my guy friends are annoying.., i need help |
 Mar 15 2005, 08:50 PM
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 shake it  Group: Member Posts: 245 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,171  |
I have this friend, we will call him dan. Well dan and i used to talk ALL THE TIME and now we hardley talk at all..and hes changed a lot, like now he sorta thinks hes better than me..and ya know..and i think this is caused by him being liked by a lot of girls. He is attractive and nice, and a ton of girls like him, but that makes him too preoccupied with himself to worry about friendships or anything..
Me and him just arent as close as we used to be..and now theres one of my friends that is inviting him over to her house..and she keeps thinking he likes her, but he told me that he doesnt like anyone right now.. its very confusing. but what do you think i should do? |
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Mar 15 2005, 10:37 PM
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 rwar (; Group: Member Posts: 590 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,308 |
uhhmm i guess you can jst not be his friend anymore.
i mean hes not exactly acting like one, so whats the point? |
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Mar 15 2005, 10:41 PM
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 who ma bitch? you ma bitch, bitch. Group: Member Posts: 1,920 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 55,278 |
i say just let him go thru this phase?
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Mar 15 2005, 10:44 PM
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 Quand j'étais jeune... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 6,826 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,272 |
Well first, allow me to move this to the right forum.
Alright... your friend is growing up and discovering girls. What's the problem? He thinks he's better than you how? What does he do to make you feel that way? |
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Mar 15 2005, 10:45 PM
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 Vyna Group: Member Posts: 139 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,332 |
uh...tough one...what's so attractive about the guy if he's so conceited anyways? I've known many good-looking guys who are as sweet as sugar but their self-centered personality just makes him inferior...
He's not worth your time, let him be..as for your girl friend, I guess you could tell her but you know how girls can be, they'll go all crazy saying "whatever, you're only jealous that he likes me" or soemthing like that.. |
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Mar 15 2005, 11:04 PM
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 don't leave me alone again Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,313 |
just be his friend and ignore the fact he's trying to be with girls all the time....or maybe you shouldnt worry about it all the time
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Mar 16 2005, 04:30 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
QUOTE(VGyrl88 @ Mar 16 2005, 11:45 AM) He's not worth your time, let him be..as for your girl friend, I guess you could tell her but you know how girls can be, they'll go all crazy saying "whatever, you're only jealous that he likes me" or soemthing like that..  QUOTE(Animelover113 @ Mar 16 2005, 12:04 PM) just be his friend and ignore the fact he's trying to be with girls all the time....or maybe you shouldnt worry about it all the time ^ I agree. Just leave him be. I think he's going through a phase or organizing his priorities right now. Sooner or later he'll surface again and realize how important your friendship is to him.  And don't say anything to your girl friend. Let Dan do the heartbreaking. |
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Mar 16 2005, 09:26 AM
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 because i'm worth it Group: Member Posts: 990 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,643 |
talk to him about how you feel.
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Mar 16 2005, 06:23 PM
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watch out for jellyfish. Group: Member Posts: 174 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,672 |
my BEST guy friend is going through that right now, but just give him some space. but if u need him and he isnt there for u, seriously drop him.
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Mar 21 2005, 03:07 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
just because alot of girls like him and he stopped talking to you...that makes him better than you how again?
it's called growing up. he's beginning to discover girls so they take up his time too....his world doesn't revolve around you. As for your friend...if you tell her he doesn't like her...she'll be mad at you...but if you don't..then she'll find out on her own.....either way she'll find out the truth....it's just that one way it involves her getting mad at you and the other where you get to help her through this. |
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Mar 21 2005, 06:35 PM
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Unofficial Member Group: Member Posts: 75 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 114,420 |
You can have a talk with him... he needs someone to watch over him, even if he needs to "go through the phase"; someone needs to guide him. Try not to force it on him though; if he doesn't listen, then try getting other friends to help.
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Mar 21 2005, 08:02 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
u shud ask to talk to him again, lyk privatly nd juz tell him how u feel
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Mar 21 2005, 09:46 PM
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 >>>y0, itz all AzN PrYd3<<< Group: Member Posts: 6 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,062 |
sounds lyk u lyk him or sumtin...
hey..itz jux a thought! |
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Mar 21 2005, 09:52 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 831 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,326 |
not be his friend anymore..coz if you dont have alot in common anymore..then you should just get rid of him
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Mar 21 2005, 10:16 PM
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 This is all my luck, it's all I got. Group: Member Posts: 1,373 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,532 |
Wasent there a topic like this already? Oh well, ok so i think you should just talk to him and tell him how you feel. If he dosent understand you just leave it alone and stop being friends with him...
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Mar 22 2005, 05:35 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
confront him about his problem. tell him hes being a jerk.
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