does having alot of guy friends affect..., your love life? |
 Mar 20 2005, 12:17 AM
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 Linny the dork.  Group: Member Posts: 178 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,258  |
okay i just wanna know if i'm like the only one:
recently i've been getting close with this guy, and believe me he's like perfect, i really like him and i think he likes me too. the thing is, he doesn't like being around alot of people, and i happen to have alot of guy friends that like to poke around and talk to me and stuff, and this guy always looks disturbed whenever i talk to my guy-friends... i don't know if you get it but yeah, i haven't felt this way about a guy like this in awhile and i'm trying really hard not to mess up. i don't wanna blow off my friends though... what should i do? |
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Mar 20 2005, 12:28 AM
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 This is all my luck, it's all I got. Group: Member Posts: 1,373 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,532 |
I think yuo should talk to him and ask him why he seems so disturbed when you talk to your guy friends. Because i dont think you should blow off your friends for a guy.
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Mar 20 2005, 12:36 AM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
depends on the guy. If he's understanding then he won't mind....but if he's easily jealous then yes..it would have some affect. To be blunt...don't be too playful.
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Mar 20 2005, 08:53 AM
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 E=Fb Musicians Theory of Relativity Group: Member Posts: 711 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,045 |
He might be a little jealous. :P Just sit down and explain to him that you don't have any feelings for the other guys, that they are just your friends.
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Mar 20 2005, 10:06 AM
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 Litt0 Mi55 T@rA! Group: Member Posts: 185 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 111,734 |
hmm...guys get jealous A LOT! you'll have to talk to him and tell him straight up that your feelings are for HIM and only HIM. you could also tell your guy friends to cut down the "flirting". kuz the guy that you like probably sees it like that so yeah....
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Mar 20 2005, 10:55 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 90 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 110,867 |
Talkto him... he's jealous
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Mar 20 2005, 12:05 PM
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 im addicted to my car<3 Group: Member Posts: 635 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,236 |
you know if you talk to him he might understand. good luck.
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Mar 20 2005, 12:31 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Yeah, he might be a bit jealous. My boyfriend doesn't mind it too much when I talk with my guy friends, but I mind when he's with his female friends... Talk to him, and try to work something out.
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Mar 20 2005, 01:33 PM
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life is so ironic... Group: Member Posts: 73 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,671 |
I have A LOT of guy friends too all my close friens are guy. It took a long time for my ex-boyfriends to get over it.
Jealousy is a must but if he really likes you he would be able to overcome the fact that u have lotta guy friends. besides whatever happened to that word trust? |
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Mar 20 2005, 01:54 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
yea definitely talk to him. it might not work out cuz of that..relaly. i honestly think that u should not get into that relationship in the first place cuz i see that u guys arent going to have a happy relationship. a matter of u would be miserable in it cuz seems like he's going to be the type who might not always b on ur back about stuff but he'll always b in a bad mood if u dont do wat he asks...seems to me he doesnt get over stuff that easily at all.
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Mar 20 2005, 01:55 PM
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 who ma bitch? you ma bitch, bitch. Group: Member Posts: 1,920 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 55,278 |
QUOTE(xXirockhardXx @ Mar 19 2005, 9:28 PM) I think yuo should talk to him and ask him why he seems so disturbed when you talk to your guy friends. Because i dont think you should blow off your friends for a guy.  exactly if he really likes u he should at leat act like he like ur friends |
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Mar 20 2005, 03:13 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
QUOTE(anger_is_my_friend @ Mar 20 2005, 12:17 AM) okay i just wanna know if i'm like the only one: recently i've been getting close with this guy, and believe me he's like perfect, i really like him and i think he likes me too. the thing is, he doesn't like being around alot of people, and i happen to have alot of guy friends that like to poke around and talk to me and stuff, and this guy always looks disturbed whenever i talk to my guy-friends... i don't know if you get it but yeah, i haven't felt this way about a guy like this in awhile and i'm trying really hard not to mess up. i don't wanna blow off my friends though... what should i do? yehh...noo... lol b/c if it wer MY guy friendz, my bf wuda been waz up w/ em or sumthing, but if it wer hiz guy friends, it wuda been tha same but less worryin... |
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Mar 20 2005, 03:14 PM
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 Word. Group: Member Posts: 3,004 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,673 |
all u really have to do is tell him that there just ur friends and there just friends, nothing else... and you should be okay.
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Mar 20 2005, 04:44 PM
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 Fearless? Group: Member Posts: 215 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 100,183 |
I'd Say yeah because obviously guys might think your going out with them thats why i didn't ask out a couple girls cause i thought they had a boyfriend but apparently it was there good friend that was a guy.
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Mar 20 2005, 11:54 PM
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 THE EVERGLOW Group: Member Posts: 95 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 114,409 |
watch out he might be the jealous type.
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Mar 20 2005, 11:56 PM
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 hello : ) Group: Official Member Posts: 4,227 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,139 |
I think he is just jealous so you should make it a point that you like him and only him and they are just friends and you aren't interested in them. This might help it. If not, then really talk to him about why he acts this way.
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Mar 21 2005, 12:04 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 266 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,889 |
make him meet your friends. your guy-friends are only friends. just make him feel welcome with your other friends, thats what i do, since i have alot of guy friends too
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Mar 21 2005, 12:10 AM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
Get him to understand those guy friends are just friends and treat him better than your guy friends =]
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Mar 21 2005, 04:05 AM
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 I wanna LALA!!! Group: Member Posts: 81 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,728 |
QUOTE hmm...guys get jealous A LOT! you'll have to talk to him and tell him straight up that your feelings are for HIM and only HIM. you could also tell your guy friends to cut down the "flirting". kuz the guy that you like probably sees it like that so yeah.... I agree with that. I also have a alot of guy friends, and i use to be in a situation like that and the guy i was dating got really jelouse and i could see that he was by the way he looks at my guy friends, so i told him straight up that feelings are for him and only him, and he understood. |
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