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[megan_x3]

ok... like i have this problem . where i talk to this guy that i like and he likes me too. but i just cant seem to talk to him like talk to him on the phone. even if i have to talk to him , i would have to have a friend there with me on the same line with me. i just don't know what to talk about with him.. =/ what should i do ? i like him.. but i just don't know what i can talk to him about.... what should i do what should i do ?? and there is this other problem..... i feel like i like 2 guys at the same time. but i just don't know who i should choose .. i guess i just don't know whether i like him or the other person... i espically put it here because i gues grls can share their grls problem together and see what would happen. sorry if this is really long. but i just don't seem like i know what to do. because theres a lot of drama going around my school about me and these guys that likes me. please help..

[parallel]

Well..when you talk to him on the phone..er.with your friend..what do you guys talk about? I remember when I talked to my crush and I didn't really know what to say I would just bring up random things..that are sorta funny like..OMG I hate that John Basedow commercial of Fitness Made Simple! Stuff like that..lol..it will come to you though..you just have to give it a shot..talk about school or something..whatever comes to you..but with the 2 boy thingy..which one do you find more appealing? Just wait that one out and see what happens..I'm sure everything will work out..I mean..you know for a fact that they like you right?

[Chii]

^^yeah start with a random thing, i used to begin with funny stories about my friends...like one who got his d*ck stuck in his zipper

the thing with choosing...ask yourself who do you like more? who do you see yourself marrying (yes marrying, this is the point in dating, to find your mate)? what do i not like about him? can i deal with it? stuff like that...you can probably choose after some thought

[megan_x3]

welll.... the 1st guy i know for sure that he likes me. but the second guy... he likes my friend. but somehow when i talk to himm.. he makes me laugh and stuff. and he cares about me when im like depressed and stuff. but the 1st guy is never near me because hes never in my classes. its mostly because hes on a lower class and im higher. but basically its just very complicated. the 2nd guy is like very caring and helps you when you need help. but the 1st guy is just there to maek you laugh and think that hes very cute..... if you know what i mean by that. but if you don't .. im sorry. im trying my very best to make it clear for you guys. =(

[Shattered_Hope]

umm....think of random things...like incidents you had that were funny...music...t.v..w/e..your friend won't be next to you all her life you know...she has her own life too. Choose the guy you feel has the most common traits with you.

[xXirockhardXx]

Hmm if you dont know what to talk about with a guy then you really dont have anything in common unless your just really shy and dont know what to say to him. And about likeing to guys and not being ably to choose just stay with likeing both of them. lol.

[parallel]

Hmm..if I were you then..I would so go with the 2nd guy..or that one that cares about you..cuz yeah..it's nice to have a guy that makes you laugh all the time right? But how do you know if he cares about you as much as he likes to talk to you and stuff..gah..hard to explain..but hopefully you'll pick the right guy! Gosh..I bet you feel a bit lucky besides all the confusion and everything huh?

[Teesa]

1st problem-->you guys must share some common interests..then you guys aren't compatible and therefore not right for each other. maybe you guys are just shy or something..but try to find some common ground.
2nd problem-->are you sure the guys that you like like you back as well? choose the one you think you'll be happy with the most and make like an advantage/disavantage list or something.

[CreateBlob]

If you feel like you like multiple guys at the same time, it's best if you "further" yourself away. Think about which you seriously would like more; then if you would like any of them anyway.
Dude. All relationships - adult, teen, .. children? o_0 .. - should be based on judgement on whether or not you would marry them. Hrrmph.

Someone move this to relationships please. =)

[Loserwithstyle]

I have that same problem too, about the phone. Just overcome your fears and don't be nervous. And don't make it a 2 hour silent phone call (where you don't talk about anything :P)

And about the 2 guys, just pick one you think is good enough for you. Does one of them flirt with other girls? Do they seem comitted? (spelling)

[megan_x3]

i never talk to the 1st guy anymore on the phone. which seems odd because we like each other. but i guess we wern't meant to be together... BUT I HAD THE WEIRDEST DREAM ! but lets keep it pg-13. =)

[iheartsimba]

I used to have that problem...you just have to learn to open up to him.
Or else, your ex bff will ocme in the picture, try to take him from you, make him fall in love iwth HER and go angainst YOU and your still in love iwth him while she is forcing him to like her even though you know you and him are meant to be!! ...anyway...my life story =[

And about the guys, you have to like one more. Which makes you happier?

[Bobblehead425]

i think it's okay to like 3 guys at the same time...i mean i personally dont care if i like more than one guy. but the whole talking on the phone thing, i kinda get like that too. one time my ex (who i still really really like) called me and i hadnt talked to him in like 3 months and i was all choked up and i couldnt breathe and my hands were shaking i was going crazy lol...so yep.

[THiS__CHiCK]

Same with me. I talk to him on the phone but I don't know what to talk about. I would always need a friend with me too. Find something interesting that happened today. Or something that you heard or something great. (:

Follow your heart. I've liked more than 2 guys before. Lol. But I actually found the one. And It wasn't one of them. But follow your heart. Or either list the qualities you want in a guy on a paper. And find out who had most of the qualities. Lol. That's what my friend did. Hehe.

[topsyturvy]

And don't make it a 2 hour silent phone call (where you don't talk about anything :P)

^ I have nightly silent phone calls... haha. It's funny how they're so peaceful and calming though, not awkward at all.

But follow your heart. Or either list the qualities you want in a guy on a paper. And find out who had most of the qualities. Lol. That's what my friend did. Hehe.

^ Haha good idea... brainstorms always work

[kill me please]

what i did about the phone thing.. was i sat there and thought about some random things to talk about, and wrote down each subject on a piece of paper, then when i talked id look and pick one.. then scratch it out and move on. works pretty good.

[megan_x3]

Yea. . but now i am still continuing liking both guys .. the 1st guy i talk more now .. but the 2nd guy doesnt know that i like him .. =( the phone problem is like over now .. i barely talk on the phone with them.