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post Mar 21 2005, 07:09 PM
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I havent ever had a boyfriend, no one ever goes out with me and i get really upset and it makes me sad to see ALL my friends go out with half the guys in my school and i havent even gone out with 1...any advice? cry.gif
 
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post Mar 21 2005, 07:11 PM
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dont worrry about it they coem around i never had b/fs either they tell me were jsut better friends but somebody likes you dont worry about it
 
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post Mar 21 2005, 07:11 PM
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be patient. just because you dont have a bf right now, doesnt mean you will never have one! dont rush it, enjoy being single, and when you least expect it there will be someone there for you biggrin.gif
 
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post Mar 21 2005, 07:21 PM
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I have a few suggestions.

1) Be patient and wait it out. Your time will come.
2) Get to know more guys.
3) Make the first move.

How old are you, anyway?
If you're only in junior high, then it's no problem.
If you're in high school, it's still not a problem, but just be patient.
 
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post Mar 21 2005, 07:23 PM
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wait for the right guy...or get to know other guys...dont rush things...
 
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post Mar 21 2005, 07:26 PM
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In psychology class we were talking about how everyone is trying to find in someone, their other half. When all we really want is the companionship and the stability.

When a relationship starts off the person usually seems completely perfect but once that facade is broken you start to depart; no one is perfect. We must be content with ourselves in order to be able to truly appreciate another.

I also find that the best things come when you least expect them to. Don't set your bar to what your friends have. That's envy that you don't need.
 
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post Mar 21 2005, 07:28 PM
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well it dpends on how old you are... & you shouldn't worry about it too much... you'll have a bf when the time is right.
 
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post Mar 21 2005, 10:20 PM
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Everyone wants to companionship. Everyone wants that special someone. No one likes to be alone; age is not factor emotion wise.
 
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post Mar 21 2005, 10:24 PM
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Ok heres the first absolute thing you need to know
-Even if you don't have a boyfriend you WILL soon!!

But if you're really desprate you gotta start talking/flirting with guys to make the first move!! Find a guy... and blow him away.
 
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post Mar 21 2005, 10:24 PM
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You're DOOMED you'll never get married or have children! Lyke AMAGAWD dat sukz!!!11one!!! rolleyes.gif


How old are you 12? Give it time.
 
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post Mar 22 2005, 02:00 AM
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well.....be patient!!
if u are liking someone, go and tell him
 
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post Mar 22 2005, 04:02 AM
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wait for the right guy...or get to know other guys...dont rush things... 


i agree, i didnt have a boyfriend till this year and im 15 years old and im a Sophomore in high school lol
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post Mar 22 2005, 05:12 AM
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thats not a problem...
you are still young...
 
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post Mar 22 2005, 03:56 PM
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thanks for all ur help! happy.gif
 
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post Mar 22 2005, 03:58 PM
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i don't want a boyfriend until i go to college.
i just don't see a point.
 
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post Mar 22 2005, 04:00 PM
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lifes tough, deal with it
 
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post Mar 22 2005, 04:01 PM
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just wait. you'll find someone.
 
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post Mar 27 2005, 05:31 PM
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QUOTE(inlonelinessidie @ Mar 21 2005, 11:24 PM)
You're DOOMED you'll never get married or have children! Lyke AMAGAWD dat sukz!!!11one!!!  rolleyes.gif
How old are you 12? Give it time.
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haha. why does it matter that your friends have something you don't?

for every positive or negative aspect in life, there's one to make up for it. trust me, you don't need a boyfriend to make you happy. i'm 13 without a guy.

just build up plenty of friendships.
 
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post Mar 27 2005, 07:07 PM
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Chillax and give it time happy.gif When the times i right, you'll have a boyfriend. Don't feel any less than your friends just because you don't have a boyfriend. Or, you could ask a guy out, if you like him. rolleyes.gif
 
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post Mar 27 2005, 09:40 PM
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enjoy being single. be patient, someone right will come along
 
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post Mar 27 2005, 10:56 PM
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Yeah, i have that same problem. I'm 14 and i've never had a boyfriend. my friends come to me about their guy problems and i hav no idea what to say becuse i never had one. i get so jealous and i cant help it cry.gif
 
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post Mar 27 2005, 11:57 PM
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it's okay, same here :)
my friends have gotten like 5 boyfriends already, and i haven't had one either. so i'm still waiting, and they DO come.
back in october, this guy kept complimenting me, he was really sweet, but i turned him down..cuz he already had like 3 gf's and i wanted a special relationship.
but yeah, see? they do come, and just wait. but when they do, choose carefully. you dont want to be like your friends who have gone out with a bajillion guys already.
 
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post Mar 28 2005, 04:25 AM
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maybe ur friends are sluts ( not to be rude its the way u said it)
 
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post Mar 28 2005, 04:35 AM
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you'll get one soon. just dont be too wild nor too shy. then guys think you're not a really good person. just have some sense of humor too... guys like when girls know how to make a guy laugh.
 
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post Mar 28 2005, 06:43 AM
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don't rush into it, and choose the wrong guy. it's better to wait and get a guy that's just right for you then to go out with a bazillion guys and get your heart broken too many times
 
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post Mar 28 2005, 07:17 AM
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yes, boyfriends come and go.
but all of my friends are single right now, and it works out better that way =]
 
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post Mar 28 2005, 08:53 AM
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aww, sweetie. they'll come around. : ) buht iff one does, make sure that he's a GOOD guy...just dont date a random loser cuz he's the only one that wants to date u. u gotta WAIT fohr the rite guy. trust me...i've had experience. and also wen u get a bf, always make sure that he loves u more than u love him (u will know u love him...heartaches) . aiites? pce.
 
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post Mar 28 2005, 08:57 AM
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QUOTE(nicky04033 @ Mar 22 2005, 1:00 AM)
well.....be patient!!
if u are liking someone, go and tell him
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thats not always easy tho..
 
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post Mar 28 2005, 09:18 AM
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How old are you?
Once you get a boyfriend, a lot of problems start to come (even though I know there are good things _smile.gif).


Don't worry, I never had one either.
 
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post Mar 28 2005, 09:56 AM
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yeah well like everyone said u have to be patient. usually it just comes out of no where. ive had two boyfriends when i only expected how many this year?? ZERO. the first one, there was this guy i didnt even know was in this building and he said he liked me. i got to know him a bit, and yeah our relationship lasted longer than what i intended. =D dont worry n keep smilin! ever heard the quote "dont frown because you never know whos falling in love with your smile!"
 
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post Mar 28 2005, 11:49 AM
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Honestly, I haven't had a REAL boyfriend, or a REAL kiss. Why? A) Because I don't find myself that attractive. B) I'm not even ready for one, I'm still in middle school and they make better friends. <3
 
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post Mar 28 2005, 11:53 AM
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ahhh... I never have a boyfriend too.
I don't think girls must have boyfriend.
It maybe the guys in my city is too bad.
But, be yourself, they will love u yet.
 
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