like he's a completely different person. my friends keep telling me that i have a really good chance with him. i asked him in the beginning of the year if he ever heard a rumor that i liked him last year, and he said "no". that turned out to be a lie. his friend told me that he knew ever since after spring break... and i believe him. so... last year, i liked him, he found out, and he started being a complete ass. this year... i like him again... he doesn't know. he hasn't changed, i haven't changed... do you think if he finds out, he'll act like an idiot again? that's probably a sign that he doesn't like me at all. should i just give up completely on him? |
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Apr 5 2005, 10:36 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
if i were u melissa, id forget about him.
been there. done that. trust me, its ####. |
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Apr 6 2005, 12:21 AM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
hmm..if he finds out that u like him, he might be like that again..i kinda agree with ^^
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Apr 6 2005, 12:35 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
I also agree with Mercedes, it's not really worth it. Wouldn't you rather be good friends with him than tell him you like him, and then he starts acting like a real jerk? I don't think I'd want to take a chance o nit..
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Apr 6 2005, 01:03 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
^ I agree.
He's acting like an a**hole whenever he hears you like him. So what's the point of liking him? A guy like that doesn't deserve to be crushed on. |
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Apr 6 2005, 06:19 AM
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 former member Group: Member Posts: 706 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 122,339 |
i have made an observation among (immature) guys that goes something like this: when a(n) (immature) guy likes a girl he feels the need to pick on them so they get mad and hit him back because who doesnt want the person they like to be pyssed at them?
prolly has nothing to do with you since you two are older than me but i know its true where i live and im hoping its not where you live. but maybe last year he found out you liked him and he was too embarrassed to tell you how he felt so he was just a complete douchebag so youd get mad at him and hit him. and if thats the case then i say dont go out with him because you may like him a lot but hes still immature, and to be honest, i dont like immature guys. and if hes not immature then he wouldn't have been a complete douchebag for no reason other than he liked you, which makes him just a complete douchebag with no excuses. so when all is said and done......i say you need to slap yourself in the face a few times to come to your senses and see how immature he was/is and try to get over him. i say give up on him. hope everything works out alright |
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Apr 6 2005, 07:49 AM
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 Another ditch in the road... you keep moving Group: Member Posts: 6,281 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,152 |
^^
actually, that sounds fun but w/e yeah you're better off going for someone who hasnt already proven themselves to be generally repulsive |
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Apr 6 2005, 11:02 AM
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 blah Group: Member Posts: 313 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,360 |
I'd forget about him. This guys sounds two-faced and besides, it sounds like you don't trust him too much.
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Apr 6 2005, 03:51 PM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 2,586 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,678 |
ugh i dont know. you guys don't understand it fully, it's too complicated to explain. i like him way too much to let go... i remember that every time i start talking to him again.
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Apr 6 2005, 06:46 PM
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i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
QUOTE([X) poised,Apr 6 2005, 3:51 PM]ugh i dont know. you guys don't understand it fully, it's too complicated to explain. i like him way too much to let go... i remember that every time i start talking to him again.  i know what you mean. kind of. I went out with a guy for 9 months. I thought id last forever, but then.. he started to cheat on me. He cheated on me once, but i was too blinded and let it slide. He cheated on me twice before i finnaly let him go. He called me, and i could feel my heart skip. I still kind of like him u know? And everytime i think of him, i remember what we used to have. I went out with him again 4 months later, hoping he changed.but he didnt. he cheated again. he took me for granted. I know what its like to try and forget someone, but try hard. <3 |
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Apr 6 2005, 06:50 PM
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 RAWR. Group: Member Posts: 2,585 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,641 |
well..people do change...and guys are weird. So I say just be friends with him and see what happens. I know there guys I couldnt help but like...that I could never get with, but are all still to this day, great friends of mine. So I say make that your priority...good friendships last a long time. Also, I know guys that when they like a girl, and people know of a different girl that likes him, he kinda wants to push that away so the girl he has feelings for doesnt think hes taken. So he probably wasnt trying to be mean, just trying to help himself out, and guys sometimes forget how that makes us feel.
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Apr 6 2005, 07:13 PM
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 reluctantly gazing Group: Member Posts: 472 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 120,555 |
i don't know. i've had many friends who i ended up liking a lot, and because i am kind of a tomboy although its fading, i hang out with guys much more than girls at school. There is a group of boys who i am very good friends with and i've liked two people (and still like one of them) from that group. both times, since i'm friends with them, people ended up spreading rumors that i liked the person because i would hang out with them a lot or all the time at school for a while. i'm not sure if they ever believed it or not but they never really treated me differently, only one of them was a complete a-hole at the BEGINNING of this year, not when the rumors started, and shortly after that i stopped liking him and started liking another friend. There are even more rumors about us around, and this time its both ways, not just me liking the guy. he doesn't treat me any differently, in fact he and i have become better friends since the rumors started and i am considering asking him out.
however back to the point. if the guy hears that you like him and starts being an a-hole again, just move on to another guy. he's not worth the time moping over. |
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Apr 6 2005, 07:23 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
I kinda agreed with everyone who said that he's not worth it...if you have a better chance of becoming good friends with him where he's not an idiot....be a good friend...don't let him know that someone [in this instance you] have a crush on him....he might be a jerk again....
In short...he doesn't deserve your affection...I think you should just forget about anything relating to being more than friends with him... 
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