the "bad" kids |
 Mar 12 2005, 11:49 AM
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i was at the tennis courts this morning...n this girl about 15 was down there with her friend who has a 2 week old baby and both their bfs...both the girls were dressed like complete sluts and would change clothes every few hours..no one even watched the kid...what if u have a child that grows up like that...slutty n doing drugs or getting pregnant...or just being one of the slutty "bad kids"...i think now im scared to have a kid cuz i dont want one like that
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Mar 12 2005, 11:53 AM
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It has a lot to do with how you raise and discipline your child. But don't be afraid! As long as you let your child know what's acceptable, and she/he knows their limits, they should turn out fine, although they will have their rebellious stage. Girls like that shouldn't be allowed to have kids, but hopefully those kids will have some sense... poor baby.
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| *krnxswat* |
Mar 12 2005, 11:56 AM
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You're stupid.
Read over what you wrote, dumbnut. |
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| *mzkandi* |
Mar 12 2005, 12:00 PM
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first off you can never predict how your child will turn out no matter how you have raised them. i belive good displine and good values that are instilled while they are growing up helps alot but you just never know. the whole part of life is making mistakes. i know people whos father and/or mother are preachers but they are the wildest kids i know....but even with that i dont judge...who am i or you to judge anyone....
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Mar 12 2005, 12:04 PM
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 E=Fb Musicians Theory of Relativity Group: Member Posts: 711 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,045 |
QUOTE(mzkandi @ Mar 12 2005, 12:00 PM) i know people who are father and/or mother are preachers but they are the wildest kids i know....but even with that i dont judge...who am i or you to judge anyone....  Actually, I know a ton of preachers' kids who are absolutely wild because we (yeah, my dad is a preacher too) are always under pressure to be perfect. Other kids are allowed to make mistakes, but if a preacher's kid does something bad, everyone freaks. It actually gets on my nerves quite a lot. |
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| *FreeStickers* |
Mar 12 2005, 12:12 PM
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How your kid turns out depends on how you raise them. If you teach your kids what's right and wrong, from an early age, they'll remember...
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Mar 12 2005, 12:17 PM
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yea, its all about how you raise them, what you tell them when theyre young, what you do, what their life experiences are. And the futrure will proably be different, how kids grow up etc.
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Mar 12 2005, 03:36 PM
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um, i dont think you should worry because you'll be a good mom, right ? good mom will have good kids because they teach their kids about stuff. The way parent rasie them and the type of surronding because you dont want bad influence go to ur kid's mind.
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Mar 12 2005, 03:39 PM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
bad kids? you don't know their situation. and its all a matter on how you raze your kids. just because you have kids won't make you like them
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Mar 12 2005, 04:20 PM
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ashley Group: Member Posts: 133 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 69,454 |
my mom was 15 when she had me..she wasnt a slut..but she wasnt careful..i am not a druggee or a slut..so there you go..even tho all my moms friends were sluts and i grew up around them
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Mar 12 2005, 04:22 PM
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 Day's Nearly Over Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,553 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 45,183 |
I can imagine what happens to the kid later on in life.
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Mar 12 2005, 04:30 PM
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 `non;chalance Group: Member Posts: 700 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 95,113 |
personally, i think it's the "kid" themselves. i was born and raised in a pretty beat down neighborhood but i consider myself very well-grounded. i'm a straight A student in all Honors courses. we moved from that town into a pretty nice neighborhood and i'm still the same. i haven't changed at all, not that i know of.
i love my parents because they taught me well and were always there for me, they taught me all my morals and values and i respect them very much. it really depends on the way you look at things. some kids are easily influenced by who they hang out with too. i once had a friend who SEEM like she would never do anything bad. she was very good and everything but as soon as she started hanging out with this one group of people- she started to steal, sneak out at night, speak in a vulgar language, smoke, drink, and is now pregnant with her second child. she had her first child at the age of 15 and dropped out of school. went back to school for 3 months during her sophmore year and then left again. she is now 17 years old, working at Cici's Pizza. |
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Mar 12 2005, 04:35 PM
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wow.. .kids these days =P
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Mar 12 2005, 05:53 PM
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It depends on how your raised. yeah, I have a cousin who is permiscious, and has 3 kids at 19, all of her kids, she doesn't take care of them. Thats the stereotype, also, I have a cousin who had her kid that young, and her child grew up caring, giving, and you wouldn't of known any different.
So yeah, you don't have to be a "slut" to have a child, and not all "sluts" get pregnant |
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Mar 12 2005, 06:39 PM
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You were at the TENNIS courts? And they were playing tennis? And they were changing every second? Changing where? Why?
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Mar 12 2005, 06:41 PM
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QUOTE(princess2113 @ Mar 12 2005, 11:49 AM) i was at the tennis courts this morning...n this girl about 15 was down there with her friend who has a 2 week old baby and both their bfs...both the girls were dressed like complete sluts and would change clothes every few hours..no one even watched the kid...what if u have a child that grows up like that...slutty n doing drugs or getting pregnant...or just being one of the slutty "bad kids"...i think now im scared to have a kid cuz i dont want one like that wow hey my school has a group of kids that are 15 too like that. haha. well yea i agree with what most ppl say. you cant really predict how your kids gonna be like. |
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| *stephinika* |
Mar 12 2005, 08:40 PM
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QUOTE(XKali_chik_4_lifeX @ Mar 12 2005, 8:53 AM) It has a lot to do with how you raise and discipline your child. But don't be afraid! As long as you let your child know what's acceptable, and she/he knows their limits, they should turn out fine, although they will have their rebellious stage. Girls like that shouldn't be allowed to have kids, but hopefully those kids will have some sense... poor baby. agreed. it just depends on the kids really... |
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Mar 12 2005, 08:46 PM
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depends on how u raise the kid. at that rate, poor kid's gonna die at a young age in a gang fight.
sad how youth is wasted. |
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Mar 12 2005, 09:02 PM
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it also depends on how you act, cause even though it doesnt seem like it (yes you'll probably say you dont act at all like your parents) but kids do a lot of imitation.
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Mar 12 2005, 09:18 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
If you raise your child right with discipline and manners you dont have to worry about any of that stuff.
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| *salcha* |
Mar 12 2005, 10:50 PM
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you have a point, but like what most poeple said, if you teach them right...and if you care for them right, they won't turn out as bad as you want them to be.
smoking, however, will be a problem. |
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Mar 12 2005, 10:53 PM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
o wow...that's very bad... how can you leave your kid like that?!?!?! that's so mean.. well at least the baby is with its mother? wait is it the girl's child or is she baby-sitting the baby? what if the baby got kidnapped...dang they are one irresponisible kids.
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Mar 12 2005, 11:01 PM
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QUOTE(FreeStickers @ Mar 12 2005, 7:12 AM) How your kid turns out depends on how you raise them. If you teach your kids what's right and wrong, from an early age, they'll remember... agreed...it depend on how u raise them and how u act... |
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Mar 13 2005, 12:04 AM
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oh well. what were the bad kids doing in a tennis court? theyre not thatttttt bad if they play tennis ;]
but yeah, it depends how you raise the child. |
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Mar 13 2005, 12:29 AM
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yerp! Group: Member Posts: 3,489 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,454 |
You should think about what you just wrote. Getting pregnant at a young age doesn't mean you're slutty. I was 13 when I had Geena.
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Mar 13 2005, 12:31 AM
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 hello : ) Group: Official Member Posts: 4,227 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,139 |
^ Exactly what I was thinking. Watch what you say because you just sounded completely ignorant. A person having a child at a young age doesn't make them necessarily bad or a slut or anything like that.
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Mar 13 2005, 01:40 AM
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hmmm sure
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Mar 13 2005, 03:33 AM
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 Alisha Group: Member Posts: 2,341 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,880 |
QUOTE [f]eleeza,Mar 12 2005, 11:29 PM]You should think about what you just wrote. Getting pregnant at a young age doesn't mean you're slutty. true |
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Mar 13 2005, 06:32 AM
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 boo Group: Member Posts: 5,512 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,765 |
I hope the mother changes soon, for the sake of her kid.
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