how do i talk to a guy, ive never talked to him but... |
 Mar 25 2005, 07:47 PM
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 chocolate luva  Group: Member Posts: 265 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,450  |
now i like him and i dont know how i should talk to him............
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Mar 25 2005, 07:51 PM
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 ...becasue I'm cool like that... Group: Member Posts: 142 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 104,508 |
Just go up and say hey to him and try to start a convo! Does he know you do you think he likes you has he ever made eyecontact before. all these play factors but just go up to him
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Mar 25 2005, 07:51 PM
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 sunshiine Group: Member Posts: 1,080 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,360 |
just go up to him and say hi and get to know him better..... is this the same guy who tries to touch you *raises an eyebrow*
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Mar 25 2005, 07:53 PM
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chocolate luva Group: Member Posts: 265 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,450 |
major no no..this guy is smart, sweet, funny, and cute....sound perfect eh???? dont fall in love with him cuzi already like him
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Mar 25 2005, 07:55 PM
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 Residential Crazy Child Group: Member Posts: 934 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,897 |
aww...i have this prob tooo >.<''
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Mar 25 2005, 09:27 PM
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 The Eurasian Concert Master Group: Member Posts: 484 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,826 |
Hey, Well I had the same problem last year, this is how it was resolved. I was a 9th grader, he was a 10th grader. Our homerooms did a meet and make friends in all grades thing (my school only had two grades last year cause it's new). I mingled with him and we filled out a form thing together about our hobbies and stuff. He began to ask me about my nationality and my intrests and music, and I did the same. We had a nice conversation and after that we always said Hi in the hallways and even hugged and kissed on the cheek
 . Lol, sorry for my ramblings, you basically have to strike up a conversation, preferably try to get some kind of connection from a friend that knows him so he/she can introduce you to him. Goodluck, and open up to him, don't be shy :].
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Mar 25 2005, 10:10 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
You go up and ask a question...say hi...make a conversation...be natural.
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Mar 25 2005, 10:13 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 70 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 117,835 |
i'm a guy just browsin thru- but if i were a guy, i'd want a girl to come up and just start a conversation. anyways, when a girl comes up to talk to me, it's the best thing in the world :]
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Mar 25 2005, 10:15 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 726 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 95,137 |
if your friend knows him, try to get your friend to introduce you guys. ;)
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Mar 25 2005, 11:29 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
QUOTE(..:loveee.NuTTii @ Mar 25 2005, 7:55 PM) aww...i have this prob tooo >.<''  me too... *sigh* ask him about homework or something, then go from there |
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Mar 25 2005, 11:45 PM
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 skaters gonna skate. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,861 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,336 |
uh be yourself?
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Mar 25 2005, 11:46 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Say "hi" one day, and each day slowly make more conversation.
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Mar 26 2005, 04:43 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 117,954 |
yeah
QUOTE Say "hi" one day, and each day slowly make more conversation. when you make conversation ask probing questions like what he does for fun and see if he does anything you like to do... maybe you can trick him into dating you.. you know just going out together alone as friends... hahaha don't ask probing questions about his ex im a guy and me helping you is makin it easier on my fellow men
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| *lolita kitty* |
Mar 26 2005, 07:00 AM
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random things.
"hey, do we have homework for such and such's class?" "do you play sports?" or the simple "hi" =] |
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Mar 26 2005, 07:05 AM
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 Entropic Group: Member Posts: 216 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,522 |
"Hey sexy wanna head back to my place"
... jp ... Just casually say helloOo and if he responds to that well go for the KILL! as him 'what. is. up'. haha |
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| *Programmer* |
Mar 26 2005, 07:24 AM
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click you heels three times and close your eyes...
 and you'll have what you want.. no...but foreal.....get to know him a lil more then ask him if he likes you..... |
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Mar 26 2005, 07:36 AM
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 yskulmate Group: Member Posts: 187 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,014 |
QUOTE(Despise @ Mar 26 2005, 12:46 PM) Say "hi" one day, and each day slowly make more conversation. yepp.. lil by little does the trick.. |
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Mar 26 2005, 09:32 AM
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 to be loved by someone you love is.. everything Group: Member Posts: 1,207 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,205 |
say hi
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Mar 26 2005, 10:45 AM
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 Je vous aime Group: Member Posts: 361 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,078 |
You open your mouth and move your lips and your tounge to make letter sounds.. and those letter sounds form a words.. jp.
 Yes I agree with the each day say Hey and slowly make more conversation.. |
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| *chaneun* |
Mar 26 2005, 11:15 AM
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go up to him and say "i love you" then run away. j/k uhhm, make sure he doesnt have a gf first. then go up to him and ask something casual, like "what was the homework assignment for --- class?" then when you get to know him better, try hard to get invited to a party that hes attending. :D |
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Mar 26 2005, 11:19 AM
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Residential Crazy Child Group: Member Posts: 934 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,897 |
Talk about the crazy fugly science teacher...everyone has something to say about her. It's a great ice breaker.
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Mar 26 2005, 12:16 PM
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Running Group: Member Posts: 596 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,064 |
Hmm how do you like him but never talked to him... Me thinks this is superficial... Ya find a common interest like if you have the same class bitch about the teacher... If not pretend to bump into him and start a small convo and drop alot of hints
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Mar 26 2005, 03:03 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
does he know ur alive? go up, say hey and talk to him. try to be his friend then try to be his girl lol
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Mar 26 2005, 03:08 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
i don't get how people say they like someone if they have never talked to them
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Mar 26 2005, 05:08 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
go up to him and start a conversation...it can be about anything..good luck!
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Mar 26 2005, 06:07 PM
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 ticktock. Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,235 |
maybe you should start talking to him on Aim. It helps get you 2 more comfortable talking to each other. You could also call him; and if you`re too shy to do that; call up a friend; and you could 3way call him. It`s fun actually. Call a really hyper / fun friend to help stir things up. Good luck
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Apr 6 2005, 06:31 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 1 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 122,850 |
iight females nd im a guy so i know wat guys want
just come up nd talk to us cause most guys lazy nd like it betta wen they aint got to make an effort |
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Apr 6 2005, 06:46 PM
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 reluctantly gazing Group: Member Posts: 472 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 120,555 |
i usually have never liked someone if wasn't pretty good friends with first, because i usually fall for people once i get to know their personality and all.
however there was one time where i was in the same situation as you...there was this one boy who i really liked. just try to be friends with him first. don't really plan out what you are going to say ahead of time, unless you are sure that you will really just go up to him and say it when you have never talked to him before. If you are in any classes with him or have lunch the same time as him, it should be easier. If he asks a question or is talking to his friends, overhear something that they say and go "oh you know what?" and make a comment. Start sitting near him during lunch or something. Just let your relationship, even as friends, develop. It worked for me. And even though I don't like him anymore, in the process I became very close friends with the rest of his friends, and they are some of my best friends now. Actually, I like one of them now, but that was after I became extremely good friends with him. Good luck. |
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