pills & othr stuff, O_o my sis |
 Mar 12 2005, 03:57 PM
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hey all.... i just found out ma sis is takin diet pills & is drinkin underage & stuff, & its botherin me but i dunno if i should tell ma parentz or just let it go... im not supposed 2 noe, n im pretty sure they have no idea
 any advice?? im worred bout hurthankss!! |
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Mar 12 2005, 03:59 PM
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Well, maybe you should talk to her, since she IS your sister. If she doesn't care what you say, then it's probably the best to tell your parents.
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Mar 12 2005, 04:04 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 90 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 110,867 |
Yes.. talk to her.. its your sister
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Mar 12 2005, 04:15 PM
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 when we speak, we breathe Group: Member Posts: 1,635 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,760 |
Okay, you're what, fourteen? So since she's younger then you, and drinking underage, just go straight to your parents.
But before you do that, so you don't lose trust in your sister. Talk to her, tell her that you know what she's up to, and that you'd like her to talk to her parents and whatnot.. and for her to stop what she's doing. Definitely do not ignore the situation. |
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Mar 12 2005, 04:58 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Talk to her, tell her that you're concerned about her. But if she refuses to listen, then go to your parents.
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Mar 12 2005, 05:21 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
you should tell your parents...but before that...you should talk to your sister first...
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Mar 12 2005, 05:45 PM
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Wozer, she is going to ruin her own life if she keep on doing the same old thing. Most likely, she will be caught for doing drugs and eventually your parent will know about it anyways. well, i think you should talk to your sister, if that doesnt help .. ask someone you know that can help her such as teachers, doctor, physcologist, and etc BEFORE YOU TELL UR PARENTS. Just give ur a sister a chance.
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Mar 12 2005, 05:49 PM
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 *rawr baby* Group: Member Posts: 821 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 48,941 |
i know being a snitch is not a good thing and you can loose your sister's trust so... i'm thinking that you 'accidentally' leave her stuff out in her room and somehow set up one of your parents to go into her room and then they'll find out without you actually snitching...
or you can talk to her. ask her why she thinks she need diet pills. diet pills arent healthy, no matter what they say on the bottle and since she's underage it can f**k with her growth and development. |
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Mar 12 2005, 07:39 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Talk to her.
If she doesn't listen, then tell your parents. |
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Mar 12 2005, 08:03 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
yeah, i think you should talk to her. if she won't stop or anything tell your parents.
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Mar 12 2005, 08:18 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
talk to her first. if she won't listen, talk to ur parents. if she still won't listen, tie her down with rope, take away her beer and pills and send her to a help group.
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Mar 12 2005, 10:04 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
you definately need to tell your parents or your sister...i don't think she should be mixing those pills with alcohol, that might kill her...
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Mar 12 2005, 10:16 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
i think u should talk to your sister. if that doesnt work then tell your parents
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Mar 13 2005, 12:33 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
talk to her about it before you approach your parents about the situation.
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Mar 13 2005, 02:00 PM
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I think you really should talk to her. About how diet pills don't work and if she really thinks she's fat, then go exercise and eat right. Tell her drinking is not the way to go and what might happen if she drinks too much. If she's tells you that it's her life, not yours, then say that you don't want anything happening to her.
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Mar 13 2005, 02:11 PM
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dont bring your parents into this unless her life is in danger. tell her that alchohol is full of empty calories and diet pills dont work, and she should stop drinking if she really wants to lose weight.
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Mar 13 2005, 02:12 PM
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 to be loved by someone you love is.. everything Group: Member Posts: 1,207 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,205 |
Tell your parents. Taking drugs WHILE drinking--and even underage... can effect her a lot.
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Mar 13 2005, 03:43 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
tell ur parents...it can really affect her and it may hurt her for the rest of her life...
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Mar 13 2005, 04:32 PM
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when we speak, we breathe Group: Member Posts: 1,635 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,760 |
QUOTE(xSTEPH @ Mar 13 2005, 2:11 PM) dont bring your parents into this unless her life is in danger. tell her that alchohol is full of empty calories and diet pills dont work, and she should stop drinking if she really wants to lose weight.  Wow, you're not too bright. Her life IS in danger. She's using diet pills, and she's younger then 14. That's extremely dangerous for her body, and can alter her growth/health, and contribute problems. If she's even taking the diet pills to lose weight; she could be taking them for other reasons. She's drinking! Who cares if you tell her if they'll make her fat--there's obviously other reasons as to why she's drinking. Her sister needs help, and her parents need to know. She's their damned daughter, hello. |
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