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 Mar 22 2005, 11:41 PM
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 HI IM aLLi =]  Group: Member Posts: 216 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,012  |
My bf and I have been going out for more than a month and we do all that couple stuff like hug, hold hands, kiss( well not a lot), and cuddle but i never heard him say that he loves me. what should i do? im confused
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Mar 22 2005, 11:53 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
You've only been going out for a month? Give it time- wait till he really means it...
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Mar 23 2005, 12:26 AM
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 sunshiine Group: Member Posts: 1,080 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,360 |
he probably does love you, just cuz he doesnt say it alot doesnt mean he doesnt ^-^
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Mar 23 2005, 12:30 AM
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 Entropic Group: Member Posts: 216 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,522 |
do you just want to hear it? if so, thats just wrong. are you sure he loves you, y'all have only been going out a month. Love is a powerful word.
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Mar 23 2005, 12:30 AM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
he probably loves u...just give him some time...
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Mar 23 2005, 12:39 AM
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 who ma bitch? you ma bitch, bitch. Group: Member Posts: 1,920 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 55,278 |
time hunny give it some time
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Mar 23 2005, 12:40 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 893 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,217 |
What they said...another possibility is that he might be afraid that by saying "I love you," he'll freak you out and he's afraid you'll think it's too early for that or something.
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Mar 23 2005, 01:07 AM
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 This is all my luck, it's all I got. Group: Member Posts: 1,373 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,532 |
One month! You should give him some time just like everyone else said.
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Mar 23 2005, 01:08 AM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
Give him time; guys are afraid of commitment and by saying "I love you", it signifies commitment. If you just want him to say it just because you want to hear it, then I'm sorry hon, but you've got the wrong idea in mind. Wait til he says it when he really means it.
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Mar 23 2005, 02:42 AM
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 147. Group: Member Posts: 107 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,787 |
1 month's still too early to say i love u seriously.. i took about at least 4 months to feel that my gf's right and saying that...
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Mar 23 2005, 10:28 AM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
it's only a month...maybe he doesn't want to say it till he means it, give it time.
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Mar 23 2005, 10:46 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 90 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 110,867 |
Maybe he doesnt
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Mar 23 2005, 12:00 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 30 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,627 |
after one month there is no way "i love you" could be said and meant. sorry babe, but in reality, the true form of love is barely accomplished.
Historically, if you look up the hebrew forms of love, it follows along a christian basis where you dont have true LOVE until you're married and such. BUT in this world, the LOVE word shouldn't come out until you truly mean it, which takes months, even years.... |
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Mar 23 2005, 01:45 PM
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 Sharie. Group: Member Posts: 2,429 Joined: Dec 2003 Member No: 103 |
Did you ever tell him that you loved him?
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Mar 23 2005, 01:54 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,343 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,767 |
GREAT GOING, WHORE!
WHOA sorry wrong thread...... i'll reply to this as soon as i read it. |
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Mar 23 2005, 02:57 PM
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 michaelx3 Group: Member Posts: 26 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,600 |
you gotta give it time, would you rather him say it now and not mean it? or wait till he REAlLY means it..not saying that he dOesn't love you now but dont put too much pressure on that topic..as long as you guys are happy i think thats what matters
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Mar 23 2005, 05:22 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
give it time, it's only been a month. don't rush into things
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Mar 23 2005, 05:24 PM
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 i just want BANG BANG BANG Group: Member Posts: 252 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,855 |
be patient! one month isnt long
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Mar 23 2005, 05:25 PM
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 CB's Forum Troll Group: Member Posts: 926 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,142 |
:P i think he does and hes just a bit shy..thats how i was...
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Mar 23 2005, 05:27 PM
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it's one month. calm down.
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Mar 23 2005, 05:30 PM
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 to be loved by someone you love is.. everything Group: Member Posts: 1,207 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,205 |
only one month, and you're expecting him to say i love you? Some people think the 3 words are truly meaningful and some don't. He's probably the kind that you're going to have to take time on.
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Mar 23 2005, 07:44 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
Love isn't a word to be used lightly... you probably don't know each other that well enough for him to actually mean it. and it's good that he's not just saying it outright just because he's your bf. basically, give it time. and don't make him feel like he's obligated to say it soon
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Mar 23 2005, 07:57 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
QUOTE My bf and I have been going out for more than a month and we do all that couple stuff like hug, hold hands, kiss( well not a lot), and cuddle but i never heard him say that he loves me. what should i do? im confused wow ur so...UGH!!! you cant fall in love in a month. be patient damn. Dont just spit out love like its crap. honestly, u seem immature to me |
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Mar 23 2005, 08:04 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
if he says it to early and doesnt mean it then it's not worth hearing from him. u have to wait till he means it. and plus me n my boyfriend started saying that we loved each other after a couple months. just wait...even if it takes a few more months.
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Mar 24 2005, 09:40 AM
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 .:gossipgirl:. Group: Member Posts: 156 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 111,300 |
he doesnt say that.
but it doent mean he doesnt love u. give time. you're confused if her really loves u. dont worry, i think he does. |
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