What to do?, breakups are the worst. Options

[aznhunnie6o1]

My boyfriend broke up with me uhh like 2 weeks ago (my computer broke so I couldn't come to cB ) and it was a couple days before our 2 month aniversary....

So, what do you do to get over someone?

And, should I still try to get him back? He likes another girl... but she's kinda fake... she'll change her personality just to fit in and look cool. Well.. atleast that's how she was the last time I knew her. I want to tell him.. but I'm afraid he'll get mad at me and say I'm just jealous. He asked her to be his girlfriend and she said no. He thinks she's confused about likeing him and he still likes her. Right now, me and him are good friends. I still believe I have a chance if I try hard enough... But is it worth it? Should I keep trying?

[_sarcastic_]

to answer your first question, try doing something that will take you mind off him.

and i don't think you should try and get back with him, that'll just push him further away, and besides he likes a new girl. you're right, if you try telling him that she is a 'fake', that'll make him think you're jealous. don't tell him, let him find out himself. it'll basically ruin your friendship you have with him.

no i don't think it's worth trying to get back with him.

[sexii_baobeii]

awww, hunny. dont u worry, baby. u'll get over him. pretend u dont like him (yeah i know, it's hard) and pretend u dont give a shit. my bf just dumped me a few months ago, and it was pretty hard on me. there's gonna b plenty more guys later in life. dont waste any more time on this loser. it mite seem impossible (i mean ur prob thinkin "how the hell can i get over him?" and "that's easy for u to say") buht, it'll work, trust me. and in the meantime, occupy urself with other things like sports, and try writing a list of his qualities that u dont like. and stick it somewhere u can see. =) gluck girly. all us chicks love ya. <3

[ChEeR A HOliC Xo]

I`m kinda in the same situation, only he dosent like anyone else. But i think, you shouldent give up. Be there for him, be his friend. He`s going to quit trying at one point or another. You will be there to confort him, and when the time is right...just kiss him or something, let him know u still care for him, just not through words. Boy are afraid of getting hurt, thats why they run.

[y0urelectrikk]

Eat ice cream. Because its good stuff.

& look for someone else, theres lots of other fishes in the sea.

[Shattered_Hope]

Give it time and you'll get over him. No worries.
I don't think he's worth getting back with...he did break up with you a few days before your two month anniversary.
Besides...I mean...he likes someone else..move on..

[d3lightx3]

Actually, I highly suggest you dont get back with him. I mean sure he likes you but i guess he doesnt like you as much as you like him if he would dump you for someone else. I would suggest that you go for someone that would be interested in you in the same way.

[o00o_the_weirdne...]

I'm the worst @ relationships.
Why I "clicked" it I wouldn't know. I was hoping there would some good advice 2 remember 4 myself in the road ahead of me

[dancingkait]

i would advise you not to get back with him. the reason you're not going out anymore is because he didnt like you that way. so he most likely still doesnt. i'd say try your best to get over him...just hang out with your best friends and eat some chocolate and ice cream ...and become friends with him again. if something is meant to happen again then something will but dont force anything on him. thats my advice (:

[Chii]

don't get back with him, some things are meant to be let go... you'll be able to get over it, it was only a 2 month relationship, plus if he already likes a new girl what does that tell you?

he just seems to get out when there's a problem, that's how most boys are, my last ex dumped me probably because i spoke up for myself, i saw the way he was with other girls and i pointed it out so he dumped me. be strong, don't let a man control your life sweets