How do u get over the GREATEST girl ever, How to get over a GREAT girl Options

[*paul murphy*]

I went psycho!

[love-issosweet]

you'll get over her sooner or later...no need to rush

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it comes naturally

[cocoalightning27]

Act Normal.......Whats all this fuss about girls when your so young?

[*mzkandi*]

life goes on and paul you are only 11, so you say, so stop worrying about it there will be other girls

[*paul murphy*]

I swear, I am eleven!

[sweetxsimplicity]

Paul..okay..

YOU'RE ONLY ELEVEN
YOU'RE NOT OLD ENOUGH TO DATE YET.

get that into your head. (:

[_sarcastic_]

um paul, you're only 11, you've still got a whole life ahead of you.
forget about her

[--x who0ps]

dude paul, calm down
its one girl. so what?
not like theres only 1 girl in the whole universe right ?
"there are more fish in the sea"
bsides, you`re frckn` 11. so your in what.. 6th grade?
you have until you die to find the right girl.

[KissMe2408]

It's hard to get over someone. It takes time...If it's only been a few months and you're still not over her then that's ok. That's normal...sometimes it can take years to get over someone. Life still goes on tho...And the thing is, Is that you will find someone that is absoloutly amazing, and it will make this girl seem like nothing. And don't try to rush it, you will find her when you least expect it :)

[mouse_3k]

ur 11 so I doubt she was a *first love* or w/e so I say just move on. forget about her. shes nothin, move on

[inthemudhole]

Just don't think about her, I guess.
It'll all wear off eventually.

[LittleLulu]

all of the ubove! jk

i say ...spend all ur time on CB!!! YEAHHH!!!!!! =)

[ItzOnlySydney]

with tiem it fades

[EddieV]

I RKO every person I come into contact with...

lol jk, I just get sad for a lil while, than I get over it...

[T3nz1ng]

i would just go cry all day or i will just think of a plan to get revenge lols.

[onemanshow]

not about how to get over such a good gal.. its about how to move on and maybe work out for another chance : )

[multifaceted]

just let time do the work. you will get over it sooner or later . just be patient

[Paradox of Life]

You can't control what you really feel. I've tried to stop liking someone, but it's impossible if truly, you like them. So... There's nothing you can do, sadly. All you can do is wait, I guess.
Going psycho is a little extreme o_O

[Just_Dream]

The choices.. .welll IDK what to choose since the question itself is very vague, so you can't really narrow down solutions for it.

I'll just choose "Just act normal." What you really need to do is try to forget about her. It'll be hard, but time will heal. It probably just wasn't meant to be. And remember, no one's really perfect--just very close to perfection. Also realize that everyone defines perfection differently--I know I do.

Although this may sound cheese/clichéd, but "Love isn't about finding someone perfect, but seeing someone imperfect, perfectly." I think that's how the quote goes. Go out and find someone else.. But not too quick. Find someone who will truly make you happy and be "The One." Another cliché: "There's plenty of fish in the sea."

[sheddingtears]

well if you think she's so great, maybe there's a reason for you not to let go.

but if you feel the need to, just don't think about her, and whenever you do, just try to find the worst in her.

[aera]

find something else to obsess over! an inanimate object works nicely... afterall, it cant break your heart.

[*mishyerr*]

YOU'RE 11?! People LIKE people at age 11?! Did you hit puberty yet!? ...Well, STALK HER!!! X) JK. Don't. I hate stalkers; some senior from my hs stalked me [I'm a fish] and it scared the crap out of me. <3 Never stalk; just let go

[sumipark]

just act normal..if yu get someone new just to feel better..wont yu feel guilty about that? for using the girl?

[rOckThISshYt]

You forgot "none of the above." You get on with your life. You take a couple days by yourself maybe to just cry your eyes out. No more than four days, though. After that, you get up and move on. Not saying make out with tons of chicks or anything. Just keep going. Maybe spending more time to yourself but don't close yourself in. The pain will still be there but it will leave faster.

[yukichan]

act normal..whatever u do, dont: stalk her, drink alcohol, or go psycho..
give ur self time..it usually helps..

[dancingkait]

dude you're only 11! there are much more important things to worry about. maybe if you were older i'd say this. act normal, get a social life that doesn't involve girls (or that girl in particular) and get your friends to take your mind off it.

[AsianUniQ]

I respect anyone in all ages. No matter if you're 11 or 100. I believe we all go through the same emotions and though process. I mean I believe it must be a big deal for you, so i'm gona look at your situation as a serious one, because its a big deal to you.

I have done/been through everything on THAT list, and none worked for me. going out with another girl? wouldnt that be liek using her to get over soemeone? Pyscho is not too healthy, you mgiht embarass yourself if your ex find out. Kill yourself? She's not worth it is she? Be an alcoholic? Thats just an excuse to not think about her, but after being sober again, you'll end up missing her twice as much to make up for the time you spent drinking. Stalk? Don't you just seem desperate and hopeless doing that?

My philosophy is, the time it took you two to go out, is the amount of time it takes you to get over her. Everyday that you spent with her, is everyday that you will think of her after a breakup. That sounds about right? Right? I'm sensing that you lost a lot of confidence in yourself. You lost self control. You become hopeless. And all it take is time to recover. What you can do is, do things that you plan to do in a lonnggg time but never had a chance to do. Like clean up your room, you will feel realy productive and be proud of yourself, hence your quest for recovery begin. Find hobbies, find somethign accomplishing to do. I find that one thing that helped me out alot, is going out with friends. Yhou'll too busy having fun, for once , maybe for once you didn't have your mind set on HER. And consistency of goign out (while sober) will eventually drift you away from her. And also. Tell yourself that you are better than this, you can find a better person. Is she even worth it? NO!! so from now on............starting a new life, you will find someone that IS worth it.............wow this relationship really woujld change you. You jsut simply become a better person. Take this chance to find yiour new self.

IM me and lemme know of the consequences. I3abyBoiRomeo

[aznhunnie6o1]

Ah, I usually go psycho after a break up. I try to act normal though.

[yellowgurl]

u're only 11.. u shudnt be that psycho abt it and if she was so great... why wud u break up with her

[gladz612]

haha you're so young... i can ensure u that in no time u'll find a much better girl.

[aNg3LBaBi3]

i think you should act normal and take life day by day, move on slowly but surely. you have the rest of your life to find another like her or even better. but for now i think you should concentrate on you, do things to take your mind off of her. go out with the boys, take up old hobbies once again. some people date others right after to make them forget, i don't think dat rlly helps, but for some it does. just do things to occupy your time and take your mind off of her. it helps, cuz i did it. two jobs would help, but your 11 so not many jobs out there hiring your ago. but heyy, you could baby sit or cut lawns or something.

[rememberme]

find a new friend. Cause she gonna do the same...

[Azn_Pryde06]

Hey, gotta take it as it is. You still have your life after all. It's not like you're gonna die, there's nothing to lose, just move forward. Take the step to move on, because sometimes letting go is better than holding on. Through time, it'll eventually heal its wound. If hurt is what you really felt.

[AsianUniQ]

at your age, and you found the greatest girl eveer already??? well hang on a little longer, maybe you'll find a greater greatest girl ever existed.

[someflipguy]

I found another girl, but it didn't help so.. I suggest going physco!

[captain_screw_up]

Well, it's not really a standard thing. It's personal. Different people get over other people many different ways. It's strange. But, all the advice I can really give is.. Just take it slow. Scope out new people. Try and not think about the person. I know it'll be extremely hard cause I've been there.. but, yeah

[krnxbabe85]

uve prob heard this before but ill say it again TIME HELPS so just wait it'll fade eventually i promise.