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 Mar 24 2005, 10:25 PM
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 rawr.  Group: Member Posts: 304 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,529  |
i just want an opinion, is distance a good reason for breaking up with someone, or is love the only thing that matters no matter how far apart you are?
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Mar 24 2005, 10:26 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
It's not that good of a reason if the relationship isn't suffering.
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Mar 24 2005, 11:01 PM
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QUOTE(Despise @ Mar 25 2005, 4:26 AM) It's not that good of a reason if the relationship isn't suffering.  exactly. but you really need to know if you love this person and know if that person actually loves you back just as much.. love is a big word, its nothing like the word "like", love is a whole other story. so dont play with that word too much and be certain with ur feelings, or else ur playing with ur own feelings n u end up getting hurt (overseas, and that sucks  )if you truly love him n he does too equally n u guys WANT to make this work then go ahead and try =) and if u see a future with him. its a big thing, big commitment, and its hard.. ive been with my bf in a long distant relationship for over 2 years now and we're growing stronger, it wasnt easy emotionally at all but we pulled thru together :) n in 3months ill be going to the same college as him back in philippines :) anyway wow went blabbing there sorry!! |
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Mar 24 2005, 11:07 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
It's not a good reason if the two love each other...
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Mar 24 2005, 11:27 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
love knows no boundaries. if it's true love, distance doesn't matter. distance is a crap ass reason to break up with someone.
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Mar 24 2005, 11:39 PM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
Love is the only thing that matters no matter how far apart you guys are
 my jeremy...i miss him
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Mar 24 2005, 11:51 PM
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 Serious As A Heart Attack. Group: Member Posts: 2,292 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,344 |
if the 2 are truely in love, it shouldnt matter..my boyfriend and i have been together for 4 years and still going strong..i live in san francisco and hes in san diego..distance hasnt brought us apart and we arent planning on it either..
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Mar 24 2005, 11:52 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Well, like everyone said, if you're truly in love, then the distance wouldn't matter.
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Mar 25 2005, 12:13 AM
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distance can matter.. my friend broke up kuz she waz distant ffrom her man, shoot thhey were both in diff. grades w/ totally diff times...she didnt feel tha love so she brok up
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Mar 25 2005, 12:15 AM
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doesn't really matter of the distance u still be able to talk on the phonee.. n as long as they love each other
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Mar 25 2005, 12:45 AM
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 This is all my luck, it's all I got. Group: Member Posts: 1,373 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,532 |
Distance dosent really matter just as long as you love each other...
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Mar 25 2005, 12:50 AM
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long distance relantionships suck.
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Mar 25 2005, 06:37 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
it shouldn't matter.
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Mar 25 2005, 12:27 PM
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life is so ironic... Group: Member Posts: 73 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,671 |
Distance dosent matter as long as the 2 love each other.
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Mar 25 2005, 12:55 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
its a ok reason. my two and only two distance relationships broke up wit me cause we didnt see each other much but both was a long relationship.
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Mar 25 2005, 09:36 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
its hard...but wen u do see that person again...omg..u will be so happy n u just cherish the times that u have together n u dont fight as much as u usually did. sometimes not at all. sometimes distance is good a for a relationship. i went through it...it was really hard cuz i wanted to see him so much. i wanted him to b there but once i saw him...i was so happy. but we were going out for over two years bfore that so our relationship was pretty strong...n yea we were in love.
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Sep 16 2005, 08:07 PM
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yes.. what everyone said.
it doesnt matter ask long as you love each other and you both try. =) |
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Sep 16 2005, 08:20 PM
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Probably.
After awhile, you'll soon start too slowly stop talking to each other. Leaving messages... Sadly, if you are not present, your partner can do many things. Which is why it's hard to have distance... 
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Sep 17 2005, 11:00 PM
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i knwo a relationship is all about trust but sometimes you can't trust someone who is far away from you...you have know idea what they might be doing on a friday night
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Sep 18 2005, 10:07 AM
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It also depends on how much the two people involved in a relationship are willing to make it work. Some people can't handle not seeing their boyfriend/girlfriend for long periods of time because they want someone right there. And some realize that distant is not a barrier to the relationship unless you make it one.
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