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post Mar 17 2005, 06:28 PM
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Ok..I know that there is some topics that relate to this "alone" stuff..and yeah..but I just wanted to know if anyone else feels this way..like..you have a bunch of friends..you know they care about you and yada yada..but sometimes they make you feel like your not even there..? I feel like that a lot for some reason..I recently just got through a little depression stage after me and my ex split up.. _dry.gif ..so I guess I've been through a lot and learned a few lessons and stuff..but I really hate it when I feel ignored..or pressured..stuff like that. It's kinda hard to explain but..if you feel like this then you'll get what I'm saying..hopefully..(sorry if you don't heheh) happy.gif
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 06:34 PM
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yea i know how you are feeling. i dont really want to go into deep details and whatever but ive been getting over depression and ive been doing fine but my firends dont seem like they want to talk to me or even acknowledge methe fact that im there. and it sucks because im the type of person who will think the worst when something like that happens(not all the time but in this situatuion yes). i know how it feels and it is a shitty feeling.
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 06:35 PM
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I don't feel invisible with my friends.

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post Mar 17 2005, 06:36 PM
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Yeah, sometimes I feel like that, and it really annoys me. Meh, I guess I've just gotten used to it...
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 06:49 PM
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then why dont you do something to make them notice you if you dont want to stay invisible?
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 06:51 PM
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I usually feel that way. But now...i dont know. I dont feel like that that much often like i used to before.
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 07:06 PM
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gosh I know exactly how you're feeling..I know they care and love me, but sometimes they do it and not even notice that they're making me feel all left out.
 
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yeah i definitely understand. thats how it was for me 2 years ago.
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 07:08 PM
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maybe you are invisible. *twilight zone music*
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 07:22 PM
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i think everyone feels that way at one point or another
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 07:24 PM
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Haha maybe..

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gosh I know exactly how you're feeling..I know they care and love me, but sometimes they do it and not even notice that they're making me feel all left out.

That's exactly what I'm talking about..
 
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i feel that way alot. im in a group of five friends, and im usually the odd man...or woman...out. [example, two of them is bff's, the other two is bffs, and im left out].....yeah >.<
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 07:34 PM
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Yeah, I feel like that a lot. Not quite invisible.....but...more like the "third wheel" i guess
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 07:38 PM
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yeah i know how your feeling. happens alot kinda
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 07:42 PM
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QUOTE(pAtRiCk_sTar @ Mar 17 2005, 4:34 PM)
Yeah, I feel like that a lot. Not quite invisible.....but...more like the "third wheel" i guess
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That's exactly how I feel. Sometimes I'd be with a bunch of my friends and I wouldn't really know what they're talking about cause I'm not there... It sucks sometimes.
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 07:42 PM
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Yeah, I know that feeling. I felt it all the time last year. It sucked.
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 07:45 PM
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At times I do feel this way... But at the same time I realized that either it's my fault that I pushed them away, or they pushed me away. And then I reailzed that if they were the ones that pushed me away, I should move on and find new closer friends. The old friends can still be my friend and all, but they're not that close to me because they decided to leave me out and yea. Only your true friends will stick by your side no matter what.
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 07:50 PM
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sometimes i feel like that...
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 07:52 PM
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i know what you mean.. sometimes i wonder if my friends even know i'm there. it's like... i'm trying to say something but then someone louder interupts and doesn't even notice. it's really annoying.
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 08:01 PM
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sometimes/hardly i feel like that.
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 08:35 PM
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i guess alot of ppl feel like taht at times.
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 08:58 PM
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it's a phase, dun worry you'll get over it rolleyes.gif
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 09:02 PM
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yeah sometimes i feel invisible they just all walk together and forget about me.
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 09:09 PM
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Yeah i feel like that sometimes. But it happens to everyone so i dont really mind. ermm.gif
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 09:10 PM
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I take too many things to heart. My friends know this yet they still feel the need to make fun of me, even just for the little things. I act so nice around everyone. I think that's why my "close" friends see me as the go-to person when they feel horrible and need help ficing their problems. So I'm kind of invisible in a visible way. I'm invisible because I'm a push-over, yet visible only when someone needs my help.
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 09:42 PM
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I've been through this so many times though! pinch.gif

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I take too many things to heart. My friends know this yet they still feel the need to make fun of me, even just for the little things. I act so nice around everyone. I think that's why my "close" friends see me as the go-to person when they feel horrible and need help ficing their problems. So I'm kind of invisible in a visible way. I'm invisible because I'm a push-over, yet visible only when someone needs my help.

Wow..me too..and I remember once I was talking to my friend about something and then these girls come up and then they all start talking and she acts like I'm not even there! But you know..I'm not the kind of person who you can push around so I just said 'Ok forget it! I guess you really don't care!' and then I walk away..with attitude shifty.gif Also..when I walk around with my one friend we usually walk by a lot of people in this one area and this girl goes..'Hey Carrie!' (My friend)..and then she's all..'Oh hi Kayla..' (that's me..) I was like..'OH Hi!' gosh..people these days..and it's funny cuz my close friends who actually care how I feel start giving me more attention when they notice that I'm all down in the dumps..so then it makes me feel like crap.. stubborn.gif But I guess it happens to everyone..
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 09:45 PM
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Hm, yeah it happens to me sometimes in awhile. Like my friend, Doolie _dry.gif when i was on the phone with him. we were 3 way phone calling...and toddie and doolie was taking to each other on the phone while i was silence and they both said that they needed to go... they said bye to each other with using their names, but not mine... it was very sad and depressing, felt like i was invisible to them. it was just so sad that i was mad at them actually haha.
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 09:45 PM
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Yes, I feel like that a lot of the time.

In fact, that is how I feel at the moment.
My friends = ignoring me for their boyfriends and I can't even say anything to them. They just ignore me completely.
 
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post Mar 18 2005, 02:22 AM
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i know and understand what you are going through. i have a lot of friends but there are times when i feel very alone and invisible when i'm with them. i think its just a phase that we all go through. don't worry, you'll be fine (:
 
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post Mar 18 2005, 04:47 AM
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Not really.
But if it happens to me, I'll go, " Ooyy, dudes! talk to me too!!! "
I'm very weird. XD
 
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post Mar 18 2005, 01:27 PM
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But if it happens to me, I'll go, " Ooyy, dudes! talk to me too!!! "
I'm very weird. XD

I kinda do that too.. mellow.gif
 
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post Mar 18 2005, 01:42 PM
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I feel like that too and I have people around me 24/7...Don't feel bad. :D it'll get better...I hope :D
 
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post Mar 18 2005, 01:54 PM
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Yes I tend to always feel left out and invisible between my friends. And it makes me often question are they even my friends or if they even care about me. I also feel invisble with certain types of friends, like my Asian friends. Because I'm half Asian at times I get left out because of that. But yeah, I've felt similar to the way you feel.
 
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post Mar 18 2005, 03:09 PM
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It sucks to feel all..'left out' and all..but it only happens once in a while..it's weird though..I also hate it when me and my friends are walking in a group and like all of a sudden..I'm behind everyone! No one is walking with me..I'm all alone in the back of the group..and it pisses me off! Lol..but then again there's this situation..:'OH! So and so go out? Omg tell everyone!'..yeah..everyone except me..I'm always the last person to know those kinda things because no one tells me anything! That's what I say to my friends..they go..'Gosh Kayla..your so slow! Like everyone knew that about 3 days ago!' Or something like that..gah..I wish friends could read each others minds.. mellow.gif
 
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post Mar 18 2005, 08:54 PM
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heh, we gone the s a m e situation like 1000000000000 XX times alrdy ... i'm kind of use to being igore by someone else like .. i'm invisble .. anyways, i felt like a loner ..
 
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post Mar 19 2005, 01:29 PM
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sometimes that happens to me....but it doesn't happen alot.
 
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post Mar 19 2005, 03:36 PM
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ya i know what u mean...i used to be like that...but then i realized that i was the one hu was acted like i didnt want to be included b/c i was feeling sad...lol..so ya..give urself some time...and if u feel as if u feel like ur invisible talk to them and try to say something when they r talking...and there r some ppl in the world hu dont really think about how others r feeling...
 
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post Mar 19 2005, 10:08 PM
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like most of the time.....and i hate my friends for not caring...but i don't care about those bitches...
i never feel invisble by my family though
 
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Hahahaha...

almost every day...

but in my head I'm thinking "Screw you. I'm going to college anyway. Probably won't ever see you again."

And magically, I'm not so hurt anymore.
 
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post Mar 20 2005, 05:12 AM
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I totally agree with you!!!
I sometimes feel ignored by my friends.
It's really depressing.
 
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post Mar 21 2005, 06:42 PM
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ya i know what u mean...i used to be like that...but then i realized that i was the one hu was acted like i didnt want to be included b/c i was feeling sad...lol..so ya..give urself some time...and if u feel as if u feel like ur invisible talk to them and try to say something when they r talking...and there r some ppl in the world hu dont really think about how others r feeling...

Sometimes when I try to talk to them..they ignore me.. _dry.gif
 
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post Mar 21 2005, 06:49 PM
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ya.. sometimes i feel like that... and sometimes, i feel like having no friends at all ><"
 
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post Mar 21 2005, 06:57 PM
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QUOTE(aznxdreamer @ Mar 17 2005, 7:08 PM)
maybe you are invisible. *twilight zone music*
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That happens to me, but it's usually just one person. They don't mean it intentionally. Just talk to them more?
 
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post Mar 21 2005, 08:00 PM
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Hmm, I used to feel "invisible" when I was around my friends, but I haven't felt that way lately. I know what you mean, though.
 
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post Mar 21 2005, 08:48 PM
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That happens to me everytime I'm around most of my 'friends.' -_-
 
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post Mar 21 2005, 08:59 PM
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That happens to me, but it's usually just one person. They don't mean it intentionally. Just talk to them more?

Oh no I talk to them a lot..I mean..they're my friends..I'm not a loner or anything and it's not a phase I'm going through or anything..it's just..something that happens out of the blue you know? Just like mostly everyone said..'It happens sometimes'..that's the thing..it's not intentionally done to me or anything it just happens..and sometimes it happens when you or they don't realize it..so I don't think they mean it in a rude way..it's probably a misunderstanding or something..but for me and my situation..it's not like I'm saying 'Omg I'm gonna die from depression, my friends ignore me..they hate me' that's not what I mean..I just mean..well, why do they do this? Does this happen to everyone? Sometimes it hurts, sometimes no because I realize that they're doing it without realizing it..but oh well, their mistake right? I guess it's just a habit for some people to either ignore, or misunderstand something..it's ok though..(am I repeating myself? lol..) so yah..sorry if none of you get this (like I said before)..it's just..hard to express your feelings, etc. on the computer lol..(gah so much typing!) Is this what you guys mean too when you responded?
 
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post Mar 21 2005, 09:00 PM
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i guess ive felt like that but it wasnt for a really long time just for a week..is that a long time?...
 
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^Er..I'm not sure. No? I guess it can be a phase if you put it that way...but it happens now and then.
 
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post Apr 20 2005, 09:12 PM
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ur not the only one
i feel that way too...
not only around friends, but also around family.

i cant do anything right either. im useless and hopeless
(my parents say)
 
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I feel like that all the time.. especially this year... its like i've got only one close friend... some of my 'friends' r all getting bfs and stuff so when i talk to them its all weird since its always about their bfs and all that... and the others seem like they just dont care about me... cry.gif
 
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I know EXACTLY what you mean. My friends are great and all, but once in a while I just feel completely not there.

Then I become desperate for attention, say something ignorant and get them pissed at me.
 
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post Apr 20 2005, 09:36 PM
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Yeah I feel like that a lot too..

I think its also because me and my friends have totally diffrent opinions on things..

like we dont agree on a lot of stuff.. there pro something.. Im anti.. there anti.. I'm pro..

Its extremly annoying because sometimes when we get into debates about things they all gang up on me.. -_- Its agrivating! *grr*
 
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post Apr 20 2005, 09:39 PM
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yea, i know how you feel. But i kinda got over it.
 
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post Apr 20 2005, 10:54 PM
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yup, that happen to me plenty of times
 
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yes it happens cuz people change, and goes thru different stages of their lives. none of us will always remain 'there' forever, we meet different people and might even change from one group to another. your friends might not necessarily ignore u or watsoever it's just that maybe they have other things to cater for too. like they can't constantly focus on you right?
 
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I've felt like that before in middle school when I didn't know who my real friends were. I was pretty much used to it after that and I didn't really mind. But after highschool I found a group that pays attention to me. So its cool. happy.gif
 
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finally somepeople like me its been happenin for a little while but when i stopped talking to one of my best friends i went into a really big deppression. that was in the end of 2003. now im not as depressed but ive been thinkin about her forever but i cant gather the courage to talk to her...
 
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I know thats right. I always feel invisible...
 
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post Apr 22 2005, 07:00 PM
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Yepp. -nodnod- I kind of feel jealous whenever my friends have a special interest in something else that I'm not involved with. -sighsigh- ;/
 
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