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 Apr 2 2005, 05:13 PM
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 Take advantage of me.  Group: Member Posts: 912 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,792  |
O...heres this guyI like..and apparently he likes me too...but I can never read him! And he gets mad at me and I don`t even know why...what do I do ????
him (1:37:36 PM): hey him (1:37:37 PM): wats up so freshhhhhh (1:37:40 PM): hey nm so freshhhhhh (1:37:44 PM): you ? him (1:38:09 PM): nothin really ujst chillin at home him (1:38:13 PM): wat are u bout to do today so freshhhhhh (1:38:30 PM): sounds lke fun.. so freshhhhhh (1:38:34 PM): nothing him (1:39:08 PM): tighttight so freshhhhhh (1:39:23 PM): did you kick it wih taylor nd kayla yesterday ? him (1:40:11 PM): no i got in troubl and got grounded so freshhhhhh (1:40:16 PM): ohh him (1:42:45 PM): yea him (1:42:53 PM): but wat ever then so freshhhhhh (1:43:12 PM): yuup.. him (1:43:19 PM): alright jk him (1:43:22 PM): ill talk to u later so freshhhhhh (1:43:25 PM): why ? him (1:43:31 PM): nothin so freshhhhhh (1:43:54 PM): r u mad at me ? so freshhhhhh (1:44:32 PM): sheesh... so freshhhhhh (1:44:45 PM): u need to speak your mind cuz i`m not psychic him(1:45:16 PM): um no i dont so freshhhhhh (1:45:22 PM): ok nvm then. him (1:45:45 PM): wat ever him (1:45:47 PM): bye so freshhhhhh (1:45:56 PM): ?? wtf did i do ?? so freshhhhhh (1:47:07 PM): :-\ him is away at 1:48:05 PM. so freshhhhhh (1:56:25 PM): can u please just talk to me... Auto response from him(1:56:26 PM): brb punk rock beezies... |
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Apr 2 2005, 05:17 PM
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i don't know the situation. it doesn't seem like he was really mad to begin with. maybe you just bothered him by asking if he was mad at you? i know a lot of my guy friends won't be mad at all and then when i ask them if they are mad at me, they all the sudden are.
 confusing i know. that's life... hope everything works out though! <3Sarah |
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Apr 2 2005, 05:45 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
it's called, ur being an annoying person and nothing was wrong in the first place. he got grounded, so he was bummed out. and then he said he had to go. then all of a sudden, u spring that question on his ass. "are u mad at me?" no. why would he be? and then ur going to go ahead and lecture him, saying how he should speak his mind and ur not psychic? maybe that's why he's a little ticked off. but not really angry. and then ur saying, "what did i do?" probably nothing. but ur pestering him about some non-existant crap. and then he goes away. "can u just talk to me please.." that's just getting really annoying. i know it's because u care, but sometimes, people just need time and space by themselves. so like, get off his case.
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Apr 2 2005, 05:49 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
QUOTE(miszSERENiTY @ Apr 2 2005, 5:13 PM) him (1:43:22 PM): ill talk to u later so freshhhhhh (1:43:25 PM): why ? him (1:43:31 PM): nothin so freshhhhhh (1:43:54 PM): r u mad at me ?  okay i dont understand that. why wuld u ask why he has to talk to you later? Why did u ask if he was mad at you? yall started off the conversation fine. U just annoyed him thats it. |
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Apr 2 2005, 05:52 PM
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 poison is pretty. Group: Member Posts: 95 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,648 |
i didn't understand most of that conversation...
even if he's not mad at you...if you keep interrogating him about it.. he's probably going to get mad at you. for being a pain ..yeah. |
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Apr 2 2005, 05:55 PM
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 j'adore =) Group: Member Posts: 723 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 107,848 |
okay..so he says he'll talk to you later and you assume he's mad at you? i think you overreacted just a tad. and the whole psychic bit? i think you need to relax when you talk to him and not freak out when he wants to leave. you probably scared him or annoyed him
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Apr 2 2005, 05:56 PM
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POWAPOSTA Group: Member Posts: 3,169 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,725 |
i think you annoyed him.
sorry, but i get annoyed when people think im mad at them. maybe he does. |
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Apr 2 2005, 06:02 PM
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Take advantage of me. Group: Member Posts: 912 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,792 |
No..you guys don`t understand...I guess I should have given background info first...he is hellla sensitive...and whenever he says "whatever" that means he`s mad. I think he was annoyed because I wasn`t asking if he wanted to hang out...thats why I was like "Speak your mind" because I`m not gonna be the one making all the moves...See ! He is really hard to read !
edit: Why do you think he said jk ? he was hinting that I should`ve said something cus he made it open for me to...okay you guys suck..I guess I just figured it out myself lol.. |
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Apr 2 2005, 06:38 PM
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whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
u asked for our opinion and advice. we gave it to u. so don't effing say that we suck, just because u don't like our advice. and i don't think u should be defining his thoughts and actions like that. just because someone says, "whatever" doesn't automatically mean that he's mad. and also, what, he has to want to hang out with u? that's just messed up.
if u think u know him so well, why the hell did u even bother to ask? 
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Apr 2 2005, 06:44 PM
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Take advantage of me. Group: Member Posts: 912 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,792 |
^^Well I didn`t really think about it...
Don`t get you panties in a bundle sheesh.. Don`t take the you suck thing personally I didn`t mean it to be rude I was jk... And I`m defining his thoughts because I know how he thinks...you obviously still do not get it...just FORGET IT. thanks though. 
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Apr 2 2005, 06:46 PM
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LOLOL1!!1111111!!!!11!11!1!1
dont ask if he's mad bc there was no basis for it. the only thing i see wrong is that you're probably annoying him by asking him. go watch hentai and chill out. |
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Apr 2 2005, 06:58 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
QUOTE(miszSERENiTY @ Apr 2 2005, 6:02 PM) okay you guys suck.. no we don't you didn't tell us the bg info, so we wouldn't know what to say. anyways you shouldn't jump to conclusions, just caz he said whatever you automatically assume that he's mad. even if he is, how do you know he's mad at you. |
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Apr 2 2005, 07:00 PM
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 blah Group: Member Posts: 313 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,360 |
From what I read, it didn't seem like he was mad at you and he just needed to go, but you kept assuming he was mad at you. He was probably just annoyed w/ the fact that you kept asking what was wrong when there wasn't anything wrong in the first place.
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Apr 2 2005, 07:03 PM
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WOW TALK ABOUT AN IMMATURE GUY...HES PROLLY DOING IT FOR ATTENTION SOUNDS LIKE A BIG LOSER TO ME
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Apr 2 2005, 07:07 PM
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blah Group: Member Posts: 313 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,360 |
QUOTE(malimars @ Apr 2 2005, 7:03 PM) WOW TALK ABOUT AN IMMATURE GUY...HES PROLLY DOING IT FOR ATTENTION SOUNDS LIKE A BIG LOSER TO ME Eh....  wuh?
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Apr 2 2005, 07:23 PM
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j'adore =) Group: Member Posts: 723 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 107,848 |
"Eh....
wuh?" -->i thought the samething  we certainly do not suck. we gave you our opinions. its your fault for not giving bg info :P |
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Apr 2 2005, 07:38 PM
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Take advantage of me. Group: Member Posts: 912 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,792 |
I`m sorry for saying you suck lol !! Really..don`t take it personally !
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Apr 2 2005, 08:11 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
QUOTE him (1:43:22 PM): ill talk to u later so freshhhhhh (1:43:25 PM): why ? him (1:43:31 PM): nothin so freshhhhhh (1:43:54 PM): r u mad at me ? so freshhhhhh (1:44:32 PM): sheesh... so freshhhhhh (1:44:45 PM): u need to speak your mind cuz i`m not psychic him(1:45:16 PM): um no i dont hmm... maybe he had to go and do something personal? lol like go to the bathroom? lol cuz i'd never want to tell someone i need to go  and maybe he was annoyed by you ordering him around with the "you have to speak your mind" thing... because how close are you?
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Apr 2 2005, 09:29 PM
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Take advantage of me. Group: Member Posts: 912 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,792 |
QUOTE(angel_revelation @ Apr 2 2005, 8:11 PM) hmm... maybe he had to go and do something personal? lol like go to the bathroom? lol cuz i'd never want to tell someone i need to go and maybe he was annoyed by you ordering him around with the "you have to speak your mind" thing... because how close are you? We`re pretty close...the reason I sad the speak your mind thing is because he`s hella shy and won`t tell me what he`s thinking so I have to talk to his friends all the time ! We`re about to hook up..but he`s all pissed...so I don`t even know anymore... 
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Apr 2 2005, 09:43 PM
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i think you are being paranoid.. maybe he wanted to do something else and youre making a big deal of it...
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Apr 2 2005, 09:53 PM
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Take advantage of me. Group: Member Posts: 912 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,792 |
^^Well, you are entitled to your own opinions.
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Apr 2 2005, 10:08 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
QUOTE(dahding @ Apr 2 2005, 6:45 PM) it's called, ur being an annoying person and nothing was wrong in the first place. he got grounded, so he was bummed out. and then he said he had to go. then all of a sudden, u spring that question on his ass. "are u mad at me?" no. why would he be? and then ur going to go ahead and lecture him, saying how he should speak his mind and ur not psychic? maybe that's why he's a little ticked off. but not really angry. and then ur saying, "what did i do?" probably nothing. but ur pestering him about some non-existant crap. and then he goes away. "can u just talk to me please.." that's just getting really annoying. i know it's because u care, but sometimes, people just need time and space by themselves. so like, get off his case. agreed.
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Apr 3 2005, 01:54 AM
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 Day's Nearly Over Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,553 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 45,183 |
.. It started crumbling down about the kicking part thing but it got ugly when you asked him if he was angry at you.
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Apr 3 2005, 01:27 PM
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Take advantage of me. Group: Member Posts: 912 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,792 |
OKay everyone ! He go the nerve to ask me and not try to hint at it. So thanks =]
him (11:21:57 AM): hey him (11:21:57 AM): wats up so freshhhhhh (11:22:03 AM): hey so freshhhhhh (11:22:07 AM): nothing much so freshhhhhh (11:22:09 AM): you? him (11:22:14 AM): nutin really him (11:22:22 AM): u wanna kick it today? so freshhhhhh (11:22:27 AM): sure so freshhhhhh (11:22:31 AM): what do you wanna do him (11:22:40 AM): idk wat ever u want is cool |
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Apr 3 2005, 09:11 PM
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blah Group: Member Posts: 313 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,360 |
QUOTE(Shattered_Hope @ Apr 2 2005, 10:08 PM) agreed. Eh...uhuh. keep on being paranoid and pestering him and interrogating him, he will have a problem with you. Just chill out.
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Apr 3 2005, 09:17 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
ur crazy...when he says hes gunna go, you go crazy. thats whats wrong
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Apr 3 2005, 09:30 PM
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stop asking if hes mad at you. and if hes going away and going to talk to you later, then just let him go.
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Apr 3 2005, 09:32 PM
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blah Group: Member Posts: 313 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,360 |
lol I think it's funny how everyone is saying the same thing basically and you still insist we are of no help.
Maybe it's just that you really have no idea what it is you are talking about...or maybe, it's just us.
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Apr 3 2005, 09:55 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
maybe he finds you annoying.
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Apr 3 2005, 09:58 PM
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 HAAAAAAAA. Group: Member Posts: 4,472 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,068 |
He just said "I'll talk to you later". He's not trying to say that he's mad at you.
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Apr 3 2005, 10:09 PM
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hmm, seems to me he's just really mad about what happened or maybe he's not in the mood to talk. people have their MAJOR mood swings sometimes, so dont take this stuff at heart. he'll come to his senses. better yet, if ur REALLY worried, i say you should call him, talk to him on the fone .. that way you get to see by the tone of his voice if he's mad or not.
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Apr 3 2005, 10:55 PM
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Take advantage of me. Group: Member Posts: 912 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,792 |
ITS OKAY PEOPLE. THE PROBLEM IS SOLVED...THANK YOU. YOU CAN STOP POSTING IN HERE NOW!
sheesh.. |
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Apr 3 2005, 11:06 PM
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whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
^^how about, calm down before u shart ur pants. u want this topic to be shut down? contact a staff member. otherwise, don't go all bitchy on us cause people want to help.
and i really doubt that the problem is going to stay solved. but that's just my opinion. glad he um, "asked u out" or whatever. hope it goes well or whatever. |
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Apr 3 2005, 11:42 PM
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^lol
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Apr 3 2005, 11:59 PM
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Take advantage of me. Group: Member Posts: 912 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,792 |
QUOTE(dahding @ Apr 3 2005, 11:06 PM) ^^how about, calm down before u shart ur pants. u want this topic to be shut down? contact a staff member. otherwise, don't go all bitchy on us cause people want to help. and i really doubt that the problem is going to stay solved. but that's just my opinion. glad he um, "asked u out" or whatever. hope it goes well or whatever. Why thank you. I`m really almost did shart my pants before you reminded me to calm down. I wasn`t being bitchy ? But whatever..you`re kind of rude. Have a nice day.
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Apr 4 2005, 12:06 AM
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whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
QUOTE(miszSERENiTY @ Apr 3 2005, 11:59 PM) Why thank you. I`m really almost did shart my pants before you reminded me to calm down. I wasn`t being bitchy ? But whatever..you`re kind of rude. Have a nice day. yeah, i am rude. and have u read how many people have been agreeing with me about how rude u were? oh wait, i forgot, u don't give a damn about other people's opinion when u ask for it. my bad. and thanks. i will have a nice day. cheerio. 
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Apr 4 2005, 01:04 AM
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Take advantage of me. Group: Member Posts: 912 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,792 |
Well...
I really have nothing to say to that. But okay.. |
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Apr 4 2005, 02:23 AM
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wtf. this guy seriously has a mental problem. the thing I would do in ur situation is prob just give him a taste of his OWN medicine - like probably the next time u talk, try saying "i gotta go, i'm going owt with my homegirls" or somethang. b4 him. buht iff he gets to say "bye" b4 u, just say "aiites, pce." dont talk to him any more than he wants to talk to u. and iff that doesnt work, then tell him to go to a physologist. he needs the help.
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Apr 4 2005, 01:55 PM
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it sounds like you're jumping to conclusions. when he first said "i'll take to you later", he probably had some appointment to get to.
i'm totally agreeing with dahding. |
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Apr 4 2005, 02:16 PM
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blah Group: Member Posts: 313 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,360 |
QUOTE(miszSERENiTY @ Apr 3 2005, 11:59 PM) Why thank you. I`m really almost did shart my pants before you reminded me to calm down. I wasn`t being bitchy ? But whatever..you`re kind of rude. Have a nice day. I say someone needs to stop being such a damn bitch and stop being so damn rude. You're calling ppl rude, but wasn't it you going "blah blah blah you guys suck blah blah I'm annoying blah blah you guys didn't help blah blah blah???" Yea...I'm thinking maybe THIS is the reason why he's annoyed. Oh but wait...somehow, we don't know what we are talking about. lol it's you against the whole world. Totally with dahding as well as with EVERYONE else who said you were probably just annoying him. Don't blog, asking for ppl's advice if you cannot take it or refuse to believe it. |
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