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 Mar 11 2005, 06:48 PM
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 Some 1 plz find me, help me find my way..my way bak 2 bliss  Group: Member Posts: 288 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,748  |
has anyone eva started thinkin about liek a friend or a best friend [of the opposite gender] then suddenly got the feeling that they relly relly liked and wanted [not sexualy] and missed him or her?... just like you were thinkin about this person and u realized how much he or she ment to u and how hapy they make u and u suddnely figure out that he or she is the answer to all your problems? like u kno if u kud jus b theirs more than a friend everything would just be perfect....
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Mar 11 2005, 07:05 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
yeah. once. but the feeling went away after a while.
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Mar 11 2005, 07:24 PM
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 rwar (; Group: Member Posts: 590 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,308 |
uhhmm nopes (;
i dont have many close guy friends. |
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Mar 11 2005, 07:40 PM
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Some 1 plz find me, help me find my way..my way bak 2 bliss Group: Member Posts: 288 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,748 |
please help idk wat to do this is about the 1st thing ive neva told him n i aknt tell him its drivin me insane inside kus i ahve no1 else to tell
 im all alone
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Mar 11 2005, 07:45 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 831 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,326 |
nope i havent
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Mar 11 2005, 07:47 PM
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 who ma bitch? you ma bitch, bitch. Group: Member Posts: 1,920 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 55,278 |
yeah.right now im kinda getting over him though.cause i only want to be his friend
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Mar 11 2005, 09:24 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
that happened to me...he's my boyfriend now
he had feelings for me but i was already into another guy who constantly put me through hell...then one day, we were just walking around times square at midnight (i was rebelling because my parents were driving me nuts) and we were holding hands ike usual...then i looked at him and it was like...he's the one for me, not the ass i've cried for... i spent the night at his place...and the rest is private and history  if you're really going to pursue him...make sure it's for all the right reasons, things like this are serious. don't do it because it's for right now and you have no one else...do it because to you, he's mr right. remember...you're taking a big risk because he's your close guy friend...things can either go great because he likes you too...or it will go through hell because it will be awkward if he doesn't... you can't really keep it to yourself because over time, it's going to kill you best of luck my dear... 
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Mar 12 2005, 12:23 AM
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yeah...i know exactly what you mean.
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Mar 12 2005, 12:38 AM
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 +Princess+ Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,131 |
i have many close guy friends.. but there was one that was like mah ultimate best friend... i started to have feelings foo him.. and yea i told him.. we tried it didnt work.. and now we dont even talk.. word of advice.. if you treasure the friendship.. dont go out with him... i learned from my mistakes...
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Mar 12 2005, 12:43 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,831 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,324 |
mm nope. cant really relate to that. sorry.
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Mar 12 2005, 01:17 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 237 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 86,951 |
QUOTE(chii @ Mar 12 2005, 3:24 AM) that happened to me...he's my boyfriend now he had feelings for me but i was already into another guy who constantly put me through hell...then one day, we were just walking around times square at midnight (i was rebelling because my parents were driving me nuts) and we were holding hands ike usual...then i looked at him and it was like...he's the one for me, not the ass i've cried for... i spent the night at his place...and the rest is private and history if you're really going to pursue him...make sure it's for all the right reasons, things like this are serious. don't do it because it's for right now and you have no one else...do it because to you, he's mr right. remember...you're taking a big risk because he's your close guy friend...things can either go great because he likes you too...or it will go through hell because it will be awkward if he doesn't... you can't really keep it to yourself because over time, it's going to kill you best of luck my dear...  haha something very similar happened to me. good advice too |
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Mar 12 2005, 04:27 AM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
yea that happened to me and hes my bf now. if you do believe you have a chance with him then maybe you should tell him how you feel.
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Mar 12 2005, 06:46 AM
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 naďvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
QUOTE(chii @ Mar 12 2005, 10:24 AM) if you're really going to pursue him...make sure it's for all the right reasons, things like this are serious. don't do it because it's for right now and you have no one else...do it because to you, he's mr right. ^ I agree. If you were shallow, you would go for him just because you're lonely and want someone to cuddle. After the affection fades out, you'll realize there wasn't any love between you two all along. QUOTE(SuiE @ Mar 12 2005, 1:38 PM) we tried it didnt work.. and now we dont even talk.. word of advice.. if you treasure the friendship.. dont go out with him... ^ Actually, it really depends on how much you guys work towards the relationship. I know lots of people who went out with their closest friend from the opposite sex and their relationships are working fine. Sorry to hear it didn't work for you, though.   QUOTE(dani41790 @ Mar 12 2005, 5:27 PM) if you do believe you have a chance with him then maybe you should tell him how you feel. ^ I think she should tell him anyway, just to let it out. If she continues to keep this all inside, she'll explode sooner or later. 
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Mar 12 2005, 02:18 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
yea its happened...i never end up remaining friends with them but now i have someone
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Mar 12 2005, 02:41 PM
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 i'm a d0rk =) Group: Member Posts: 209 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,870 |
yea i'm in the same situation right now.. well i guess if you really dont want to tell him. give me a chance where he could give you a hint that he might have feelings for you.
everyone has a point in the situation. because if you dont do anything you might be missing out on seomthing. but then also he might not feel the same way, and you might loose him. but if you do tell him and it works out then... i'm soo happy for you =D. personaly i'm chosing to wait because if he doesnt make a move or say anything then i'll know he never liked me (or he just was to chicken to make a move =P). and then we'll still be close friends and i can get over him in time. in the end.. its all you ... good luck xcrossfingersforyoux |
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Mar 12 2005, 03:43 PM
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yea it's sorta da same 4 me... let him noe, but make sure it wont hurt yur friendship in any way
good luck wit thatedit// aw hey i just realized we have da same avatar--  just lettin ya noe i didn steal it or anythin haha ill look 4 sumtin else later |
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Mar 12 2005, 05:51 PM
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 *rawr baby* Group: Member Posts: 821 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 48,941 |
ahhh. i have been going through this ever since.. this year started. like... i finally admitted to myself that i have these feelings for my best friend. and he.. well.. has a gf. ever since he got his gf i felt very distant from him. and i miss him. just seeing him often. cos now i see him with her all the time and i dont like it.
but if he's happy then i'm good. |
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Mar 12 2005, 06:49 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
not really, no.
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Mar 13 2005, 09:59 PM
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Some 1 plz find me, help me find my way..my way bak 2 bliss Group: Member Posts: 288 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,748 |
but i kno he dun like me i brought it up to him the beginning of sophmore yr n he sed he wanted 2 b jus friends kus he dun believe in goin out wit good friends[he probably sed it liek tat kus he didn wanna hurt me] but iv tried 2 believe tat ive gotten ova him but i aknt do it ne morei havent gotten ova him, but he thinks i have... wat shud i do shud i still tell him how i feel boout him?
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Mar 13 2005, 10:00 PM
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 Yea Yea. Group: Member Posts: 837 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 79,366 |
sometimes i think of my best guy friends as more than that... then i either ferget about it or start to like them.
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Mar 14 2005, 10:40 PM
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 boo Group: Member Posts: 5,512 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,765 |
undescribable, that's funny. ;)
Nope, never like that before. But why don't you just start talking to him casually? That should bring you somewhere. |
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Mar 17 2005, 01:16 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 121 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 111,128 |
OMG, YES!!!
My friend moved away and I miss him so. |
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Mar 17 2005, 03:48 AM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
ya..that happened to me before....but then things kinda changed after that...
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Mar 17 2005, 04:58 AM
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 147. Group: Member Posts: 107 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,787 |
the feeling will go after awhile.. when u start acting like normal like the remaining days of the year.. its just casual...
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Mar 17 2005, 05:19 AM
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yes
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