What we look for in girls, i mean personality traits and shyt |
 Mar 13 2005, 10:40 PM
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Mar 13 2005, 10:55 PM
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First thing to catch the eye... a flat stomach with a nice butt...
Walk up, talk to her, catch her features close up... Eyes, smile, complextion... As you learn about this person, how smart is she? Hopes and dreams? Is she just a really groovy person that you can connect with? If a girl misses any of these traits in this order, its over ~.~ |
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Mar 14 2005, 02:27 PM
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Dam, I've got a personality, and I have abs (yay
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Mar 14 2005, 03:08 PM
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QUOTE(michelina~kudelka @ Mar 14 2005, 2:27 PM) Dam, I've got a personality, and I have abs (yay ) but I don't have a butt!!!! You look good to me, gorgeous!! 
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Mar 14 2005, 04:09 PM
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QUOTE(LQ_Darksoul @ Mar 14 2005, 4:08 PM) You look good to me, gorgeous!! haha you should tell the guys at my school that I've never had a boyfriend 
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Mar 14 2005, 04:14 PM
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life is so ironic... Group: Member Posts: 73 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,671 |
What features do guys look for?(in the face) big eyes? small lips? big lips?
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Mar 14 2005, 04:23 PM
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a beautiful, humorous girl who will have my babies. lol.
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Mar 14 2005, 08:54 PM
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 I have no life Group: Member Posts: 1,119 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,675 |
cough*^double post*cough*
I like girls who are pretty Smart, sense of humor and who will cook for me....tee hee |
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Mar 14 2005, 09:08 PM
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I'm suprised that 'personality' is the number one choice so far.
they lie ;o |
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Mar 15 2005, 09:10 AM
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It's not a lie...But it's a womans looks that get your attention, but the personality that gets you to stay. And, a lot of the time, a girls personality makes her cuter...It's kinda weird, but the cooler a girl is, the more attractive she becomes in my mind.
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Mar 15 2005, 09:14 AM
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QUOTE(michelina~kudelka @ Mar 14 2005, 4:09 PM) haha you should tell the guys at my school that I've never had a boyfriend I'm sorry, 90% of all guys are stupid. I'm sure you'll have the guys droolin all over ya in a few years. But hey, if by the time your 18, and you still don't have a bf, feel free to come see me  
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Mar 15 2005, 12:22 PM
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 Im as fake as a widow's smile ;) Group: Member Posts: 1,045 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 97,851 |
o wow personality and horniness..god you guys are sick lmao
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Mar 15 2005, 05:04 PM
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 o.x Group: Member Posts: 89 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 78,026 |
Hah, they lie. Personality? Hell naw.
Yeah, I have the butt thing goin on but I'm cursed with an un-flat stomach, regardless of how much I diet or how many sit-ups I do. Ugh. Pssh yeah. Personalitly does get people to stay, but looks really do attract. For both sexes. |
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Mar 16 2005, 07:44 PM
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 i just want BANG BANG BANG Group: Member Posts: 252 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,855 |
pshhh all the guys here are all for looks... the plastic, ditzy easy slutfaced girls.
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Mar 16 2005, 11:20 PM
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QUOTE(ohh_so_elektrikk<3 @ Mar 16 2005, 7:44 PM) pshhh all the guys here are all for looks... the plastic, ditzy easy slutfaced girls. Someone sounds a little angry... |
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Mar 17 2005, 04:51 AM
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personality matters all.. no matter how pretty she is! how smart she is!! if she just treat u like a dog... or her personalities like sux.. i guess.. its not even worth me liking.. well depends on how she acts at things..
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Mar 17 2005, 09:46 PM
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 Chrissy:)***** Group: Member Posts: 28 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 98,274 |
QUOTE(onemanshow @ Mar 17 2005, 4:51 AM) personality matters all.. no matter how pretty she is! how smart she is!! if she just treat u like a dog... or her personalities like sux.. i guess.. its not even worth me liking.. well depends on how she acts at things.. guys at my school just want to get some but they play mr. sweetie at first |
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Mar 17 2005, 10:07 PM
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 One Love Group: Member Posts: 313 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,958 |
this is my ideal girl:
- smart (not necessarily schoolwise) - pretty, nice face, good body, im not gonna go out with a fat or ugly girl, u HAVE to look good..and oh yeahh...preferably korean...or asian....lol...jk - wears sexy clothes, something nice that show off their curves and body, but not really slutty... - polite, nice, caring, and sweet...and just a good person in general....i hate snobby girls who think their superior to others... - i dont like girls with fake personalities....she has to be real....u know what i mean?... |
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Mar 17 2005, 10:24 PM
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 I watch you while you sleep. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 1,068 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,685 |
Girls with nice hair are the ish.
xo, Pauline |
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Mar 17 2005, 11:44 PM
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 crushed. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,432 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,026 |
QUOTE(Mireh @ Mar 14 2005, 9:08 PM) I'm suprised that 'personality' is the number one choice so far. they lie ;o haha seriously. |
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Mar 18 2005, 12:07 AM
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- asian
- good personality - a big ass - good dresser - no phat farms/reeboks - you gotta be at least sort of hot |
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Mar 18 2005, 08:47 AM
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QUOTE(LQ_Darksoul @ Mar 17 2005, 12:20 AM) Someone sounds a little angry... Can you blame us?? All you guys look for is that, there are other people in this world you know.. |
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Mar 18 2005, 10:32 AM
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QUOTE(michelina~kudelka @ Mar 18 2005, 8:47 AM) Can you blame us?? All you guys look for is that, there are other people in this world you know.. You don't think girls are the same way? I was a fat kid growing up in Dallas, I had more problems getting a date than you'd ever imagine. It wasn't until I was about 16 did I find 1 girl who wasn't completely hung up on looks, and then it took me losing 50 lbs to even get another girl to acknowledge me. Just about anything you can say about guys you can say about girls as well. |
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Mar 18 2005, 03:50 PM
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QUOTE(michelina~kudelka @ Mar 14 2005, 11:27 AM) Dam, I've got a personality, and I have abs (yay ) but I don't have a butt!!!!lol pretty much same here...sept I don't have abs, I'm just really thin, but not much butt..grrrr, one guy voted "hair" on the poll  chez, not fair, it's not my fault I was born with awful hair 
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Mar 18 2005, 03:56 PM
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QUOTE(michelina~kudelka @ Mar 14 2005, 1:09 PM) haha you should tell the guys at my school that I've never had a boyfriend pish posh, I agree with the other gurl, you look pretty good, and you've got gorgoues hair too!! unlike som eunlucky ducky over here.... 
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Mar 18 2005, 06:05 PM
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Im as fake as a widow's smile ;) Group: Member Posts: 1,045 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 97,851 |
QUOTE(ohh_so_elektrikk<3 @ Mar 16 2005, 6:44 PM) pshhh all the guys here are all for looks... the plastic, ditzy easy slutfaced girls. oooh z-snap..geez settle down..not everyones a horndog, ha that reminds me of my cousin..ha well anyway 
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Mar 19 2005, 04:01 AM
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i just want BANG BANG BANG Group: Member Posts: 252 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,855 |
QUOTE(LQ_Darksoul @ Mar 16 2005, 11:20 PM) Someone sounds a little angry... lolol i meant here in florida... at least where i'm from. sorry if i offended anyone. |
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Mar 19 2005, 04:45 AM
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I really don't care about the outward parts of a person. I feel that it's what's inside that counts. Sure, if she's got nice boobs, then that's great and all, but you need to focus on what really matters in life. Having a nice rack won't get you far in a marriage, but common traits that you share with the other person, and your love for the person (not their ass, them!) will.
-Alex |
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Mar 19 2005, 05:57 PM
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 CB Pimp Group: Member Posts: 183 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,662 |
All those traits i would look for if i were tryna have a serious relationship. But since i am a horny teenage boy, i'm looking for horniness. You know, someone i can do immediatly
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Mar 19 2005, 07:15 PM
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Ya man-whore.
 -Alex |
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Mar 19 2005, 11:05 PM
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personality over looks.
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Mar 19 2005, 11:31 PM
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asian flavor! for me is a must! im not racist i just prefer them asian since i am asian and i hangout with lots of asian people...
and i dont want to feel her left out if she was white/black others.. smart+++++! in shape and active!!!! medium hair, like that girl from wicked park! i love bangs! 5foot nothing (asian girls) -____- |
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Mar 20 2005, 02:09 AM
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QUOTE(ohBrian @ Mar 19 2005, 11:31 PM) asian flavor! for me is a must! im not racist i just prefer them asian since i am asian and i hangout with lots of asian people... and i dont want to feel her left out if she was white/black others.. smart+++++! in shape and active!!!! medium hair, like that girl from wicked park! i love bangs! 5foot nothing (asian girls) -____- You racist bastard! |
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Mar 20 2005, 02:21 AM
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 This is all my luck, it's all I got. Group: Member Posts: 1,373 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,532 |
QUOTE(ficklenesswhatever @ Mar 15 2005, 2:04 PM) Hah, they lie. Personality? Hell naw. Yeah, I have the butt thing goin on but I'm cursed with an un-flat stomach, regardless of how much I diet or how many sit-ups I do. Ugh. Pssh yeah. Personalitly does get people to stay, but looks really do attract. For both sexes. You know they lie! Hmm atleast there is some good guys here in Cb. |
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Mar 20 2005, 03:11 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 90 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 110,867 |
boobs
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Mar 20 2005, 07:13 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
QUOTE(michelina~kudelka @ Mar 18 2005, 8:47 AM) Can you blame us?? All you guys look for is that, there are other people in this world you know.. i agree... 
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Mar 20 2005, 08:26 PM
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 have u lost ur mind? Group: Member Posts: 512 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,217 |
personality is a must... then theres some additional stuff thaz aiite... i.e. good dancers, looks, body
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Mar 20 2005, 09:35 PM
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 Join the dark side! We have cookies ^-^ Group: Member Posts: 59 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 84,303 |
i gotz it all, smarts, butt, abs, lol. all but complection. BUT, my modeling agency is helping that (skins really acne prone which SUX). guys don't realyl care bout my complextion though, a bunch of em like me, but i gotz my eye on one
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Mar 21 2005, 07:33 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
QUOTE(Mireh @ Mar 14 2005, 4:08 PM) I'm suprised that 'personality' is the number one choice so far. they lie ;o ya thats what i think too...personality? |
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Apr 10 2005, 07:47 PM
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QUOTE(jusaverage @ Mar 13 2005, 10:40 PM) don't spam, smart one. |
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May 28 2005, 01:37 AM
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please remember girls, these results are totally inacurate. Its not a fair survey. It only gets the computer nerd guys. And mostly asians. NOT THAT THERE IS ANYTHING WRONG WITH COMPUTERNERD ASIANS. But seriously. Its inaccurate.
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May 28 2005, 05:30 AM
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Lights Are Blinding My Eyes Group: Member Posts: 90 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 142,218 |
QUOTE(want the friction @ May 28 2005, 4:37 PM) please remember girls, these results are totally inacurate. Its not a fair survey. It only gets the computer nerd guys. And mostly asians. NOT THAT THERE IS ANYTHING WRONG WITH COMPUTERNERD ASIANS. But seriously. Its inaccurate. Because you stupid woman, Chinese alone (being asian) account for a QUARTER of the world's population. Thought about that? Its more accurate than some silly white person's poll now ISN'T IT. So don't go around generalising about only the white perons' view as being accurate and everything else isn't. Girls who are nice, friendly and have a pretty face. I also don't mind if they're a bit shy. |
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Jun 7 2005, 09:08 AM
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 cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
Personality mainly, but I also want an eye candy, so basically they have to look at least a little decent...
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Jun 7 2005, 04:31 PM
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 The Texan Group: Member Posts: 430 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 136,431 |
I put other, because I'm a complexed individual.
I look at personality of course, I mean the first thing I see about a girl is that she's outgoing. I mean a shy girl isn't bad but an outgoing girl jumps out at me (not literally). But I'm also religious, so I look highly on that. Commitment is a must for me. (this sounds like bullshyt don't it?) Well, I'm not like any other guy you'll ever meet ^_^ |
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Jun 7 2005, 04:36 PM
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I'll admit
I go for hair &makeup. |
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Jun 7 2005, 05:26 PM
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 when the sun sleeps. Group: Member Posts: 210 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 138,079 |
im really picky so most of that i look for. except boobs thats not a big issue wiht me.
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Jun 7 2005, 07:10 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,098 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 143,687 |
u guys are liars yea ok personality all guys look for is a skinny girl with somewhat of a big butt and boobs
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Jun 8 2005, 03:56 PM
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 Hello my name is Yula, I'm a baller! Group: Member Posts: 329 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 125,918 |
QUOTE(basick @ Mar 18 2005, 1:07 AM) - asian - good personality - a big ass - good dresser - no phat farms/reeboks - you gotta be at least sort of hot Asians don't have a big ass. You must be thinking of LATINO or BLACK people. |
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Jun 8 2005, 04:58 PM
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 wanderlust personified. Group: Official Designer Posts: 7,515 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 797 |
QUOTE(WinterNights2 @ Jun 8 2005, 3:56 PM) Asians don't have a big ass. You must be thinking of LATINO or BLACK people. What do you know. You're from the Bahamas. |
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Jun 9 2005, 01:30 PM
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 aint i SEXYY?? Group: Member Posts: 37 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,435 |
QUOTE(Mireh @ Mar 14 2005, 9:08 PM) I'm suprised that 'personality' is the number one choice so far. they lie ;o haha i agree wen dey look at the girls like the first glance its sooo not personality maybe afterwards like wen dey get to noe you but its usually boobs ass flat tummy and yea... i have alrite boobs and ass but unlucky not the straight down tummy just d alrite but at least its not jelly rolls |
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Jun 9 2005, 02:23 PM
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when the sun sleeps. Group: Member Posts: 210 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 138,079 |
QUOTE(WinterNights2 @ Jun 8 2005, 3:56 PM) Asians don't have a big ass. You must be thinking of LATINO or BLACK people. haha ur funny, u must not kno alot of asians. i kno alot of them that have big asses |
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Jun 11 2005, 01:12 PM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
QUOTE(WinterNights2 @ Jun 8 2005, 2:56 PM) Asians don't have a big ass. You must be thinking of LATINO or BLACK people. Ehehe.. Should race really have anything to do with how big your butt is? And really, who cares how big your butt is? I'm not voting because this was intended for guys to answer. Is it not obvious that you should like someone because of their personality?
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Jun 13 2005, 02:28 AM
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You know, the one thing I was looking for on that poll wasn't on there. And that's trust. I think trust is probably one of the top three things I personally look for. Which would be personality, music taste, and trust. After dating for a long period of time and having short relationships, I have qualities that I personally look for. I just think sex appeal and ass/tits just come as a bonus. But, it's just the way I look at it. I personally have a thing for girls that wear back and fishnets leggings, band t-shirts, and beanies. That's a turn on. But, it's different for every guy.
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Jun 13 2005, 02:28 AM
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 biglamchops Group: Member Posts: 262 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 149,977 |
We'd all be lying if we said looks didn' t matter. Looks attract you to the girl, but her personality is what keeps you interested. We all know beautiful girls that are dumb as a know and snobby... and that's just a turnoff.
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Jun 13 2005, 02:36 AM
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QUOTE(biglamchops @ Jun 13 2005, 2:28 AM) We'd all be lying if we said looks didn' t matter. Looks attract you to the girl, but her personality is what keeps you interested. We all know beautiful girls that are dumb as a know and snobby... and that's just a turnoff. It's a nice way to stereotype it though, man. Not all beautiful girls are ignorant as we think they are. I've dated a few beautiful girls like that. Given they have their moments, but I think some ditzy girls are either cute or just plain stupid. But, atleast you have a point. Attraction, physical atleast, is the first thing that pulls us to the girls. We are only human. -Stephan |
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Jun 28 2005, 04:18 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 2 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 156,502 |
I'm more into whether the guy's insane or not...cuz I kno i am. XD
Oh yeah, n he *has* to be intelligent cuz I don't want a stupid insane kid n he has to be somewhat decent looking. I kno, I'm new, but this topic just really caught mai attention, how everyone's debating on whether it's personality or looks. :/ |
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Jun 29 2005, 05:04 PM
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 sunshiine Group: Member Posts: 1,080 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,360 |
personality? ya right.
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Jun 29 2005, 06:13 PM
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 *lurks around* Group: Member Posts: 624 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,932 |
well it's certainly quite pleasing to see "personality" at the top..
...but I don't believe it. Sorry guys. ;). |
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Jun 29 2005, 09:09 PM
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 it's our chemistry Group: Member Posts: 1,151 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,775 |
A lot of you girls here be complaining like "oh guys are so shallow..." BUT girls/guys are pretty much the same shallow to me. Girls are just better at hiding it.
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Jun 29 2005, 09:46 PM
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Eh, personality may be at the top, but I have no looks. Whatso freakin' ever.
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Jul 9 2005, 02:49 AM
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Mr. Hottie Group: Member Posts: 406 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 104,225 |
ass is okay, boobs is way too perverted, well not really
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