Bad clothes, flat chest..., ...anyone else had these problems? |
 Apr 1 2005, 03:31 PM
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yes, I'm complaining again, isn't that what the girl's locker is for?!
 here are my two problems, I was jsut wondering if anyone's ever had the same sort of problem: 1. Bad clothes. I'm acutally starting to get over my bad clothes spreee finally...but beleive me it took a while. My mom has no fashion sense and my dad ain't great either, not to mention they both hate shopping. When IW as little I had the most apaulling clothes, it's not even funny. When I was 10 - 13 I onyl wore one shirt, my butterfly shirt, it was really nasty now tha tI think back. tha'ts right, one shirt for 3 years  alll the rest were so ugly. and I dont' mean ugly as in "out of fashion" or "not the trend" I mean it as, I really don't care when you lived, these things made you look horrible. Same with my pants. I know it's partly my fautl cause I bought horrilbe suttf, but I Still wish my parents had a little more sens of fashion and helped me out a little...  it's still a problem but I'm getitng over it, I've finally managed to buy myslef a good pair of jeans and two nice t shirts...tha'ts aobut it..  2. Flat chest. Don't get me wrong, I don't want big boobs, that's not what is wrong with my chest, what is wrong with it is that I can only wear sport bras cause my boobs are too small ofr everything else. "why is that a problem?" you ask,well, it's a little complicated. IT's cause when I wear sport bras it doesn't give me that much support, and I don't mean like hiking up my boobs cause they're so small you couldn't even do that anyway, but I mean they're kinda...see through...in other words if I wear a thin shirts or a tigth tank top like the nipple shows throuhg kidan and..ya..not a pretty sight. and it's soooo hard to hfind any bras to fit me too. not to mention my mom has never worn bras in her entire life and it took me 2 years of crying to get the curage to ask her to buy bras with me....I know I'm chicken always have been, and I hate it  Anyway, I'm glad you guys are patient enough to read about my problems even though they are imature and useless to tell to you cause I guess I need emotional supprt either that or I'm jsut bored  thx |
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Apr 1 2005, 04:01 PM
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maybe try getting a job to earn a little extra money to buy you some nice clothes. Just because your parents don't seem to have fashion sense, doesn't mean you should have to carry that on.
Have you tried like a AA bra? they even have AAA bras out there.. At like JC Penney and Victoria's Secret.. They should give you a little more support. And you may not want your boobs bigger or anything, but getting a padded bra will help conceal your chest a little more when you wear thin shirts. |
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Apr 1 2005, 04:04 PM
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hmm...where do you buy your sport bras?
I bought mine at K-mart and they have good quality ones (They're Pumas). It's only for about 2 bucks each? Anyways, they're not thin, actually thick. |
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Apr 1 2005, 04:11 PM
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hehe, thanks guys, maybe I'll look aroudn more for bras...ya, I've onyl really tried The Bay and winners...winnders sucked
 I'll just have to give it a harder look once I get aroudn to asking my mom for more oh no, here it starts again, the quest for bras  about every 6 months I need mroe and get all upset about it  hah, I'm a loser. I can't wait till I can drive and go shoppign by myself, ahhh, heaven 
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Apr 1 2005, 04:16 PM
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 unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
well you're still young and have time to grow. Where I live, there's La Senza Girl, which carries AA bras for pretty cheap, maybe there's one where you live
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Apr 1 2005, 04:21 PM
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 xxtaintedlips Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,998 |
hmm..your prob sounds kinda like mine..try walmart..ya i know WALMART right..but it has some nice bras for all sizes! Believe me i started wearing bras a little when i was 7 and 8 and that is where i got them..im flat chested to and yes somtimes im a little nippy noodles but i just cross my arms and bare it.
As for the clothes deal...three words GET A JOB.. |
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Apr 1 2005, 04:22 PM
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 SCHGEB!SCHGEB! Group: Member Posts: 1,786 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,217 |
shop with ur friends.. duh
get padded bras... they wont make ur boobs look weird with tight shirts shop with ur friends for clothes and bras im sure they have a size bra for u..if u have little boobs they got little bras tryy 32AAA or something |
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Apr 1 2005, 04:24 PM
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xxtaintedlips Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,998 |
as for the driving prob..go shoping with friends and have your rents/their rents drop u off..NOT ALLOW TO GO SHOPPING ON YOUR OWN?? then tell them you are buying them somthin for their bday and u dont want them to see then sneek off and buy your self some bras!
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Apr 1 2005, 04:26 PM
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xxtaintedlips Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,998 |
by the way ur boobs must not be that small cuz u do stick out a little so im sure..SURE SURE there is a bra for u. you are just not looking in the right place
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Apr 1 2005, 04:45 PM
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ya, I'm allow3ed to go shopping alone and Iv'e gone shoppign with freinds before tha'ts not sucha big deal anymore, it was a bigger problem before really
and I have money, it jsut seems like no one ever wants ot go shopping with me and I did the little measurement thing on JC Penny for your bra size and aperently I'm 30AA. They said they dont' have any styles of bra availible for that size tho  so I don't know if tha'ts a bad sign or something, lolya ya ya, I jsut need to go shopping, I jsut thouhgt I'd spew my problems out at you, thankds for all the tips 
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Apr 1 2005, 05:48 PM
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Like somothers said, get some money urself (save or get a job) and get some clothes that u like. Dont let your parents get in the way of who u want 2 b. U should be able to have ur own look.
About ur chest, if you go 2 the junior stores, like ltd. too or junior sections in stores like sears or jc penny they have bras that can support u, and hide ur nipples. Just get somethig that the material isnt thin. :D Good luck~=! 
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Apr 1 2005, 06:13 PM
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SCHGEB!SCHGEB! Group: Member Posts: 1,786 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,217 |
QUOTE(starducky21 @ Apr 1 2005, 5:48 PM) Like somothers said, get some money urself (save or get a job) and get some clothes that u like. Dont let your parents get in the way of who u want 2 b. U should be able to have ur own look. About ur chest, if you go 2 the junior stores, like ltd. too or junior sections in stores like sears or jc penny they have bras that can support u, and hide ur nipples. Just get somethig that the material isnt thin. :D Good luck~=!  yeah try those stores.. forgot to mention that. and if u go to kohls.. go to the kids section and there are bras for "pre-teens" so they should fit.. make sure u get a lil padding and underwire if u want it to look a bit bigger i guess |
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Apr 1 2005, 07:17 PM
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ugh i know how you feel.
in junior high, i had hardly any clothes cuz my parents didn't give me allowance and i had to buy my own clothes, meaning i work for EVERYTHING. as for the chest problem, wear two sport bras and a tank top. i do that sometimes, and it's so thick nothing can show through! |
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Apr 1 2005, 07:17 PM
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ugh i know how you feel.
in junior high, i had hardly any clothes cuz my parents didn't give me allowance and i had to buy my own clothes, meaning i work for EVERYTHING. as for the chest problem, wear two sport bras and a tank top. i do that sometimes, and it's so thick nothing can show through! |
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Apr 1 2005, 07:17 PM
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since you have a flat chest get clothes and stuff from limited too or like rave girl and stuff.
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Apr 2 2005, 05:15 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
i think there are like special stores for lingerie (try victoria's secret. go with your friends if your mom isnt comfortable) and tell one of the specialist ladies about your situation, and they should be able to find the right one for you...
and the clothes thing- just go shopping around. there are lots of good bargains. try outlet malls maybe... or target or wal mart
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Apr 2 2005, 05:24 PM
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thanks guys.
ya, for bras I'll probably go with my mom next weekend or soemthing. I'm goign shoppign today with my dad...took a while to convince him...well, he was alihgt with it but my mom was like "omg, you ahve so many t shirts jsut wait till your birthday" wait til my brithday??!? is she nuts? I have two t shirts I like, by like I mean I'm acutlaly willling to expose myself to the public in and she expects me to wait three months till my birthday?!?!? I have officially deemed her insane and shall only ask my dad to go shopping with me  but she's okay aobut bras cause she knows I can only go with her really and that I really don't have very many gosh, I have such a messed up family jsut tdoay we bought a lap top off ebay and htey were all gathered around the comptuer for the last few seconds holding there breath and when we won we went out and bought doughnuts and stuff for...celebration..haha, ya, we are strange
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Apr 2 2005, 05:26 PM
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 to be loved by someone you love is.. everything Group: Member Posts: 1,207 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,205 |
they have AAA??
Wow, I didn't know that.. I should go tell my friend about that..
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Apr 2 2005, 05:59 PM
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^ rofl
how old are you by the way..? |
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Apr 2 2005, 07:30 PM
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SCHGEB!SCHGEB! Group: Member Posts: 1,786 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,217 |
QUOTE(HoodieObsessed @ Apr 2 2005, 5:24 PM) thanks guys. ya, for bras I'll probably go with my mom next weekend or soemthing. I'm goign shoppign today with my dad...took a while to convince him...well, he was alihgt with it but my mom was like "omg, you ahve so many t shirts jsut wait till your birthday" wait til my brithday??!? is she nuts? I have two t shirts I like, by like I mean I'm acutlaly willling to expose myself to the public in and she expects me to wait three months till my birthday?!?!? I have officially deemed her insane and shall only ask my dad to go shopping with me but she's okay aobut bras cause she knows I can only go with her really and that I really don't have very many gosh, I have such a messed up family jsut tdoay we bought a lap top off ebay and htey were all gathered around the comptuer for the last few seconds holding there breath and when we won we went out and bought doughnuts and stuff for...celebration..haha, ya, we are strange lmfao thats insane but yeahhh.. try limited too.. they will probly have one just for u. i mean i saw ur pic on the sexi chest topic.. and uve got.. alittle chest. ur not totally flat |
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Apr 2 2005, 07:33 PM
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no comment...that was a stupid Q.
1...good idea get a bigger bra or...BOOB JOB...lol jk...those r 4 slutts 2...did u say ur parents had bad taste and shopped 4 ur clothes? its not a good thing to let ur parents shop for u were not 5 years old. say buh bi to momma and dadda and go shopping. i usually buy my clothes at holister and they have cute skirts at randome surf shops. tho i dont no were u live so i dont no what the style is........LOL JK YEESSSS COMMENT! HA! WENT OVERBOARD |
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