how girls, show they like someone? |
 Mar 13 2005, 03:41 PM
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Senior Member  Group: Member Posts: 157 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,456  |
i was just wondering if girls do the "eye contact" thing too or if its just guys that look and the girl happens to look back. cuz thats sorta happening to me. theres this girl i make eye contact with all the time but im not sure if shes just catching me looking at her or if she actually might like me the way i sorta like her.. once i saw her looking out of the corner of her eyes at me but im not sure if she just thinks im weird for looking at her sometimes lol.
just wondering what you people think. |
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Mar 13 2005, 04:22 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
there are some girls that make eye contact...from what you've said..it isn't an obvious thing...that she likes you. The only thing you can do is instead of just making eye contact with her..talk to her...get to know her too...
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Mar 13 2005, 05:16 PM
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 it's just me Group: Member Posts: 74 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 110,630 |
Some girls do the eye contact thing, but to be sure, just start talking to her and get to know her.. see where things go. Good luck. =)
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Mar 13 2005, 05:20 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
some do. some don't. so ask to be sure.
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Mar 13 2005, 09:50 PM
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 rwar (; Group: Member Posts: 590 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,308 |
depends. they usually look at you when you`re not looking though
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Mar 13 2005, 10:05 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 889 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,392 |
u cant tell just by eye contact. thats smthn i learned from personal experience.
the guy i liked..n who says he likes me back.. we never had that much eye contact.. but when i told him i liked him, he said he liked me too..n yea.. im soo happy XD |
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Mar 13 2005, 10:32 PM
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 my pet rock doesn't like you Group: Member Posts: 258 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,866 |
Don't stare at her.. girls always know when you're staring, even when it seems they don't notice.
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Mar 14 2005, 04:53 AM
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 boo Group: Member Posts: 5,512 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,765 |
^ Ditto, it gets really freaky.
If girls like a boy, they'll act differently around him. |
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Mar 14 2005, 12:22 PM
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 crushed. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,432 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,026 |
exactly, we always know when you're staring:smile:
^yeah, girls always act differently..but talking to her is the best way. |
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Mar 14 2005, 03:28 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 228 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,294 |
Get her really comfortable with you..and talk to her..because if she is shy she probably won't talk to you (trust me I know) and.. We will act differently around you...We will laugh at the dumbest things and we will turn red
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Mar 14 2005, 03:30 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
well last time i was making eye contact w/ someone..... i didn't even knwo i was doin it...i was daydreaming...lol
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Mar 14 2005, 09:27 PM
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 Fearless? Group: Member Posts: 215 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 100,183 |
im not that sure but yeah you can't really tell by eye contact you can tell by vibes today there was this girl i like and i was hanging out with my friends she was like paul come here for a second and she was like can you watch out if any teacher comes by the boys bathroom cause she had to make a "phonecall". We were gonna makeout but i didn't want to her im close friends with her boyfriend (i think i made a bad choice cause she is hot).
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Mar 14 2005, 09:30 PM
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WONDERWOMAN? Group: Member Posts: 335 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,636 |
QUOTE(Shortiiex @ Mar 14 2005, 3:30 PM) well last time i was making eye contact w/ someone..... i didn't even knwo i was doin it...i was daydreaming...lol  LMAO. I did that with the guy I liked and he knew I liked him too, so it was a bit awkward when I snapped out of it. But yea. I make eye contact with the guy I like sometimes. Or I'll just pretend to look around and catch a glimpse of him :) |
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Mar 14 2005, 09:32 PM
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yeah i've done that...haha but it really depends on the girl.
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Mar 14 2005, 09:32 PM
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 i'm a d0rk =) Group: Member Posts: 209 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,870 |
eye contact can be very flirty but also misleading. i agree w/ everyone, when they say get to know her.. maybe she does like you but is afraid to show it cause she doesnt know you.
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Mar 14 2005, 10:05 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
QUOTE(--x who0ps @ Mar 13 2005, 4:50 PM) depends. they usually look at you when you`re not looking though ya...thats kind of what i do... |
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Mar 15 2005, 11:18 PM
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 Syaoran...kawaii... Group: Member Posts: 19 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,627 |
Gee...there was this girl in my college...both she and i used to make lots of eye contact. Don't ask me why...I'm a gal too...But i found out she was gay...not that it makes a difference, as she's going off to another college now. *shrugs*
Maybe she likes you...just go start a conversation with her...hehe |
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Mar 16 2005, 12:39 AM
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 This is all my luck, it's all I got. Group: Member Posts: 1,373 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,532 |
I make eye contact with guys that i like all the time. And we stare at each other for a long time. but they probably just stare back thinking im crazy. lol. N.e ways back to the subject......
Eye contact sometimes is missleading. So you should get to know her better. Becasue if she is shy she wont want to talk to you. Trust me i know from experience. And we do turn red and act differently around the guys we like. unless we have confidence in urself and just go for it... |
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Mar 16 2005, 02:22 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 1 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,681 |
Well, dude the easy thing to do is go up to her and tell her:
I couldnt help but notice you eyeing me. Well, How about I come sit over here and I give yeah a chance to get to know me. O yeah if she looks you right in the eyes and asked a question like what kind of car do you drive. She is not really asking that. So, tell her some thing like: I know you can think of something better to ask me. Are you interrogating me? Then when you want to get her number, be a man and be forward and say: Hey, give me your number. Here is a pin. (Note... Dont call her right away! Wait a day) Then when you go to ask her out on a first date go out for coffee or some thing light or go to a mall or something with her. Do something where you can talk. Dont ask her to a fancy restaurant. Any hot chick can get a free meal. Wow! Well, I hope I helped you out. Well, if you like this chick it doesnt matter if she is eyeing you or not. Just go up there and make her think she was. Chicks dont know what they want, or what they are doing half the time. LOL! So, it will work! Just be confident and make her believe she was sizing you up and not the other way around. Good luck dude! |
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Mar 16 2005, 03:13 PM
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 lalala.. Group: Member Posts: 669 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 86,094 |
just talk to her! she might likes you too so good luck!
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Mar 16 2005, 03:27 PM
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 ˘ž Wanting it. ˘ž Group: Member Posts: 2,060 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,234 |
well if u catch her looking at you and when you start looking at her she turns away quickly... then she likes you! lol i do that.
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Mar 16 2005, 04:23 PM
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lalala.. Group: Member Posts: 669 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 86,094 |
QUOTE(Angel_Cece @ Mar 16 2005, 3:27 PM) well if u catch her looking at you and when you start looking at her she turns away quickly... then she likes you! lol i do that. are you serious? lol... that might be true though 
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Mar 16 2005, 04:34 PM
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 to be loved by someone you love is.. everything Group: Member Posts: 1,207 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,205 |
QUOTE(stephinika @ Mar 14 2005, 9:32 PM) yeah i've done that...haha but it really depends on the girl. yeah depends on the girl. Some girls look at guys cause they like them.. some look back b/c they're trying to figure out if the guy is really looking at them.. then are like 2095285 other reasons |
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Mar 16 2005, 08:08 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 157 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,456 |
lol whenever i catch her looking she usually looks away sorta slowly. i do the same too.. ill act like i was just turning around or something lol
soo... ill probly talk to her soon. the reason im sorta doubtful she could like me is cuz im a sophmore and shes a jr... she sorta looks lke a freshman though haha. alright thanks for the help
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Mar 17 2005, 06:10 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 35 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 114,259 |
I always stare at the guy i like lol
lol but bak 2 ur post- umm I really duno what 2 tell ya.. just try not to stare at her all the time though, b/c if u get caught by her or other ppl..then you could have a problem..(yes,I got caught staring at the guy I liked (kuz i stared at him constantly)..and peeople who i never told them who i liked..NEW I LIKED HIM o_0 and said it out loud to my entire class uughhhh that was a nightmare but uhh so yea thats another story ummm..just dont stare too hard LMAO.. but if u rele want to, go up nd talk to her nd try 2 get 2 kno her more n stuff... and another thing, if u start to look @ her and she turns awaii quickly..then yeah, she does like ya (lol) kuz if i c mi crush look @ me wen he looks at me..i'll turn away and my face will turn red...lol. good luck :-) |
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Mar 17 2005, 06:28 PM
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 147. Group: Member Posts: 107 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,787 |
TALK TO HER to find out ahha.. otherwise it would just be a guessing game : |
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Mar 17 2005, 10:36 PM
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 THE EVERGLOW Group: Member Posts: 95 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 114,409 |
if i like a guy, i stare at him in a way that it doesnt look like i'm staring at him. and its usually when the guy's back is to me so he cant see me staring haha.
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Mar 18 2005, 11:39 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 157 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,456 |
is it weird to like a girl whos a year older than u?
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Mar 19 2005, 06:57 PM
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nahh its not wierd. A lot of guys like older girls. Anyway, yeh, eye contact is great. I always have eye contact with the guys i like, and i noticed this lad i liked staring at me for ages once, and i kept looking back, it was a bit embaressing but yeh... |
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Mar 20 2005, 01:34 AM
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 cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
QUOTE(ch33sylici0us @ Mar 13 2005, 10:32 PM) Don't stare at her.. girls always know when you're staring, even when it seems they don't notice. Thanks for that advices, I think I'll stop now... |
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Mar 20 2005, 08:33 AM
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 I Pledge Allegiance, to the Underworld, One Nation Underdog Ther Group: Member Posts: 33 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 114,152 |
When ya like a guy, you'd -usually- look at them a lot, as much as you can, but then when they look at you, you'd avert your eyes. I usually wouldn't even notice Im staring. And touching is a big thing too, girls usually try to touch guys they like in some way, whether it be play fighting or whatever.
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Mar 20 2005, 02:38 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
QUOTE(michelina~kudelka @ Mar 14 2005, 3:28 PM) Get her really comfortable with you..and talk to her..because if she is shy she probably won't talk to you (trust me I know) and.. We will act differently around you...We will laugh at the dumbest things and we will turn red wat she said. o n about the guys liking older girls...thats kinda funny cuz i now so many guys who are twenty one or twenty two or three even n like sixteen, seventeen or eighteen year olds...they're f**king...pedifiles man! |
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Mar 20 2005, 03:03 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
you flirt...duhhh lol
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Mar 20 2005, 03:10 PM
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 Word. Group: Member Posts: 3,004 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,673 |
you can usually "feel" a girl likes you by the way they act around you.. but sometimes the way they act can mean the exact opposite.
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Mar 21 2005, 08:42 AM
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 freakieee Group: Member Posts: 241 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,779 |
it depends.......if der's a guy always looking at me, i'd certainly look back at him
if i like a guy, i wouldnt look at him often cuz i'm afraid somebody would discover it........... why dun u juz go talk to her? |
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