How do u get an older girl to like u?, shes in the grade above me |
 Mar 21 2005, 05:14 PM
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How do u get a girl who is a grade above u to like u?????cuz right now it seems really hopeless but i really like her but i dont think she likes me in da same way........please help me out, im desperate
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Mar 21 2005, 05:26 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
well does she know you exist? girls often like the older guys, but not all. Maybe try talking to her.. like just go up to her and start a conversation. She has to get to know you before she can like you..
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Mar 21 2005, 05:27 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
you approach her and say hi....and you get to know her...her liking you or not depends on how well you two get along. just be yourself and try to understand her...
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Mar 21 2005, 10:36 PM
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 Tasty. Group: Member Posts: 471 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,784 |
hmm, well i went out with a guy younger than me. it didn't work out, but i went out with him because he was really sweet and mature for his age. heres my idea:
* be mature. u gotta show her that u're worth more than the guys that are her age. (mature is being kind, liking the girl for who she is, and not for the nice "rack" she has) just act mature and decent * get to know her. be her friend at first an dthen surprise her, but don't make it seem like u're just a friend. so show her a lil flirting * then, one day, after she's been endlessly smiling and giggling (shure sign, unless u've made a joke..) give her a surprise. i think that if you surprised her one day with a rose with a cute note attached to it would be sweet. think of sumthing that an "older guy" would never think of. don't giver her a love note in her locker...eek... or tell a friend to tell her (thats very 1st grade love), show her that you're worth her time and that u're not afraid. girls like guys who can be their manly-man. good luck! go get em. |
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Mar 22 2005, 01:02 AM
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 i just want BANG BANG BANG Group: Member Posts: 252 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,855 |
you cant MAKE a girl like you... you just have to aproach her, and stand out in a way she has never seen before... like, dont be an ass in front of her, and be nice to her, and just let her know that you care about her... make the first move, girls like that
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Mar 22 2005, 01:24 AM
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 I wanna LALA!!! Group: Member Posts: 81 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,728 |
QUOTE you cant MAKE a girl like you... you just have to aproach her, and stand out in a way she has never seen before... like, dont be an ass in front of her, and be nice to her, and just let her know that you care about her... make the first move, girls like that I agree. Im a girl and i love that stuff, lol x3 Kristin aka Angel |
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Mar 23 2005, 07:49 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
be mature, but being really sweet (like babyish... in a way) is REALLY cute also
 and funny always works... but also be yourself. it's obvious when you're trying too hard
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Mar 23 2005, 07:53 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
definitely show her that ur there n be her friend. acting mature is a good one. girls go for that. dont act so childish cuz girls can find that not so attractive. a lil is good but not to much. n be urself.
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Mar 23 2005, 07:55 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
easy. move on.
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Mar 23 2005, 10:13 PM
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 cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
The way I do it is I become friends with who the girl is close with...
I do it a lot since most of the girls i like are older than me... |
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Mar 23 2005, 10:39 PM
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 NO. I'm not 13. or 14. or 15. or 16. Group: Member Posts: 4,616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,577 |
My friend is in my grade, and the girl he likes is one grade higher, but if you met them, you wouldn't notice because my friend is pretty mature and he doesn't look that young. I don't know if that's the case with you.
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Mar 23 2005, 11:58 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
QUOTE(ohh_so_elektrikk<3 @ Mar 21 2005, 8:02 PM) you cant MAKE a girl like you... you just have to aproach her, and stand out in a way she has never seen before... like, dont be an ass in front of her, and be nice to her, and just let her know that you care about her... make the first move, girls like that  agreed..good luck.. |
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Mar 24 2005, 09:28 AM
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 .:gossipgirl:. Group: Member Posts: 156 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 111,300 |
if she's not interest in u,
then just let go. |
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Mar 25 2005, 10:03 AM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
My girlfriend is 2 years older than me!
But, what you have to do is, pretend that you don't like her but, be her friend. You want her to like you more than you like her! Lets be real I and everybody knows that its the girls decision if she wants the relationship or she wants to keep it! |
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Mar 25 2005, 10:36 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 139 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,985 |
be yourself, talk to her a lot, take her out, then ask her out. it's that simple. it worked on me.. oh yeah and before you ask her out, kiss her longgg.. it works.. believe me
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Mar 25 2005, 02:26 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
i like a guy 2 grades above me.
just talk to her. get to know her. u never know. |
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Mar 26 2005, 03:56 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 117,954 |
sweet emotions got the right idea...
maturity is key and having courage to accept rejection, i dated someone two years older than me and two years younger than me... age aint nuttin but a number...and you cant make them like you... and if she dont like you oh well she was a lesbian anyway 
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Mar 26 2005, 10:55 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 831 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,326 |
flirt with her =]
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Mar 26 2005, 10:57 PM
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**I'm O sO fLy** Group: Member Posts: 304 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,281 |
ehh i ono i'mma guh i have a guy in a grade above me yea....
i have a friend and her boy is in a grade lower then her she's liked him for a while they ended up goin' out i dun know how though |
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Mar 26 2005, 11:43 PM
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 original member. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,825 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,460 |
how old are YOU? how old is SHE?
well, goodluck --> girls usually like older guys. For the time being, just try to get to know her and become her friend. |
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Mar 27 2005, 12:03 AM
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Be yourself. Talk to her. I picked up a boy a year younger a while back. But I kinda regret it. [Not to burst your bubble or anything]
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Mar 27 2005, 03:36 AM
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 dripping destruction Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,282 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,929 |
girls my age are too immature...
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