my bf isn't romantic |
 Mar 9 2005, 08:59 PM
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we went on our eight grade trip to disneyland on friday, and it's supposed to be...ya know, special...well, we did make out but i'm the one who started it and he never really shows he loves me...like, i know he does, but showing me would make it more special...any advice?...
p.s., i'm not gonna brake up with him because i love him so much...i'm, like, his first real gf, maybe that would explain it... |
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Mar 9 2005, 09:03 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
he probably doesn't want to make the first move because it seems as if he just wants you for sex or doesn't want to move too fast. as you said, you're his first girlfriend, he doesn't really know what to do...and plus he doesn't really want to scare you off with excessive kissing and etc. just talk to him about it, he'll come around
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Mar 9 2005, 09:07 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
maybe he's just shy, or naturally reserved... talk to him about it, give him hints, etc
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Mar 9 2005, 09:09 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
Are 8th graders romantic? No
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Mar 9 2005, 09:10 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,799 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,450 |
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ROFL. You are right. They are not. |
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Mar 9 2005, 09:14 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 64 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,527 |
QUOTE(Shortiiex @ Mar 9 2005, 7:09 PM) Are 8th graders romantic? No  rofl...but seriously, i've had bf's in the eight grade who are romantic... |
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Mar 9 2005, 09:27 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
^ Dude, if your boyfriend is Adrian, than you two have only been going out for just over a month.
Slow down and settle down. If it REALLY bugs you, then talk to him about it. He's probably just shy. |
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Mar 9 2005, 09:31 PM
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 who ma bitch? you ma bitch, bitch. Group: Member Posts: 1,920 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 55,278 |
QUOTE(angel_revelation @ Mar 9 2005, 6:07 PM) maybe he's just shy, or naturally reserved... talk to him about it, give him hints, etc ditto
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Mar 9 2005, 09:36 PM
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 go go power rangers<3 Group: Member Posts: 321 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,457 |
Maybe he just likes having you decide. That way he never has to judge what would be considered "too far" for you. I think you should appreciate the fact that he's not going fast, but maybe try to talk to him about it. Tell him what you're comfortable doing. Because if you can't talk about it, you shouldn't be doing it.
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Mar 10 2005, 09:54 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 288 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 100,476 |
haha...if you guys really love each other so much,just dont care so much about romantic...this can be made by time right?
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Mar 10 2005, 11:43 AM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
Why do people think that breaking up with people is the easy solution?
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Mar 10 2005, 12:44 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
QUOTE(someflipguy @ Mar 10 2005, 12:43 PM) Why do people think that breaking up with people is the easy solution? agreed come on just ask him basically i would.. |
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Mar 10 2005, 03:57 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
QUOTE(someflipguy @ Mar 10 2005, 11:43 AM) Why do people think that breaking up with people is the easy solution? i wonder why too  he's probably just shy, and like others said, he's afraid that you might think that he's going too fast/far, maybe he just needs time to get comfortable with you and stuff. give it time |
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Mar 10 2005, 08:24 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
QUOTE(someflipguy @ Mar 10 2005, 12:43 PM) Why do people think that breaking up with people is the easy solution? They're most likely too scared to communicate with their boyfriend or girlfriend. *shrugs* |
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Mar 10 2005, 08:28 PM
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 deleted Group: Member Posts: 3,168 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,276 |
YEA THOSE 8TH GRADERS WERE ALWAYS THE ROMANTIC ONES! <33
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Mar 10 2005, 09:49 PM
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thanx for the help you guys
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Mar 10 2005, 09:57 PM
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 to be loved by someone you love is.. everything Group: Member Posts: 1,207 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,205 |
Welcome to my world
 My bf is too geeky to be romantic! 
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Mar 10 2005, 10:02 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
1. ur an eight grader. oh please.
2. its an eight grade trip. oh please. 3. ur his 1st gf. so w/e. 4. talk to him? iono. |
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Mar 10 2005, 10:02 PM
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 ^-^ Group: Member Posts: 1,676 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 107,668 |
QUOTE(Led-Zeppelin Lover @ Mar 9 2005, 6:14 PM) rofl...but seriously, i've had bf's in the eight grade who are romantic... look, if your int eh eigth grade and you "love" this guy, but you've had other boyfreinds in eigth grade as wel...maybe you should jsut settle down a bit?!?!  I mean come on, you can't expect him to throw himself at you when like oyu've probably only known each other fro weeks or a coupel months maybe he jsut wants to know oyu better....besides, arn't you a litte...young? I mean, makign out, alright, I'llg ive you that, but anytihng more you are so not ready fro yet...mayeb he is just being reserved and doens't want to rush into anything.jsut my opinion 
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Mar 10 2005, 10:06 PM
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 BANNED Group: Member Posts: 2,419 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,387 |
He's like 13-14! Of course he's not going to be romantic. I think you're asking for too much too soon.
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Mar 10 2005, 10:09 PM
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 tower over me Group: Member Posts: 1,190 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,717 |
I don't think it's possible to "love" someone if you're still kind of a kid. I mean, you're not even in highschool yet...
And why do you expect to have special loves scenes on a field trip to disney? I mean, come on, seriously. I thought trips were for having fun. |
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Mar 10 2005, 10:15 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 64 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,527 |
QUOTE(HoodieObsessed @ Mar 10 2005, 8:02 PM) look, if your int eh eigth grade and you "love" this guy, but you've had other boyfreinds in eigth grade as wel...maybe you should jsut settle down a bit?!?! I mean come on, you can't expect him to throw himself at you when like oyu've probably only known each other fro weeks or a coupel months maybe he jsut wants to know oyu better....besides, arn't you a litte...young? I mean, makign out, alright, I'llg ive you that, but anytihng more you are so not ready fro yet...mayeb he is just being reserved and doens't want to rush into anything.jsut my opinion ok, don't take this the wrong way...but what i meant by "other bf's" was i had like 2 and they were romantic and that's it's possible in the eight grade...as for the knowing eachother part...we were best friends before we started going out...we've been best friends for about two years now...and i didn't mean like having sex and stuff...i meant like, showing he cares...iono, maybe i am asking for a little too much...and the love thing...trust, i feel it...this might sound stupid, but it's like everytime i see him...gosh, i can't explain it, i just know it's there and i know i love him... |
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Mar 12 2005, 11:03 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
He might just be scared to make the wrong move. Give him time and see what happens.
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Mar 12 2005, 11:16 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 4,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,115 |
Maybe he's shy.
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Mar 12 2005, 11:18 PM
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no offense, but you shouldn't even be going out with guys in 8th grade. all that is is someone to 'hold hands' and play video games at eachothers house while his mom is in the backround making cookies for you two. wait until highschool if you are that desperate for a boyfriend, i know that sounded mean but it is true. boys in middle school are way too immature for the meaning of LOVE to comprehend in their brains. i waited till my junior year, i wanted to wait till college, but he was just too much fun.
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Mar 12 2005, 11:18 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 53 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 33,563 |
yeah I agree...... he could just be the shy type... or maybe he cares about u and is afraid to rush things.... either that or there is no attraction......
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Mar 12 2005, 11:33 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Well, my boyfriend isn't really too romantic either, and sometimes it bothers me. But since you're only in 8th grade, I would think that he's probably shy. Just wait a while, but if it bothers you too much, talk to him about it.
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Mar 13 2005, 01:20 AM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
make out at the 8th grade field trip, wtf? You were supposed to participate not do a making session. Eesh. Get a room then
anyways, maybe he didn't want to kiss you because he was with his school mates and his teacher, so he didn't felt that coming. Maybe he'll kiss you when it's not a school field trip. I mean think about it over and over again. Think why he doesn't want to kiss you at the field trip, huh? Even if he kissed, he's probably uncomfortable just that time cause it's a field trip. Or probably he doesn't know what to do when he was dating with a girl?
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