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If your boyfriend gave you $100 for a gift. And then you guys broke up, would you give it back?
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post Mar 19 2005, 10:09 AM
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it was a hundred dollars CASH lyke 5 twentiees? yeahh lyke that.
 
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post Mar 19 2005, 10:13 AM
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hmm if it was really nice i would hahahah
 
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post Mar 19 2005, 10:25 AM
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Not unless i was crazy..why would u give it back? well unless you dont wanna be reminded of him
 
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post Mar 19 2005, 12:27 PM
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Hell No , it was a gift and its 100 DOLLARS!
 
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post Mar 19 2005, 12:33 PM
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Muahahaha! No i wouldnt. Its his problem for giving you a 100 dollar gift card. Not yours.
 
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post Mar 19 2005, 12:54 PM
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no! lol evenif he asked bak..i wouldnt..but wen i gave my bf a 23$$ gift, he gave it bakk wen we broke up...i wanted to give it away but ppl said to keep it for memories..
 
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post Mar 19 2005, 12:56 PM
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didnt hv to
 
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post Mar 19 2005, 01:12 PM
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Psh....no. It was a gift, and it was given while we were dating, so that doesnt mean I have to give it back.
 
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post Mar 19 2005, 02:20 PM
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ya i guess i wouldnt give it back unless they ask for it back..
 
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post Mar 19 2005, 03:59 PM
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i wouldn give it back :P
 
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post Mar 19 2005, 09:54 PM
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it was a gift.......so no
 
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post Mar 19 2005, 10:19 PM
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dpends... if he gave u the money the day before.. i might give it back but if it was a week before.. no.
 
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post Mar 19 2005, 10:28 PM
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dude. he GAVE it to me. i aint givin that back.....sucka.
 
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post Mar 19 2005, 10:49 PM
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umm NOOOOOO. ...helllll nahhh lol
 
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post Mar 20 2005, 12:16 AM
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It's a gift....so I don't think you need to give it back. But if he asks for it back...then..I think you should give it back...it really depends on the gift and how much this person meant to you.
 
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yeah...umm...if it was a gift, why would i give it back? besides, i'd probably have spent it already. rolleyes.gif
 
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post Mar 20 2005, 01:08 AM
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psh noo its mine now rolleyes.gif

if he like demands all his stuff back then i guess id give it back... but only if he asked..
 
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post Mar 20 2005, 03:38 AM
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No, for it was a gift.
 
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post Mar 20 2005, 03:46 AM
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No, I wouldn't.
 
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post Mar 20 2005, 04:33 AM
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i would have already spent it... hell no i wouldnt give it back.
 
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post Mar 20 2005, 04:44 AM
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no, i wouldnt because that just seems stupid to me.
 
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post Mar 20 2005, 04:18 PM
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i probably would've spent it before i could give it back.
 
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post Mar 20 2005, 04:24 PM
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nope, it would be too late to give it back shifty.gif
 
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post Mar 20 2005, 05:26 PM
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Ha ha ha, you are so funny! laugh.gif Why would I give it back? laugh.gif
 
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post Mar 20 2005, 05:33 PM
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Of course not.
 
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post Mar 20 2005, 11:09 PM
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oh hell no, i wouldn't have accepted the money in the first place, i'm not going to take advantage of someone like that _dry.gif

i don't even take money my boyfriend offers me even when i need it
 
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post Apr 8 2005, 09:58 AM
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I wouldn't accept the money. I'd tell him to go buy me an actual gift. ermm.gif
 
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post Apr 8 2005, 11:11 AM
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blink.gif WHAT?
If he gave you a 100 dollars when you guys were still a couple, it's his problem.
But then again the question is, who broke up with who?
If you broke up with him right after he gave you the money, you should certainly give it back.
I mean, you could of just possibly broken his heart (or at least dented it) so he deserves his 100 dollars back.



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post Apr 8 2005, 03:08 PM
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i would so hunt the girl down!
 
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post Apr 8 2005, 04:01 PM
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I wouldn't have accepted it in the first place. I don't like materialistic shit.
 
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post Apr 8 2005, 04:42 PM
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Nope stuff him, it would be my money now! lol
 
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post Apr 8 2005, 05:11 PM
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only if he asked, but i'd probably feel guilty for accepting the money
 
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post Apr 8 2005, 05:44 PM
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i would've because i wouldnt be keeping it if i broke up with him.
 
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post Apr 9 2005, 07:39 AM
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i choose no because the money was a gift and you dont have to give back by law so he couldnt sue me for it
 
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post Apr 10 2005, 11:12 PM
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no i wouldn't give it back. its his gift for ME haha
 
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post Apr 10 2005, 11:44 PM
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heck no! haha..this guy at school bought me a diamond necklace and he ALWAYS talked about how he had "so much money" and he told everyone that he bought me the necklace so i would break up with my bf of 5 years and go out with him..when i told him that i wouldnt go out with him he asked for the necklace back and i was like uhh no..you gave it to me..im so mean =/
 
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post Apr 11 2005, 01:09 AM
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no.. its in da pass and u would of already spent it oo i want 100 dollors
 
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post Apr 11 2005, 01:11 AM
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Of course no, it was a gift.
 
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post Apr 11 2005, 04:05 PM
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i put no...only cuz he gave it to you as a gift...so he must care...and for me it depends on how soon we broke up after he gave me the money blink.gif
 
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post Apr 11 2005, 06:27 PM
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nope.
 
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post Apr 11 2005, 06:56 PM
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yea i would give it back, its common curtousy. ALTHOUGH it all depends on how the relationship ended....if it was a mutual breakup (no one got hurt) then u HAVE to give it back. on teh otherhad, if he was an a$$....then go on a lil shopping spree gurlie! and then to be even wose, ask him if he likes those new $100 boots you got urself...teehee shifty.gif
 
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post Apr 11 2005, 07:27 PM
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well i probably would have spent it before we broke up. and i wouldnt unless they asked me for it back, and i might give them a bit of what i had left, only if we were still on friendly terms.
 
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post Apr 11 2005, 08:28 PM
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yah, i would give it back. not because i am an incredibly nice person, its just because he would probably try to come back on me and say "you owe me $100!!!". uh...no. i could do with out the drama.
 
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post Apr 16 2005, 03:45 AM
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QUOTE(sunissed14127 @ Mar 19 2005, 1:12 PM)
Psh....no. It was a gift, and it was given while we were dating, so that doesnt mean I have to give it back.
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QUOTE(x LUV x ALWAYS x @ Apr 11 2005, 7:27 PM)
  well i probably would have spent it before we broke up. and i wouldnt unless they asked me for it back, and i might give them a bit of what i had left, only if we were still on friendly terms.


I agree, I can't keep money in my pocket, and anyways its a gift, its given to you, not borrowed, therefore there is no need for a refund.
 
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post Apr 16 2005, 04:41 AM
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no.......i wont do it......
becoz it is my gift......it belongs to me now~~~
 
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post Apr 16 2005, 12:42 PM
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i`d tell him "dude, all sales are final."
 
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post Apr 17 2005, 09:31 PM
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hell naw. i never give money away. are you crazy? (jp)
 
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post Apr 17 2005, 09:31 PM
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Pshh.. you kiddin' me?? If he gives me money, that's his fault. I'm keepin' it, b!tch. lol.

My mom broke up with her (ex) fiance and kept the ring. Hey.. he gave it to her. That made it her property. Either way, he took some of her crap when we moved out and he wound up stalking her so I think that gave her the right. Don't you? blink.gif
 
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post Apr 17 2005, 10:03 PM
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a gift is a gift. What if you already spent it. What if you dont have a job? How you supposed to give it back? What if you bought clothes with it and wore them and couldnt return them? I'd keep it. Like I said, a gift is a gift.
 
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post Apr 17 2005, 10:23 PM
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Hell to the no i wont give it back
 
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post Apr 17 2005, 10:27 PM
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nope i would not give it back ..
 
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post Apr 18 2005, 04:34 PM
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It would depend on how we broke up, if was on good terms I'd probably offer half back, but if it was on bad I'd keep it and treat myself to something good.
 
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post Apr 20 2005, 07:25 AM
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no... i keep it well as a memory.....
 
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post Apr 20 2005, 07:44 AM
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so what I wanna know is, did u actually get 100$ cuz if you are having a hard time deciding what to do with it, I could always take it off of your hands :D
 
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post Apr 20 2005, 09:02 AM
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Hell no. If he broke up with me, then i won't give it back fo'sure. He broke my heart & hurted me. It can all be repayed by $100. [B
 
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post Apr 20 2005, 11:46 AM
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umm okay..i would never give it back.
 
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post Apr 20 2005, 03:52 PM
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lol no. it was a gift and besides that -- 100$ . i would keep it for memories or something
 
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post Apr 20 2005, 05:18 PM
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psh no! it was a gift anyway lol
 
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my ex and current bf has given me many gives and just money costing much much over that amount lol!! and hell i'm keeping it ^_______^"
 
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QUOTE(pinayprincess @ Mar 19 2005, 9:54 AM)
no! lol evenif he asked bak..i wouldnt..but wen i gave my bf a 23$$ gift, he gave it bakk wen we broke up...i wanted to give it away but ppl said to keep it for memories..
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So you were going to give someone else a gift you bought for your boyfriend that he gave back to you?

Wow your hella generous.
 
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post Apr 24 2005, 02:39 PM
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i wouldnt give it back. a gift is a gift
no returining =]
 
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post Apr 24 2005, 09:11 PM
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har har, no
 
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post Apr 24 2005, 09:21 PM
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Damnit...I accidentally clicked the last poll choice...I thought it said "who WOULD give it back"...


No...I wouldn't...I mean...his problem for giving me the money.
 
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umm.. ya.. i would probably give it bakk =).. LOL`
 
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No, I would not. The $100 was a gift to me. lol
 
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post Apr 25 2005, 01:32 PM
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i dont want money from my bf on my birthday pinch.gif its so wrong i say so wrong. haha. anywho id give it back IF i even accepted that in the first place
 
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Nope..its rude to return gifts haha laugh.gif
 
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post Apr 25 2005, 05:00 PM
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Welp, I would ask if he wanted it back, and I would probably give it back anyway, unless he forced me to keep it (which I have had happen before!!)
 
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post Apr 25 2005, 05:03 PM
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uhm. no.

it was a gift. =P i'd intend to keep it.

well, if I broke up with HIM, then yes.
 
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post Apr 25 2005, 05:05 PM
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QUOTE(Emmaliev @ Mar 19 2005, 11:27 AM)
Hell No , it was a gift and its 100 DOLLARS!
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haha of course not because i can totally use the money on some stuff to keep my mind occupied so i won't be able to think about him heheh pinch.gif
 

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