Adoption, Just wondering... |
 Mar 30 2005, 07:06 PM
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 Do you miss your little girl?  Group: Member Posts: 181 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,851  |
Just wondering. I am. So is my older brother. It sucks sometimes.
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| *mzkandi* |
Mar 30 2005, 07:08 PM
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i'm not adopted but i plan on adopting kids one day after i am married
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Mar 30 2005, 07:09 PM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
I am adopted, so is my younger brother. It's ok i guess, lol
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Mar 30 2005, 07:11 PM
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Do you miss your little girl? Group: Member Posts: 181 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,851 |
I hate it a lot since I'm a minor. Although my parents are going to try to contact my birth - mother, there's a lot that could not happen. Or theres a lot that could. It's just different. I don't like it. haha
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Mar 30 2005, 07:21 PM
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 *Anna* Group: Member Posts: 36 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,480 |
I'm not adopted,
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Mar 30 2005, 07:22 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 323 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,565 |
no, but i plan on adopting when i'm older. we just had to read this book at school about a little boy who lived in orphanages and its awful that kids actually have to go through that, every child deserves a decent childhood.
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Mar 30 2005, 07:25 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 628 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 98,376 |
i'm not adopted and when i get older, i'm going to adopt a child
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Mar 30 2005, 07:25 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 117,794 |
QUOTE(mzkandi @ Mar 30 2005, 7:08 PM) i'm not adopted but i plan on adopting kids one day after i am married  same with me.. but i kinda think it would be sucky for the kid.. not really knowing their real parents, and stuff.. like yall are saying.. so actually.. i dont know if i'll adopt. wait.. but if i dont.. then someone else will anyway.. and if NOT.. then that child would have to live in an icky orphanage!! GAH.. now im confused!!  but anyway.. i think it would suck to be adopted 
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Mar 30 2005, 07:28 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 31 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 110,328 |
im adopted but not fully...my real dad gave up rights for my step dad to adopt me...
<3 Jessi |
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Mar 30 2005, 07:52 PM
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Do you miss your little girl? Group: Member Posts: 181 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,851 |
QUOTE(evoL nI sselepoH @ Mar 30 2005, 7:25 PM) same with me.. but i kinda think it would be sucky for the kid.. not really knowing their real parents, and stuff.. like yall are saying.. so actually.. i dont know if i'll adopt. wait.. but if i dont.. then someone else will anyway.. and if NOT.. then that child would have to live in an icky orphanage!! GAH.. now im confused!! but anyway.. i think it would suck to be adopted Well, it's not totally bad. You could have an open adoption. That would be cool. :) And, I think that it's better to adopt the kid. You know what? Not enough domestic adoptions go on. It pisses me off. |
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Mar 30 2005, 08:41 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
i'm not but it can't be that bad...i mean these are normal people that don't have to love you but they do
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Mar 30 2005, 08:45 PM
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 skaters gonna skate. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,861 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,336 |
no i'm not
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Mar 30 2005, 10:27 PM
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not.
but my friend is, she says it's alright/ |
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Mar 30 2005, 10:50 PM
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 sunshiine Group: Member Posts: 1,080 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,360 |
QUOTE(annacgb @ Mar 30 2005, 4:21 PM) I'm not adopted, me neither... i never really thought much abt it.. although my sister keeps saying im adopted *evil glare* blah. 
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Mar 31 2005, 12:13 AM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
im not but i know someone who is
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Mar 31 2005, 12:39 AM
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Not adopted. I know someone that was though.
Why is this in the girls' locker room? |
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Mar 31 2005, 09:45 AM
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im not adopted unfortunately
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Mar 31 2005, 09:46 AM
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 I have no life Group: Member Posts: 1,119 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,675 |
Nope I'm not adopted.....but when I was little I used to ask that question all the time
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Mar 31 2005, 04:53 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 61 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,529 |
My mum is adopted and its kinda scary when you think about it because my nan and grandad wouldnt b my blood nan and grandad but in all honesty i dont feel like i want 2 find out my real grand perents because i love them so much ! they are fab!
In all honesty BLOOD MEANS NOTHING! |
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Mar 31 2005, 05:23 PM
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 E=Fb Musicians Theory of Relativity Group: Member Posts: 711 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,045 |
I'm not adopted, but several of my friends are. Plus there is a wonderful family at my church who adopted this gorgeous baby girl from China. They look so great together, and they really love her. Who cares if they don't look anything alike? Love is what matters.
I'm planning to adopt at least one child when I get married. Might want to clear it with my fiance first... XP |
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Mar 31 2005, 06:35 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
i am not adopted.....i don't want to be
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Mar 31 2005, 06:41 PM
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 i need more affection than you know. Group: Member Posts: 95 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 63,249 |
I'm not adopted. But if I get married I will adopt kids. =)
Edit: Yeah, why is it in the girls locker room? =/ |
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Mar 31 2005, 06:42 PM
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 Yea Yea. Group: Member Posts: 837 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 79,366 |
I'm not but I know someone who is. Her & her sister have the same biological parents & parents now. It's cool.
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Mar 31 2005, 07:41 PM
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 Hello there. Group: Member Posts: 343 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 78,879 |
I'm not, but I know plenty of people who are. I'd like to adopt a child someday in the future.
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Mar 31 2005, 07:47 PM
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Do you miss your little girl? Group: Member Posts: 181 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,851 |
QUOTE(xbrokenheartz @ Mar 31 2005, 6:41 PM) Edit: Yeah, why is it in the girls locker room? =/ Because I just put it here. I wasn't thinking when I posted it. |
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Mar 31 2005, 08:01 PM
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 Too slow. Group: Member Posts: 2,730 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,320 |
nope im not adopted.
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May 4 2005, 05:16 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 107 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,613 |
im not ..but da ppl dat were adopted shuld b thankful...der parents dat adopted dem shuld b wonderful ppl
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May 7 2005, 11:48 PM
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 I was your destination... Group: Member Posts: 18 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 69,742 |
Im adopted
 hell almost everyone in my neighborhood is adopted. Its really creepy. I born in china, but was brought to america when I was 6 months, so I didnt learn any chinese. It would be hard for me to get to know my biological mom since I dont speak or understand any chinese at all. Kinda sad really...
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May 8 2005, 12:28 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 121 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 134,309 |
i'm not, but i definetely want to adopt a chinese baby, they have huge problems with kids being abandoned in here, China
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May 8 2005, 03:57 PM
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Do you miss your little girl? Group: Member Posts: 181 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,851 |
QUOTE(Shock @ May 7 2005, 11:48 PM) Im adopted hell almost everyone in my neighborhood is adopted. Its really creepy. I born in china, but was brought to america when I was 6 months, so I didnt learn any chinese. It would be hard for me to get to know my biological mom since I dont speak or understand any chinese at all. Kinda sad really...Ah. Two of my cousins are Chinese, and they take private lessons so that they can learn to speak it. It's awesome, though. :) |
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May 8 2005, 07:23 PM
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s w e e t e s t Group: Member Posts: 808 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,149 |
im not adopted and so is not my brother nor sister ... but i would love to donate some money to the orphanges so they could buy something for those poor kids that don't have love from their parents..
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May 8 2005, 08:17 PM
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no, but i know someone who is!
i couldn't imagine being adopted. some of them don't know who their parents are.. like i don't know, i guess since i'm not adopted.. i don't know what it's like. but to me, it would be hard not knowing your real parents & how they are.. 
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May 8 2005, 08:28 PM
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 Serious As A Heart Attack. Group: Member Posts: 2,292 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,344 |
yes i am..but it never sux..why do you say it sux sometimes?? i love it!
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May 8 2005, 08:37 PM
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 ˘ž Wanting it. ˘ž Group: Member Posts: 2,060 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,234 |
oh im sorry. im not adopted though, nor do i know anyone who is.
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May 19 2005, 08:43 PM
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 i honk for centaurs Group: Member Posts: 120 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 114,983 |
I'm not adopted, but two of my cousins are. I'd really like to adopt a baby from Japan or Korea when I'm older, and then teach her Japanese, which I'm learning now, or Korean, which I'd love to learn. Adoption rocks...don't add to the world's population problems.
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May 19 2005, 09:19 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
someome move this to the lounge! i think it would get more coverage. just a suggestion.
im not adopted but the idea fascinates and scares me. because some kids feel so much animosity and some are perfectly fine with it. i dont know how i would handle it if i was adopted. i want to adopt a child, but im not sure its a good idea. but then again i think it would be a great idea. i dont know. i'll think more when ive grown and matured more. |
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May 19 2005, 10:05 PM
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 Um....Its meeee Group: Member Posts: 2,218 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,264 |
Nope, am not adopted, but i know who is. My bestfriend.
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May 20 2005, 12:05 AM
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 you're reading me. Group: Member Posts: 204 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,727 |
im not adopted..i dont think blood means nothing, but i think adoption is a wonderful thing.
i know someone who is adopted. i never asked her about it though..her mom is white and she obviously isn't..so thats how i came up with the conclusion. sometimes i wonder how it feels to be adopted, especially if you and your parents are nothing alike. and also how many stares you get when you are together and you can almost hear the whispers goin..hey is she adopted? thats wht i askd myself when i saw her mother for the first time. but ive got nothing against it..its just funny how people can be two sided sometimes. human nature i guess that was all rambling. |
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May 20 2005, 12:33 AM
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nope, no one in my family is adopted
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May 20 2005, 01:31 AM
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 im lina Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,370 |
no i'm not. but i sometimes think i am.
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May 20 2005, 03:05 PM
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 -Officially Insane- Group: Member Posts: 870 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 117,293 |
I'm not, but I know a girl who is.
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May 20 2005, 10:12 PM
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 In hand a single rose... Group: Member Posts: 70 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,043 |
im not adopted but my dad was adopted when he was small and in vietnam
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May 24 2005, 10:24 PM
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QUOTE(tmauze @ Mar 30 2005, 7:22 PM) no, but i plan on adopting when i'm older. we just had to read this book at school about a little boy who lived in orphanages and its awful that kids actually have to go through that, every child deserves a decent childhood. was it "a child called it"? i love that book. its so sad |
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May 24 2005, 10:32 PM
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RiKACHANtEL Group: Member Posts: 3,876 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,230 |
i'm not but, my mama tells me i am..lol
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May 24 2005, 10:35 PM
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 highfive. Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,951 |
I'm not adopted, but I think adopted kids are special.
"What's different is that they chose to take you from their heart, rather than have you." .. or something like that. I heard it on Nanny 911. lOL. |
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May 24 2005, 10:35 PM
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mood: content Group: Member Posts: 2,063 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,325 |
My friend is adopted. But it's alright as long as you love whoever takes care of you.
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May 25 2005, 03:38 AM
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 boo Group: Member Posts: 5,512 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,765 |
I'm not adopted.
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