my girlfriends older than me, and shes gonna graduate soon... |
 Apr 2 2004, 09:50 PM
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shes a year older than me...im scared cuz shes gonna grad soon and im not...should i be scared...
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Apr 2 2004, 09:59 PM
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LOL nawh ur over reactin i'm 1 year older than mai gurl nothin wrong with that
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Apr 2 2004, 10:45 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
QUOTE Posted on Apr 2 2004, 9:59 PM LOL nawh ur over reactin i'm 1 year older than mai gurl nothin wrong with that lol u dont need to be worried cuz its better wen the guy is older than the girl.... i dont know as for myself i think its better if my bf is older cuz theres a sense of protection i dunno if u should be scared but... like ppl goin to college will change almost evrything.. some stay the same but its hard to deal with relationships while in college especially two different schools, but if she loves u, then dont worry 
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Apr 3 2004, 10:01 AM
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When I went to Middle school, everthing changed... I found out peer pressure is real and not something that the guidance counsler in elementary school talked about... You should talk with your girlfriend and see how she feels...
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Apr 3 2004, 11:12 AM
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Hey the older the wine the sweeter the taste!
 But wine taste nasty 
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Apr 3 2004, 02:04 PM
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Ahh don't be. You'll see her again after a year.
Though, you won't know what she'll do in college. And if she goes far away, long distance relationships tend to not work out that well... - Chinkieeyedpnoi |
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Apr 3 2004, 02:21 PM
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QUOTE(conster @ Apr 2 2004, 10:45 PM) lol u dont need to be worried cuz its better wen the guy is older than the girl.... i dont know as for myself i think its better if my bf is older cuz theres a sense of protection i dunno if u should be scared but... like ppl goin to college will change almost evrything.. some stay the same but its hard to deal with relationships while in college especially two different schools, but if she loves u, then dont worry I totally agree. I usually date guys that are older than me, cause then you feel protected... As for you GF, talk to her. Tell her how you feel 
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Apr 3 2004, 04:08 PM
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 kit co. Group: Member Posts: 69 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,989 |
QUOTE(brian_deegan @ Apr 2 2004, 6:50 PM) shes a year older than me...im scared cuz shes gonna grad soon and im not...should i be scared... Yeah, dude. Chill. My boyfriend's a senior, graduating and going off to college across country.. I am but a lowly Soph and stuck here in the Death Valley known as Vegas.. T_T Just talk to her about where you think the relationship is going and how you really feel about it.. She'll probably appreciate your concern. |
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Apr 4 2004, 02:59 AM
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 i'll treat you like milk.. i'll do nothing but spoil you Group: Member Posts: 257 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 577 |
dont be scared man.. a year is not a big deal.. my auntie is about 6 years older than my uncle.. if you really love your girl.. age wouldnt matter..
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Apr 4 2004, 03:11 AM
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 ..Michelle Group: Member Posts: 1,002 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,282 |
QUOTE(k00alah @ Apr 4 2004, 2:59 AM) dont be scared man.. a year is not a big deal.. my auntie is about 6 years older than my uncle.. if you really love your girl.. age wouldnt matter.. i don't think he's afraid of the age difference.. i think he's afraid of the fact that his girlfriend is going to graduate soon & he isn't. i agree with everyone else.. talk to her about it
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Apr 4 2004, 12:50 PM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
Tell her your feelings! I'm sure it'll work out fine
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Apr 4 2004, 12:58 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
She is probably worried as well. Just try to keep the relationship strong and if you two love each other, then she'll wait for you and after you graduate, hopefully you two go to the same college ^_^ Don't worry too much about it unless your girlfriend is giving SIGNS that she doesn't want to be with you anymore...
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Apr 9 2004, 01:25 AM
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 fragile Group: Member Posts: 1,044 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,807 |
you shouldn't be scared....
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Apr 30 2004, 07:07 PM
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 :+:SnuggleMe:+: Group: Member Posts: 9 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,832 |
my bf is a year younger than me.. so maybe i culd understand how u feel.. it IS akward sumtimes around people, but you LOVE her, rite? so no matter what, you two will work through everything.. me goin to college before my bf is goin to be hard, and i knoe there will be sum problems, but there's always a car.. if u and ur gurl are seperated, drive to see each other.. if u two are too far away, there's always a phone, the computer, and i'm sure there's vacation time too..
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Apr 30 2004, 08:13 PM
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omg.. i think ur lucky in a way..
cuz i think this jr. is pretty, and no one else does.. but she went out wit a couple of guys.. and i wouldn't really care if she was older, BUT i think i would be scared, cuz not to scare you too but it happened a lot of times.. liek as u grow.. u get to noe mroe people, and u start to change ur attractions.. and so when she goes to college.. maibe i shouldn't say this.. but she might find someone else.. and then again, u might find someone else too!.. |
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Apr 30 2004, 08:54 PM
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it matters on how much you guys careabout each other and love each other. i'm in ur situation as well.. i graduated high school and finishing the first year of college and we're stilL together. its haard.. lotta doubtful times but we still wanted to make it thru. so i agree with everyone else.. talk to her bout it.. we talked about it before i left..
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Apr 30 2004, 10:11 PM
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 t3h koolest guy in cB Group: Member Posts: 2,194 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 513 |
nah, u shouldnt be scared. i am a year older than my girl, but its not about age sometimes. just so long as ur not like 12 and she's 21. crap, but a 1 year/2yr diffrence isnt that bad.
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May 1 2004, 10:21 PM
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 Look its... Group: Official Member Posts: 5,817 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,767 |
no... itsonly 1 year and if she is really your friend you sill sill be tight and all. no big difference like spliting up
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May 1 2004, 10:27 PM
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 addicted to createblog[dot]com (= Group: Member Posts: 742 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,423 |
yup no biggie my chik was year older den me `nd yeah everythin` worked out (= don`t sweat it nukka
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May 4 2004, 06:14 PM
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grrowl Group: Member Posts: 393 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,727 |
like ppl said, i used to have really short cute bf's, and i thought it was jsut completely gone WRONG but ya know, it matters about how much love them and how much u care, its like if u wanna go to a prom, U DONT KARE IF ITS A MONKEY PROM you jsut wanna go to a PROM! lol... sorry i get off the topic alot, and lets say u really like this guy and he likes you back but he's too shy to ask you out, then you ask him out! WHO CARES IF ITS GONE WRONG, as long as you love them, truly
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May 4 2004, 06:30 PM
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 t a c o s Group: Member Posts: 1,187 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,122 |
lol i think i'm the only one who's gonna say you should be worried
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May 4 2004, 06:33 PM
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aww! you shouldnt be worried.. if you really know she loves you then dont be...
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May 5 2004, 01:52 PM
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 Serious As A Heart Attack. Group: Member Posts: 2,292 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,344 |
awwww..i wouldnt be scared..my boyyfriend is finishing his senior year and im finishing my freshman year of college and we've been 2gether this whole year..not to mention the fact that i moved to san francisco and lives in san diego..but her moving away to college ((if she does..you never stated if that was the case)) but if she does..its either gonna make or break your relationship. it will definetely let you guys see how true your feelings are for each other..
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