....wtf?!, gimme your opinions on this, good&bad Options

[dood?!]

about a month ago my g/f broke up with me. we are both seniors in high school. i'm 19, she's 18. i, being the devoute b/f, was heartbroken. got it? she broke up with me b/c she felt she didn't have time for me. do you buy that? i did at the time, don't know 'bout now. a few days ago, i find out there is a guy (a sophomore) claiming to be her b/f, or saying that they were going on a date. (i don't know the exact story...yet). i was like WTF?! (hence the name of topic) so let me get this straight, you don't have time for me, but you have time for a guy who is at least 2 FREAKING YEARS YOUNGER THAN YOU?! apparently i am the only one who doesn't "know" this. all of her friends (who appear to be my friends, not so sure now) seem to know this, and none of them will barely talk to me anymore. so obviously something is up. COME ON! THE KID CAN'T EVEN DRIVE YET! DO YOU KNOW THAT'S ILLEGAL?! you're 18 and he's not even close to 16! not to mention he's a freaking pot head. he's probably going to try to spike her drink, get her drunk and screw her. in which case, since she can't drink aclohol (literally makes her puke...A LOT), her dad kills him, game over.

so here are my options.

1) i can bring this subject up in one of our limited conversations. hurt a lot of feelings, piss off a lot of people, and ruin some friendships, but get the truth.
2) ignore it and let her get into another mess. (becuase it's not my place)
3) or plan K.T.F.S.O.O.T.K. (kick the f****** s*** out of that kid)

so please tell me what you think of this. i don't care what it is you say. if you call me obsessive about this girl, so be it. her friend already called me that. if you think i'm right, cool. and which option(s) should i take? because with the mood i'm in right now, i'm thinking options 1 and 3. i say 1 becuase i can make sure we never see each other again, so that wouldn't be a problem, and 3 because i feel like it.

[Pulchritude]

sorry to hear that.. that hella shady... if i were you i would go up and talk to her.. cuz its better than wondering all your life and if she cant be honest and be straight foward then she doesnt deserve you.. let her ruin her life and go with a pot head.. and if that sophmore kid trying to start shit just tell him the same thing gonna happen to him.. and if he trys to swing at u i give u permission to hit him back.. sorry to hear that. love sucks sometimes..

so choose option 1

[zznazi]

man im with u on plan #3 beat the F*** S*** out of the snot nose B*****ered hell id help u for the hell of it . then go to plan #1 if its not true .........well u got some anger out...ha ha ha.... go with plan #3

[IGB]

honestly, I think no matter what it's gonna end up the same effect as 2. coz she wont listen to you.

But hey, you apparently really care about her, I'd go with 1.

[lilconfusedbabii...]

2 is obviously the best choice. i know it`ll be hard but its the best for you.

[HoodieObsessed]

well, I gotta say I'd go with 2 for the time being...till you really know for sure that she's going out with this guy and he's not jsut claiming it. maybe you should get to know the guy who is oging out with her, perhaps he's really nice, it doesn't sound like you know him very well at all.

Maybe your girlfreind jsut made up the thing about not enough tiem becasue things weren't workign tou between you and her.

I deffinitly woudln't go with 3 becasue that wouldn't help anyone, it'd jsut get oyu into a bigger mess, it's not worht it.

1 might be a good idea once you're sure what you're doing..jsut ask her striaght out if sh'es going out with him or not, try not to get too angry and dont' hit her or anything...if sh'es oging out with a pervert it's her choice, hitting/hurting her will only make things worse.

if you get to know her new bf and he really is a bad person and you think he might harm her I'd talk to her about it.

That's all I can think of to do, yer in a tought situation

[*mona lisa*]

i'd say option 2. you know the saying, there are other fish in the sea. you can make another girl very happy by being the devout boyfriend you are. and she just wasn't the girl for you because she back-stabbed and lied to you, so there's no point in trying to beat up a kid who's not worth your time, and your ex who isn't worth the time for either.

[love-issosweet]

for me...plan 1 and i'd smack her on the head =]

[Chii]

why don't you just forget her and move on?

you kicking his ass is only going to get you in trouble and who cares how old he is? at least she had the courtesy to break up with you instead of cheating on you even if she supposedly lied about the reason for the break up.

you're 19, act 19 why don't you take a good look at this situation? you're all upset just because you're ex is going out with a younger guy, she's your ex, you have no claim over her or what she does with whoever, even when she was just your girlfriend, you don't own her, she can do as she pleases...

and no, it's not illegal, as long as their not over 4 years apart it should be illegal, plus as long as nothing sexual happens, she's not going to get arrested

[lAzN YiN YanGl]

1 ONLY IF you know how to control it and not go overboard

[swe3ttemptasian]

well, you seem like you'd go overboard w/ this.. but if you control.. then 1.. but i suggest...2

[*krnxswat*]

It's all about satisfaction.











You know what I mean. ; )

[iheartjohn]

Dude, it's time to let go. This really doesn't concern you.

[shintoboi89]

i say option #2. u gotta realize tat ur not really involved in her life anymore and w/e u do, u dont get a say in her decisions (even if u think they're wrong). so basically get over it and start focusin on ur own life instead of herz

[shintoboi89]

i say option #2. u gotta realize tat ur not really involved in her life anymore and w/e u do, u dont get a say in her decisions (even if u think they're wrong). so basically get over it and start focusin on ur own life instead of herz

[shintoboi89]

o crap double posted...anywayz u kno mah opinion

[Individualityy]

Yeah..go with option 2..please.

She's obviously not the girl for you, and everything happens for a reason..so y'all were MEANT to break up..and like other people said..there are other fish in the sea..so just leave her alone. o.O.

[whomps]

You guys would seriously do option 2? I would do option 1.. just to get the truth. And it's not going to make a difference if I know, right?

[Eryi]

that's f**ked up.

[dood?!]

hey, thanks for all the input on things. i had already decided on what i was going to do, i really just wanted to see what other people thought of it. i realize that we aren't together anymore, and i never acted like i had any control/claim over her, and i would most def. never hit her....she'd do a lot more than just hit back (she's got a black belt in tae kwon do...do the math) i just don't want to see her get into a mess with this kid.

and for all you people who posted on here, thnx.

by the way, i'm going to go with option 2. it has been made painfully clear that we are just friends now, and if she wants to tell me what's going on, then she will. but other than that, it's her life to do with as she pleases.

def. not going with 1 because chances are i'd totally lose it and go crazy.

not going with 3 because it would be pointless, and i don't know what their relationship is, and it's not my place to pry....or to beat, and she can def. take care of herself if she needs to.

[ChEeR A HOliC Xo]

I say let her learn from her own mistake`s. Let her do it. She will regret it sooner or later.

[*Weird addiction*]

LMFAOOO, i think u should confront her, its the best thing to do, if you dont u'll never know WHY she left you.

[xlovenyoux]

talk to her. nothing will ever last if you dont talk. and hey, do #3 if you get bored, sophomores irritate me too lol.