I'm screwd...., what should I do. Options

[StarlitxFrosT]

K. I got into it w/ my aunt again. I took off and now i'm at home. she bought me my car. that means she could take it away right? I really don't know if she could kick me out of the house b/c she is also my legal guardian.. does ne one know legal stuff....I don't know what to do.
I mean, we fight constantly and I absolutely can't stand her. This woman is crazy she even tried to strangle me when I was younger. I'm 17, I think that's legal to move out..

advices appreciated.

[HongKongDong]

YOu can move out when your 17, fault is that you and your aunt have to fill out a bunch of papers and all that bullshit about security blah blah blah. When you become 18 you can jet it outta there without doing anything.


Who is the car registered too? Have insurance? If its to you then she can't do a thing.

Tried strangling you when you were younger? My dad tries hitting me now, he did once but I punched him back, now its just a bunch of threats =/ anyway, yeah, call the police or something if she resorts back to that.

This post has been edited by Funky Buddha: Mar 19 2005, 05:43 PM

[StarlitxFrosT]

how old are you?
i think you can legally move out when you reach 18...

if she tried to stranggle you and did it again you should call the police cuz you are not in safe hands and someone will find another relative for you...

the stranglin thing was a while ago when i was 12, if you read what I wrote I said I was 17.

[snak3y3z1001]

you can get an emancipation. really depends on the state yur in tho. If you can manage your own finances, has a legal source of income, and is not financially dependent on her parents/guardian. then you can request one. on the car, it depends whose name the car is registered too

[Skyline Drive]

There isn't much you can do. If you have somewhere else to go then I encourage you to leave that crazy aunt of yours but If you have no where to go.. then maybe you should wait till your 18 to make your escape.

<3 Good luck

[racoons > you]

move in with a friend, until you can sort something more permanent. if it is that bad, you need to call someone with authority, child-help or the police

[StarlitxFrosT]

YOu can move out when your 17, fault is that you and your aunt have to fill out a bunch of papers and all that bullshit about security blah blah blah. When you become 18 you can jet it outta there without doing anything.
Who is the car registered too? Have insurance? If its to you then she can't do a thing.

Tried strangling you when you were younger? My dad tries hitting me now, he did once but I punched him back, now its just a bunch of threats =/ anyway, yeah, call the police or something if she resorts back to that.

Yeah, we still git physical every now and then b/c shes crazy but if i call the cops they won't do nothing until I have injuries...*sigh* The car's registered to this other aunt whom it used to belong to. Yes i have insurance also under my other aunts name.. I understand there's one more year til I'm legal but I mean, I just can't take it, it's torturing me. Well, even if she can't do a thing cuz it's not under her name (the car) she'll literally wrestle me for the keys.

She gets off work at around 10 pm tonight...



again, thanks for everyone's advices, I truly appreciate it.

[heyyfrankie]

she tried to strangle you??? wow! you need to get out of there. and y'all are constantly fighting, it is not a healthy environment for the both of you. =/

tell your real parents or your grands or call the police or something...

[*chaneun*]

shoodn't this beeeee iiin reeelationshiiiips?

[StarlitxFrosT]

she tried to strangle you??? wow! you need to get out of there. and y'all are constantly fighting, it is not a healthy environment for the both of you. =/

tell your real parents or your grands or call the police or something...

thing is i've never even met my daddy, my mom lives in texas..which is why this aunt is my legal guardian makin things even harder. As for my grands, they cannot do a thing. she will lie about the whole thing, turnin everyone against me.. it's complicated

[racoons > you]

^^

if its complicatede, all the more reason to sek outside elp. to an objective outsider, a sloution may appear more obviuos, and they can sort it out. there are people who deal with this kind of thing everyday. child-help for instance. try them, they'll give you much better advice than we can

[HongKongDong]

even if she can't do a thing cuz it's not under her name (the car) she'll literally wrestle me for the keys.

She gets off work at around 10 pm tonight...
again, thanks for everyone's advices, I truly appreciate it.

She has no right to do that. Even if she did buy it its not hers, its yours... not your aunts, yours.

If I were you I would just cheest it before she gets home and stay with a friend.

Alas, if she looks for you and doesnt know where you are and calls the police and after 24 hours the police finds out where you are your friends parents can get arrested or fined for harboring. I myself would take the chance but I highly advise you not to xD

Honestly, I don't think there isn't much you can do unless you both agree to fill out a shit load of papers and have her buy you the house under her name until you are legally 18.. and yeah

^^

if its complicatede, all the more reason to sek outside elp. to an objective outsider, a sloution may appear more obviuos, and they can sort it out. there are people who deal with this kind of thing everyday. child-help for instance. try them, they'll give you much better advice than we can

^^Yeah, what he said