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SpedMonkee
post Mar 17 2005, 05:54 PM
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well...this is my first girlfriend ive had so needless to say im a bit clueless at times about things...

tomorrow is our 1 month anniversary and we havnt made out. i want to, but im not exactly sure how...

not even how to do it, but also how to actually get to the point of making out. we are alone in her room alot and i know i want to, and i think she does..but how do we actually start..?

lol it sounds kind of corny and weird but im even about to just plain out ask her one time...but im not sure if that would be the best thing to do
 
 
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cocoalightning27
post Mar 17 2005, 05:57 PM
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Wait wait wait wait wait *deep breath* wait wait wait

You can't make out when you want to, you make out when ur sure that she wants too and when it's the right moment...I mean really..who PLANS a makeout session?....just wait wait wait and WAIT....1 month?.....wtf...
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 06:04 PM
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just stick your tounge in her mouth
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 06:11 PM
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just keep making her happy, smile.. eventually u will know wat to do end of the day hoho
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 06:29 PM
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Watch porno or any other movie that has a sex scene in it.
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 06:34 PM
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Since you want to..and she does to...I think it'll come soon....probably on your one-month anniversary..maybe..? It'll come naturally..so don't worry so much.
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 06:44 PM
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yah watch some porno then you got something to start with... lol happy.gif
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 06:47 PM
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ugh. there have been way too many topics on this. "how do u make out?" "i wanna make out, how?" "making out! i wanna!"

and don't rush into things. make sure u have good breath. no one wants to be choking on rancid breath. no use too much tongue. none of that windmill crap.
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 07:00 PM
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QUOTE("cocoalightning27")
....1 month?.....wtf...

whats that supposed to mean??


whats weird is after the first time we were in her room, the day after. she was like "omg i just totally missed my chance to make out with you" (something like that)...and since then she hasnt said anything about it

dont know if she was just joking or what...
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 07:08 PM
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slobber all over her face wink.gif
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 07:14 PM
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Why are you planning it? Go watch a softcore porno or something..... basically you kiss with some tongue and you fondle each other.... if you don't know where to fondle then I need to come over and smack you over the head.
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 08:20 PM
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^haha
there have been maybe 1000000 topics on making out. search button, hun.
You'll know how to when the time is right
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 09:02 PM
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QUOTE(nevernothere @ Mar 17 2005, 7:14 PM)
Why are you planning it? Go watch a softcore porno or something..... basically you kiss with some tongue and you fondle each other.... if you don't know where to fondle then I need to come over and smack you over the head.
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[font=tahoma]Hmm, have you guys KISSED yet?... If not, better to save the touchy touchy until later.[font]
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 09:12 PM
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It's not exactly something that you should plan out step by step. It's supposed to be natural and come naturally when caught up in the moment. Basically the opportunity is right there so take it. Have you even kissed her yet? That might be a good first step. Just lean in and kiss her. If she responds well to the kiss then continue kissing. Soon this will turn into making out. Capeesh? By the way, how old are you? It seems to me that an older person would not think to even ask such things.
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 10:19 PM
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QUOTE(M1SSxCHR1SSY @ Mar 17 2005, 9:12 PM)
It's not exactly something that you should plan out step by step. It's supposed to be natural and come naturally when caught up in the moment. Basically the opportunity is right there so take it. Have you even kissed her yet? That might be a good first step. Just lean in and kiss her. If she responds well to the kiss then continue kissing. Soon this will turn into making out. Capeesh? By the way, how old are you? It seems to me that an older person would not think to even ask such things.
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finally someone who seems to know what they are talking about..
yes ive kissed her. and im 15 pinch.gif
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 10:22 PM
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dude, calm down. you dont plan this stuff out. it just, happens. dont even think about it, when the times right, it'll just work out, okay? it might not be amazing the first time, since this is your first gf its prob her first bf too right? so it might be weird at first, but you'll get used to it and be a pro wink.gif
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 10:28 PM
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"i know i want to, and i think she does"

Ask her then.

And as everyone else is saying... don't plan it out. mellow.gif
 
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post Mar 18 2005, 02:05 AM
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hehe yea planning doesnt work.. and 1 month.. eh dont worry about that. Me and my boyfriend went 3 years without even seeing eachother :D Planning it out does not work. "You can kiss me now" *leans for kiss, something scary happens in movie theatre causing me to jump and introduce my teeth to his shoulder* pinch.gif

You'll feel it when the time is right. Trust me @_@
 
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post Mar 18 2005, 02:25 AM
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QUOTE(cocoalightning27 @ Mar 17 2005, 2:57 PM)
Wait wait wait wait wait *deep breath* wait wait wait

You can't make out when you want to, you make out when ur sure that she wants too and when it's the right moment...I mean really..who PLANS a makeout session?....just wait wait wait and WAIT....1 month?.....wtf...
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cry.gif You made me feel bad. My boyfriend planned it out because he didn't want me to feel comfortable, and it took us TWO months.

Just...hold her close and press your lips gently on hers.

Don't use tongue JUST yet. Don't scare her.

Save that for round two. hehe.gif
 
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post Mar 18 2005, 02:31 AM
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its not that hard. start out by kissing her, stick your tongue in her mouth, and just go with the flow
 
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post Mar 18 2005, 02:35 AM
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I made out with my gf when we first went out together... but... making out is overrated. Sweet kisses are much nicer. Couples who've been together a while get over the novelty of making out.
 
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post Mar 18 2005, 03:08 AM
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QUOTE(SpedMonkee @ Mar 17 2005, 8:19 PM)
finally someone who seems to know what they are talking about..
yes ive kissed her. and im 15  pinch.gif
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=] Glad I could help. So if you have kissed her then it should be easier to make out with her. Just like I said, just lean in and kiss her. If she kisses back then continue to kiss.
 
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post Mar 18 2005, 04:09 PM
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Jsut wait till the right moment when you are alone and you know you both want to..than just start kissing her, if she resists than obviusly she doens't want to yet ermm.gif but if she doesn't than enjoy laugh.gif
 
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post Mar 18 2005, 05:13 PM
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yeah, my boyfriend just leaned in and well, i wanted to so i sort of persued the idea. just...wait for the right moment. there's no
"hey, wanna make out now?"
"sure"
that never works - as everyone says. don't worry about it. when it happens, it happens. don't even think about "holy crap. what should i do?" when it happens. go with the flow.
 
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