what do YOU do when, you have a crush Options

[bbyxdroar]

background info: i go to an after school program after school. haha and if you don't pass your test there, you get a 30 minute detention afterwords. so i usually don't -_-. but there is a really really NICE T.A there who usually lets me go when he's not suppose to . well the teacher usually knows that i don't pass so one day,after the corrected test was being passed out by the teacher. he said.. well, you have to go to detention. and then i asked the teacher if it was john T,A - ing in detention today. and he said yea i think and i said thats good, he'll let me go then haha. so the whole class was like, whooo he likes you and stuff and then i go uh no -_- and then the whole class goes.. then you like him. so when it was time for the t.a to come to ask whose in detention today, i was blushing HAHA only because it was embarassing, -_- and i don't like him, at least that time. well my classmate told him that ilike him even tho i don't. and he's like oh okay..

on that same exact day, me and my friend went to a fast food place and saw him with his gf and it was all okay. but i guess 3 months later? which is now. i realized that i DO like him -________- how weird is that. the way he looks at me , the way he ALWAYS talk to me, and the way he helps me, makes me CAN'T stop thinking about him.

& i don't know what to do -_- some people say he likes me cuz he flirts with me and stuff. but ... i have no idea what to do.. should i tell him or what? help THANKS

[yeseulx3]

maybe you're mistaken.
sometimes we long for something so much that we actually think we'd get what we desire.

[_sarcastic_]

^ i agree.

i don't think he does like you i mean he already has a gf. well you could tell him but i don't think it's gonna change a thing

[racoons > you]

^^

if he has a g/f, you need to back off. its not your place to try and cause them problems. maybe after they split, you can go for it

[Litt0_TeeZy]

maybe you're mistaken.
sometimes we long for something so much that we actually think we'd get what we desire.

i agree. hmm...maybe he's just being nice? or maybe he likes you but can't have you? i dunno...but it's kinda weird liking a TA don't you think? o_O

[xXirockhardXx]

Yeah i think you should back off. Just like MarchHare2UrAlice said you dont want to start any problems.

[secretXoshadow]

i think you should just relax and move on ... is he older than you ?
well if he is maybe you should just stop thinking about him and if he likes you a lot then he'll come to you ...hmm .. idk ..


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[whatiismae]

he has a gf, leave him alone. he's your teacher..

[angelrevelation]

an after school program after school haha NICE...

TAs at our school are usually students (from our school) and it counts as a class... so is he your age or not? its possible he could like you, but he DOES have a girlfriend. maybe he just thinks you're a really fun person. i dunno. anything's possible (if you've read "The Truth About Forever" by Sarah Dessen, you'll know what i'm talking about)

[ichiban]

If he has a girlfriend you should kind of back off for now

[Shattered_Hope]

you normally tell that person how you feel if you have a crush on them.....but if they have a g/f...you should back off....seriously..

[yukichan]

^^

if he has a g/f, you need to back off. its not your place to try and cause them problems. maybe after they split, you can go for it

agreed...exactly what i would have said..

[misoshiru]

he has a girlfriend already. james is right..back off for now.

[Levy2k6]

i believe you should do what the ppl above me said, back off.. you don't want to get yourself in any more conflicts

[someflipguy]

Im not going to advise to do what those people say!

I say go for it, all you have to lose is him saying NO!

[NyteRyder]

If I like a girl, i just tell them. Better for them to know. even if they are taken, it'll put a smile on their face.

[bad_girl]

he has a girlfriend.

[wishesanddreams]

it's time to move on, BIG TIME