How can u tell if ur flirting, ...or not? |
 Mar 25 2005, 09:22 PM
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 Styna  Group: Member Posts: 261 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,047  |
See I understand what flirting is just I have trouble spotting it when "I" talk. I have this one friend and we hang out and talk for hours but, I don't know if i'm flirting with him and, if hes flirting with me. I can tell if its among other people but, when it's me I just dont know.
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Mar 26 2005, 06:17 PM
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 ticktock. Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,235 |
Well it depends on what you are saying to him
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Mar 26 2005, 06:19 PM
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 to be loved by someone you love is.. everything Group: Member Posts: 1,207 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,205 |
heh, I'm a very flirtacious person...
 I sometimes can tell..btw^^^^^x3__iGiVEup.... you look exactly like my little cousin.. 
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Mar 26 2005, 06:42 PM
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 Yea Yea. Group: Member Posts: 837 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 79,366 |
I know what you mean.. I'm not sure if I'm flirting or not either.. And when I think I am I think that maybe I am really not?
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Mar 26 2005, 06:51 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 126 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,447 |
Same here. It's confusing kinda. Whenever we talk we always end up saying all this sweet talk stuff.
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Mar 26 2005, 08:10 PM
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life is so ironic... Group: Member Posts: 73 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,671 |
i would consider flirting like constantly looking at each other, laughing together, fooling around (any kind of touching, hitting)
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Mar 26 2005, 09:20 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
it depends how you define flirting, people haev their own ways
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Mar 26 2005, 09:31 PM
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 ^-^ Group: Member Posts: 1,676 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 107,668 |
well, if you complement each other alot and hint at stuff than I guess your'e flirting. but if your'e jsut talking about normal things and other people I don't think you are. To tell you the truth, I don't have any personal experience so I really don't know
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Mar 26 2005, 09:44 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Hah, same here- I can never tell when I'm flirting or not.
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Mar 26 2005, 10:26 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 779 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 90,808 |
when your laughing a lot about things that aren't funny.
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Mar 26 2005, 10:31 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 831 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,326 |
what are you saying with him? do you catch yourself watching him or staring at him? is he staring at you? does he care about you alot? doy uo are about him alot?
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Mar 26 2005, 11:06 PM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
i cant tell. people say that i'm a natural flirt.
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Mar 27 2005, 09:58 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 146 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 110,109 |
i flirt a lot.sometimes i dont even noe if i am but ppl sey i flirt a lor.well it depends on what ur seying.if your laughing witht hat person and like occasionally touching them.tthats how i flirt
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Mar 27 2005, 10:04 PM
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 Chtaime Group: Member Posts: 609 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 117,918 |
Hmm..i know after i talk with a guy...my friends are always..you were flirting so bad with him....and i didnt even know i was. :S
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Mar 27 2005, 10:04 PM
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 High Voltage!∞ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
I haven't a clue. Heh. I guess if you talk sweet and all...personally I don't know I flirt..but people have told me I flirt alot.
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Mar 27 2005, 10:50 PM
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for3ver y0urs Group: Member Posts: 203 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,162 |
yeh, i think most people have that problem..
like, i'm used to just talking to people, laughing, hitting.. it's just so natural, i don't relli think of it as flirting.. but then my friends come up to me afterwards and they're always all "dude, you were flirting with him, weren't you??" .. =\ gah. it's confusing. |
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Mar 27 2005, 10:57 PM
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 she doesn't even know Group: Member Posts: 501 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,065 |
ya giggle a lot.
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Mar 28 2005, 12:00 AM
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when you're laughing a lot, and when you're too oblivious to your surroundings. haha.
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Mar 28 2005, 08:54 PM
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Styna Group: Member Posts: 261 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,047 |
thx so now i will no wen i am flirting but i think we flirt alot since we laugh at like everything we say to each other and yea we stare at each other. Hmmm and i think i care about him he's my friend duh!
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Mar 28 2005, 09:41 PM
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I am definitely going to watch this thread because I'm a guy and I'm completely guileless when it comes to girls hitting on me. I have no clue if they're flirting or just being friendly. So all the while, I'm having this internal debate in my head whether or not I should ask her for her number or say something suggesting my interest.
"No matter how intelligent the guy is, he's an idiot when it coems to women." I can attest to that. Girls, be blunt. Come on strong (but not too strong, we're gentle ) and if you're interested, let us know!
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Mar 28 2005, 09:43 PM
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 tell me more. Group: Official Member Posts: 2,798 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,640 |
What sucks for me is that Guys flirt with me, and I have NO CLUE how to respond, so they quit!
 *runs away looking for attention*
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Mar 28 2005, 09:58 PM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
i can tell if i`m flirting. usually after the conversation and them i`m like "oh crap. why did i do that?"
girls usually just laugh alot of try to get really close to the guy in physical contact. you become stupid and forget everything else. |
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Mar 28 2005, 09:58 PM
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^_^ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,141 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,466 |
QUOTE(one_and_only @ Mar 28 2005, 8:43 PM) What sucks for me is that Guys flirt with me, and I have NO CLUE how to respond, so they quit! *runs away looking for attention* Can't help you on that one. I'm not even sure how I'd want you to respond, as long as you show some sort of interest so it doesn't feel like we got shot down like an enemy plane in the US. |
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Mar 28 2005, 10:00 PM
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tell me more. Group: Official Member Posts: 2,798 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,640 |
haha, yea. I want to be funny, yet cute nd all that other stuff nd i get confused so i stop talking!
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Mar 29 2005, 07:26 AM
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 freakieee Group: Member Posts: 241 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,779 |
to me, saying sweet stuffs is already flirting=P~
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Mar 29 2005, 12:44 PM
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 need happy pills? Group: Member Posts: 419 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,946 |
Body language and touching his arm?
I dunno I'm kinda clueless myself but that's the one thing i know |
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Mar 29 2005, 02:06 PM
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 Im as fake as a widow's smile ;) Group: Member Posts: 1,045 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 97,851 |
If you giggle a lot and touch him a lot, its flirting
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Mar 29 2005, 03:57 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 38 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 117,619 |
i have no clue
most of my friends r guys and then my friends r like u kno that dude likes u and im like huh?!
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