i hate my f*ckin life!!!, some1 please help me Options

[xLilSwtPiNaix]

GOSH!! i hate myy f*ckin brother...he f*ckin piss me me off...i hate listening to his f*ckin bull shit....i wish i can tell my parents that he is a f*ckin lose, i wanna tell them he f*ckin smokes and tell him all this other shit he does in his f*ckin life..so he would get in trouble...F*CK HIM!! AND F*CK EVERY1 I NOE!! CUZ NOW I REALLY DON"T GIVE A F*CK ABOUT THEM!!! I HATE MY F*CKIN LIFE!! SO I RATHER LET EVERYONE IN MY F*CKIN LIGE LEAVE ME THE F*CK ALONE!! I ALSO HATE MY F*CKIN FRIENDS CUZ I CAN"T TRUST THEM AND I HATE MY F*CKIN FAMILY CUZ THEY F*CKIN PISS ME OFF!! GOSH!!! LIFE F*CKIN SUX!! i noe i'm using the word f*ck a lot buh i'm SSSSSOOOOO F*CKIN ANGRY!!!! SO..WHO EVER IS IN MY F*CKIN LIFE SHOULD LEAVE ME THE F*CK ALONE CUZ THEY ARE ALL F*CKIN DUMBA$$ES!!!

i noe many of u must of felt how, i'm feelin now,jus hatin everythin in ur life...can some1 jus help me rite now..with everythin..i'm so f*ck depressed and i really don't wanna talk to my family or friends and i jus need help......jus some1 to talk to

[kyuubi319]

Woah. First, calm down.
Life really can't be that bad. I'd try and help you some other way, but you don't exactly elaborate on how your friends/family are upsetting you.. All you really say is.. F*CK. Cheer up and tell us how they're pissing you off.
And this may not be the right time to say this since you sound like you're about to implode.. but learn how to type.

[mickybeans]

Oh wow, first- take a deep breath.

Okay, I know that things are just going horrible for you. Can I ask, how old are you? I remember, when I was 13-15 years old, I was like, "against the world" because so much was happening. I had moved from my home of 12 years and so, I hated my parents for splitting me away from my friends. and everything was just going wrong. Then my new friends were untrustworthy and ugh, it was just really bad.

But then, I kept reminding myself-- there is always SOMEONE out there, that has it worse. If you think of all the unfortunate kids across the world that doesn't have parents, doesn't have proper shoes to wear on their feet, and must walk miles just to get to school- you will see that your life is close to PERFECT compared to their's. For a while, I wanted to feel as if the world revolved around me. I didnt care about anything else, I didn't WANT to care about anything else. Friends will come and go, trust me. THere will always be good people and then there are the bad ones. When you grow up, you will realize who your REAL friends are. Take all of this, take all the hurt and pain- and GROW from it. From the damage and destruction right now, you will mature into a bigger and stronger person. It isn't the end of the world- there is so much more you have going on for you.

I hope this kinda helps you feel better. I'm sure you're a really good person, just take a deep breath and say to yourself- "tomorrow is going to be another day." After my best friend died, my brother always told me "the sun always shines after the rain." Hang in there, eveyrthing is going to be okay.

If you need anything, don't be afraid to IM me : lilxlaydeebea. okay? Hope you feel better, sweetie.

[Shattered_Hope]

I hate my life too....if that makes you feel better.. But sooner or later, it'll brighten up. Maybe because of someone new entering your life....or because something good happens that changes your life....

[demolished]

we have something in common, your almost completely the same as me. i'm like so different from everyone else in the whole cuz their FUCKEN STUPID. yea ..

[royalfreshness]

ok. um. you need a hug ::hugs you::

and.. i know how it feels to hate everything. cos i was depressed a little while ago and would cry like every night. it's ok.

and what i do is think that i have only 2 years left in this house. why cant 2006 come faster.

[angelrevelation]

sorry.... maybe if you tell us some specifics (like why your family and friends are stupid or whatnot) then we can help you....

there's a quote that goes something like
"smile. even though it's stormy right now, it can't rain forever."

[dahding]

oh no, poor you, ur brother smokes and u don't wanna tell on him. friends are evil. we're all doomed to hell.


life sucks. move on. tell ur parents like a good sibling. kill ur friends and get new ones. there's always someone who has it worse.

take ur anger out on something else. like a punching bag. or an annoying bastard who just so happens to be there.

[teeners4]

aww its k i know exactly how you feel. in french class on monday this week i had like a meltdown. i didnt really cry or anything but like i just felt ARG LIFE IS SO F*CKING ANNOYING!!!!! I HATE MY FRIENDS, FAMILY, LIFE ETC ETC. and like it was class so im not gonna yell right? so i started writing and i wrote like 5 sheets of stuff. maybe if it helps write it out.

im not a big fan of writing either, but after awhile it realli hurts your hand and it just helps ease the pain away. (the mental pain) or just like play a sport. like if im mad i play tennis or do kickboxing. or even running for a while.

i really hope you feel betta!

my brother started smoking too recently, he has a lot of pressure. he told me not to tell too, and sometimes im so mad at him too and i just wanna tell my mom that he smokes. but ya know, i cant hes my brother right?

we have such similar problems =)

[--x who0ps]

ooh im going through the same effing hting as you!
i mean all my friends are frckn` betraying me one by one.
how gay is that? very.
but i jst tell myself to callllmm down & ignore them.
cause since you said to "f*ck" them, then why do you care about what they do?
feeeel better hun<3 (;

[AngelTears]

You know when you start to use the word f-ck every other word it kind of losses its hard core meaning..

And I'm sorry.. but like mickybeans said, someone always has it worse than you..

[Just_Dream]

You must realize that there are plenty of people who have gone through or are going through the same situation, if not worse. There will always be ups and downs in your life.. it's how you overcome these obstacles that make you a better person. Sure you can go cursing the world and everyone, but there's got to be someone out there who cares.

Friends.. You know there was a time where all my friends ditched me, spreaded rumors about me, and even started being mean to me. I never truly understood why and I still am iffy about what really happened. But it made me realize.. who my true friends were. Definitely not those who ditched me. And it saddens me to think that these people were influenced by others and they didn't know me at all. I thought they were my friends, but all they wanted to do was save face, try to act like they were innocent. They're not and I know that each one of them has been penalized, one way or another because of karma. They've all had someone talk smack about them, one way or another.

As for your brother. You know, when you're older you could always move away from him. Also, you SHOULD tell your parents, then. Even if your brother gets mad at you. At least you told on him, that way it's sort of like revenge, lol. If he does anything to you that might hurt you, you can always tell the police about it. Is he a minor, by the way? He shouldn't be smoking if he's so young.

Your parents.. parents will be parents. You should put yourself in their shoes. Maybe you might've made different decisions as well as handling things differently, but maybe they do the things they do and act the way they act because they don't know what else to do/say. Try to fix this problem.

You're only making it worse by wanting to push people away. Confront them all about it.

[Ington]

This is how I help myself when I'm depressed:

Either way, we're all going to die. There is no point of caring so much about how things are in life, because in the end, we are all going to die.

[*Fallen_Fairy*]

okay

stop . inhale . exhale . chill

I know the last thing you want to hear right now is read a book. But I am going to reccomend for you to read the screwtape letters. It has this brief thing about the law of undualtion. Life has its highs and lows, this is a low for you, but there will always be a high
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[yukichan]

calm down...
take a deep breath, and slowly exhale....
im going through something simlar to u...
whenever im feeling like that, something or someone makes me realize that there r ppl in the world hu r going through something much worser than me..
if u arent happy with the friends u have tell them whatever they r doing is bothering u...if they dont listen then get new friends...they arent worth being friends...and u should tell ur parents about ur brother...even if he gets mad at u for telling...u might not appreciate what ur parents r doing..but try be them for a week and see what its like to be them...and if u dont want to talk to ur family or friends talk to a counselor or something...
and try to work ur problems out..talk to the ppl hu r causing the trouble...theres always good and bad times in life...
ok well if ever want someone to talk to pm me...
hope things get better for u...

[iheartjohn]

Whenever I feel like that, I always think that there is someone out there who has it much much worse than me.




EDIT //


Damn. I just repeated what nekochan1018 said.

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

first you need to f**kin chillax,and then u need to stop f**king using the word f**k, then u f**kin need to f**kin talk to your f**kin family and f**kin friends, then you need to attent to a f**kin anger f**kin management f**kin class so u dont f**kin go off on us f**kin people like that =]

Seriously though. Chill the **** out. Your life doesnt suck, we dont even know why it sucks other than the fact that you say it sucks. We dont know what your problem is, we just know you dont like ur life right now, care to elaborate? And if you say that you know that we know what you are going through one time or another, you should know we "felt" past tense, meaning we got over it or solved it, you should just talk to whoever u have issues with and solve it. Communication is big , remember that

[smilz2dasun]

STAN: Butters?

BUTTERS: Oh, hey Stan.

STAN: What's the matter with you?

BUTTERS: Well, my girlfriend broke up with me.

GOTH 1: Did she step on your heart with stilleto shoes?

BUTTERS: Yeah, it sure does hurt.

GOTH 2: That's cool, I guess you can join up with us if you want.

GOTH 3: Yeah, we’re going to go to the graveyard to write poems about death and how pointless life is.

BUTTERS: No thanks, I love life.

STAN: Huh? But you just got dumped.

BUTTERS: Well yeah, and I’m sad, but at the same time I’m really happy that something can make me feel that sad. Its like, it makes me feel alive you know, it makes me feel human. The only way I can feel this sad now is if I felt something really good before, so I have to take the bad with the good. So I guess what I’m feeling is like a beautiful sadness. I guess that sounds stupid

[*Solipsist*]

I love Butters.
He's my favourite South Park character.

- Solipsist

[gigiopolis]

Butters is freaking awesome!

[misoshiru]

chill out. and was it really necessary to use profanity in every other word you typed? it's not like everyone's life is picture-perfect either. do what christina (just_dream) said, confront either your parents or your brother. don't make it worse

[justalanna]

First of all, you need to calm down. The world isn't that bad. Trust me. I've seen and heard worse. What you should do though, talk to your parents about your brother. Tell them what's going on even if your brother will be mad at you. If he makes you this mad to begin with, then this won't be so hard. They'll do something about it if they're decent parents. Things will start looking up as soon as that problem is taken care of. And your friends, if you can't trust them and such, think of why you are friends with them to begin with. If they aren't the right friends for you, try to surround yourself with people that you want to be friends with. If you're just mad because of your whole brother situation, then calm down before you go off on one of your friends, you don't want to lose them that way. Good luck with everything. =)

[*stephinika*]

calm down and relax. i bet theres a whole load of people who have a much worse life. get over yourself. life does suck but you have to either put up with it or just fix it. complaining can be fun, i know but it doesn't help the situation.

[jordanriane]

Sadly, I'm sure their are people far worse off then you who actually don't hate their life. They make the best of what they can do and deal with it.

[whatiismae]

it always gets better. i know that sounds so.. cliche. but seriously life goes on. when you're at the bottom, the only way is up right? i used to absolutely hate life and i would cry all the time and i was touchy and emotional about everything, and i was depressed and all of that because of just a bunch of stuff that was happening in my life, but its going to end. just because of a few months of misery doesnt mean that the rest of your life is going to suck. what would the world be without pain? pain makes beauty beautiful. sadness makes happiness all the better.

[HoodieObsessed]

Oh wow, first- take a deep breath.

Okay, I know that things are just going horrible for you. Can I ask, how old are you? I remember, when I was 13-15 years old, I was like, "against the world" because so much was happening. I had moved from my home of 12 years and so, I hated my parents for splitting me away from my friends. and everything was just going wrong. Then  my new friends were untrustworthy and ugh, it was just really bad.

But then,  I kept reminding myself-- there is always SOMEONE out there, that has it worse. If you think of all the unfortunate kids across the world that doesn't have parents, doesn't have proper shoes to wear on their feet, and must walk miles just to get to school- you will see that your life is close to PERFECT compared to their's. For a while, I wanted to feel as if the world revolved around me. I didnt care about anything else, I didn't WANT to care about anything else. Friends will come and go, trust me. THere will always be good people and then there are the bad ones. When you grow up, you will realize who your REAL friends are. Take all of this, take all the hurt and pain- and GROW from it. From the damage and destruction right now, you will mature into a bigger and stronger person. It isn't the end of the world- there is so much more you have going on for you.

I hope this kinda helps you  feel better. I'm sure you're a really good person, just take a deep breath and say to yourself- "tomorrow is going to be another day." After my best friend died, my brother always told me "the sun always shines after the rain." Hang in there, eveyrthing is going to be okay.

If you need anything, don't be afraid to IM me : lilxlaydeebea. okay? Hope you feel better, sweetie.   

awwww, tha'ts such a. beautiful speech

I couldn't have said it better myself

[Teesa]

deep breaths sweetie
this is just one bad moment in your life, trust me everyone has felt the way you do in some degree. maybe you should try talking to your family because then you can get it out there and trust me, it should help a lot=)

[*AngelicEyz00*]

Mata te.

[*mishyerr*]

Mm. I was like you when I was 12-13. I suppose its like your moody, teenager stage (no offense) but .. it's not that bad. I mean.. what if one day you were beauty queen and the next three months you gain 100 pounds? Read "Life in the fat lane" by Cherie Bennett. I assure you, you will be grateful for your life.

[cHuNsAbAbIe012]

life is full of ups and downs. if u really need to talk to someone, then come to my xanga n leave a message. (mah_behb_andrew) if u dun have a xanga...u can IM me at chunsababie012 ok? trust me i know wat ur going through. i went through that same shit...im kinda of still going through it but gimme a holler n i'll respond.

[spacewicket]

relax!!!

[EddieV]

Honestly I don't really like my brother either, but you gotta live with it, maybe in the future things will get better y'know, most of the time, it always does, in the meantime, just make the best of it..

[sweetxsimplicity]

I don't get why everyone hates their life, I mean your life is probably a lot better then some peoples, like the people in the tsunami, where some people even lost their parents and their home. You should be happy that you at least have a life. Learn to appreciate life.

[ItzOnlySydney]

nice use of the F word.

[love-issosweet]

Also everyone feels this way at least one point in life. But, no one can fix it except you. Sure, comfort helps but I didn't have any comfort when I felt all effed up. Don't feel even worse if you don't have the right friends to help you through this situation. Anyways...just try to be happy. It's hard, but it's worth it. This saying is really old but:

"Follow your heart"

If you feel like telling your friends and family how you feel, tell them. If you feel like keeping it in, keep it in. If you feel like telling on your brother, tell. Your life will get better.

[Maximum_Tune815]

GOSH!! i hate myy f*ckin brother...he f*ckin piss me me off...i hate listening to his f*ckin bull shit....i wish i can tell my parents that he is a f*ckin lose, i wanna tell them he f*ckin smokes and tell him all this other shit he does in his f*ckin life..so he would get in trouble...F*CK HIM!! AND F*CK EVERY1 I NOE!! CUZ NOW I REALLY DON"T GIVE A F*CK ABOUT THEM!!! I HATE MY F*CKIN LIFE!! SO I RATHER LET EVERYONE IN MY F*CKIN LIGE LEAVE ME THE F*CK ALONE!! I ALSO HATE MY F*CKIN FRIENDS CUZ I CAN"T TRUST THEM AND I HATE MY F*CKIN FAMILY CUZ THEY F*CKIN PISS ME OFF!! GOSH!!! LIFE F*CKIN SUX!! i noe i'm using the word f*ck a lot buh i'm SSSSSOOOOO F*CKIN ANGRY!!!! SO..WHO EVER IS IN MY F*CKIN LIFE SHOULD LEAVE ME THE F*CK ALONE CUZ THEY ARE ALL F*CKIN DUMBA$$ES!!!

i noe many of u must of felt how, i'm feelin now,jus hatin everythin in ur life...can some1 jus help me rite now..with everythin..i'm so f*ck depressed and i really don't wanna talk to my family or friends and i jus need help......jus some1 to talk to 

... okay.... == theres smth call ciggerettes yooh know no nd to get so pissed off. go calm urself down..

[seremela_culnamo]

I would tell you to calm down, but what the heck. I'm like that, too. But yea. Do whatever that might make you feel better. I have been going through the same things, lately. My crush..no clue what's exactly going on. My friends..sometimes there but usually not because we all have our own problems. My marks..definately not doing as good as I should be because I really need the marks since it's my last year, and I hated this place the first day I moved here. My family..pisses me off, getting into arguments with them, being pestered with questions, a curious mother who wants to invade into my problems, a father that I had never been on good terms ever since I was born, and a bratty younger sibling who teases me about my crush 24/7. So yea. Wherever I go, someone pisses me off in a way and everything I do, it pisses me off.

[topsyturvy]

You know when you start to use the word f-ck every other word it kind of losses its hard core meaning..

Haha yes. But there is frustration underneath the profanity.

Maybe you can refer to the topic [ what keeps your mind off sad things ].

Sooner or later the cloud will pass and life will brighten up again

[mzbbc]

calm down, please. everyone has shit they go through, and you just need to take a deep breath and be like "ok imma get through this." i know what you mean, a couple of months ago i was all sad about all this shit that was going on and crying every other night, but you know what... i'm fine now. so you just have to get through things.

calm down. and like everyone else said, there's always somebody that has it worse than you.

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

this topic is like oldddddddddddddd someone should probally close it

[Nicolatofu]

^yeah.. hopefully this person has found some way to control their anger. If the topic starter is still around and wants this reopened, pm moi.

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