Brothers, He's juss soOo mean... Options

[xXMomoBubbleTeaX...]

My brother makes me cry.. ...I don't just don't understand it...it's like he tries to be mean to me and torture me...I mean I try to be nice to him...but he either ends up yelling at me...throwing things at me...punching me...hitting me...and I juss wanna cry...cause it's like what did do to make my little brother soOo mad...I'm 14 and I'm getting pushed around by a 10...sometimes I think he might kill me one day...he needs anger managment cause he doesn't handle his anger in the right way...I kno to some people this might seem lame and why would yu let yur bro push yu around like that...I juss don't kno please don't say all this stuff and yell at me...cuz he already does that to me...and right now I'm crying cuz he juss smacked me in the face and is telling my dad all these lies and my dad doesn't believe either one of us...and it's juss a repeated cycle!!....*tears rolling down my face*....have yu ever felt like you try yur hardest to please someone but they juss can't be pleased...my bro juss doesn't want to get a long w/ me...and I try but all he does he lie and say I'm calling him names...and the thing that bothers me most is when he sits there and lie and says hes not lying....I hate him soOo much...

[CUTEBUNNY160]

wow thats so mean

[silver-rain]

I know what you're going through- my brother is just like that. He's 2 years younger than me, but he's so much bigger, and he's really annoying. He can get really mean sometimes too, but he doesn't make me cry, unless he hits me, he just gets me really mad. Yeah, I hate my brother too.

[Chii]

why are you letting yourself get bullied by your little brother??? he's FOUR years younger than you...

as you said, your father doesn't believe either one of you so why don't you give your little brother a taste of his own medicine and kick his ass or find someone else to. i doubt that talking will help him, he needs a good ass whooping

[Looow]

Punch him.

[purestkiss101]

~AWW MORGAN I LOVE YOU~I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL BABE<<I LOVE U AND IM HERE FOR U. DONT LET HIM PUSH YOU AROUND>Put him in check & and prove to your parents that hes lying..BEAT HIS ASS LIKE I TOLD U TO!

[xLil SweetnezZx]

My brothers like that too.
He's 9 nd hes skinny but he can hit real hard.
My parents always believe me cuz they sa him hit me & throw a stone at me once.
Once I started yelling at him and doing stuff like twisting his arm around his back (not really hurting him) he kinda eased down.
You just need to stand up ferr yourself.

[FoOd]

Cmon, use the power of you pms-ing times to get back at him.

Fight back! If he fights back, fight back even harder! Don't let him control you.

[swe3ttemptasian]

~AWW MORGAN I LOVE YOU~I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL BABE<<I LOVE U AND IM HERE FOR U. DONT LET HIM PUSH YOU AROUND>Put him in check & and prove to your parents that hes lying..BEAT HIS ASS LIKE I TOLD U TO!

haha mer.

Like you told me, they're like little devils...

[FireArrow]

I think you should go kick his ass... seriously

[angelrevelation]

smack him in the head (hard) see what he does.... maybe he'll be scared of you from then on or you can give him a letter telling what you told us... it might work. and talk to your dad about it too

[kyuubi319]

sounds like a total dickhead that needs to be punched in the head. That'll set the little *bleep*er right...

Thank God my brother isn't like that.

[frenchaddict88]

OMG I'M SO SORRY! thats really mean.

its awful how mean people can be...my brother is like that too, but not all the time. but he really does want to make me cry sometimes, so i know how you feel.
i hope you feel better soon!

[toodlepops.]

kick him, punch him.

[bad_girl]

push him back. u'll win cuz u're older x] he has to get a taste of his own potion. n arent brothers/sisters supposed 2 hate eachother??

[HongKongDong]

I admit, thats how I am with my brother

I would push him around and all that, but when someone starts messing with him its like oh hell naw! He fights back and stuff, but I still pick on him.

Yeah, fight back, don't get pushed around by some 10 year old...

[No1_2_NoBody13]

ok i have an older brother that doesnt even do that to me....but when he does SLAP HIM UPSIDE THE HEAD AND TELL HIM TO STOP...thats what i did to my older sisters and my little cuzions....if he hits you, hit him back, if he bites you, BITE HIM BACK....dont just let him keep hitting you...and if you dont want to do that....go and tell your mom or dad... theyll talk to them

[starlette]

I'll tell you what my friend had to do. when her parents wouldnt listen to her (her brother was older, and he was like, the *perfect*child) she would just fight back. And I mean fight. It was sad, but you gotta teach him that he cannot get away with that kind of stuff. Make him cry. Make his sad. Its dicipline. You shouldnt have to teach it to him, but obviously its not coming from anywhere else. So its just like a kid has to learn that fire is hot and it hurts when you tough it, he needs to learn that when he hits, you'll hit back and it will hurt. I'm sorry that you have to go thru this. I'm an only child, so I never had to deal with it. BUt I suppose thats the best way. OR try and ignore him. This is also hard to do. But he gets some kind of reaction out of you, weather its tears or yelling or whatever...so try just ignoring him. Don't talk to him and avoid him. If you see him, walk in the other direction. Ignoring works well on little kids. Then see if maybe he'll be nice. And if he starts acting like a brat some more, ignore him for some more. just be consistent. So he understand the reactions for every action he makes. If he dislikes the consequences enough, hell learn not to do what causes them. Also, try sitting down with your dad when ur brother is like, in the bath tub or something like that, and talking to him calmly about it. Make it clear that you arent tattling on him, you just dont like how hes acting. See if your dad will try to pay closer attention to you two, and maybe he can interfere. Hope everything works out.

[gossipgirl]

i think itz reali mean ~!
anyways, boyz are like that,
leave them alone''
Love ya*muah

[EmmalieV]

Cmon, use the power of you pms-ing times to get back at him. 

Fight back! If he fights back, fight back even harder! Don't let him control you.

basically come on hit him back , so what if hes a guy wtf...and tell your rents or guardians.

[xBEBE]

OMG my brother is like that too. Once he spit in my face because he ran out of things to say and he was really mad. Even things that doesn't involve him, he just goes crazy and starts throwing things at me. He hits me like I'm his punching bag. He always says really hurtful things like oh fatty and you so stupid, you're a waste of human flesh. He's acting like he's my father. And my brother is older than me so is that like child abuse? Anyway, I think you should tell a parent or maybe a school counsler. They have like these little anger management books. Hope things work out!

[OriskybusinessO]

Yea, my sister is like that, shes 11 and im 13. And she overreactes when i do anything. i waslicking a butter knife and she yelled at me. She annoys me and embarrases me. and i try to be nice to her when she hits me i dont tell mom but when i barely touch her she runs to mom and tells her some fake story and MY MOM BELIVES IT. I hate her. And she sent me this letter...


Well you know what you a-hole? f**k YOU!!!! Thats
right i just said f**k YOU!!!! And i'll say it again
you MOTHER f**ker who has nothing better to do with
their lives then hang out with their so-called
"friends" that are really just useing you to cheat off
you and get good grades so they wont have to repeat
8th grade for the 5th time! so f**k YOU!!!! You know
that all you think about all day is getting-it-on with
you crush **************.. and right now you a-hole, your
probely thinking: "that a-hole read my letter" well
you know what... f**k YOU!!!! well i got some f**king
news for you dipshit... he doesnt even know you
f**king exist!!! So keep dreaming and maybe you be
f**king lucky and have a 6th or if you lucky, a 7th
grader ask you out you motherf**king, NIGGER, DIPSHIT,
LARDASSEY, a-hole!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

hehe.. that was pretty damn good.. i just made that
off the top of my head.. if you want to send it to any
one you hate.. go ahead! lol. :P


bty.. hope i didnt offend any one.. and i didnt mean
that about you its just i wanted to send a hate letter
to someone... :P

And then she says shes sorry. I hate her. SOO MUCH.

[HoodieObsessed]

awww, tha'ts so mean!! I have two older brothers, and I lvoe the one that 2 years older, jeremy, my pal he's so nice and caring a sweet and handsome and..right, this probably isn't helping...

....as I was going to say, my eldest brother gets on my nerves sometimes, actually, all the time, but in a different way. He doens't lie or hit, he's more like a girl int he way he attacks me, lol. He hums ALL the time, plays horible peices ont he piano, tells me to do the dishes when I jsut aBOUT to do them (I never tell HIM to do teh dishes, blah) and then he insults the good job I did washign the table and he won't move stuff off teh table when he's cleaning it on cause it must be ALL MY STUFF (YA RIGHT) ...grrrrrr...

hmpf

ah well, I lvoe him anyway...even in his own perverted way

but my 16 year old brother is really sometihng...everyone should ahve a simbling like that, I really relate to him in a lot of ways, I'd probablby be like identicle to him if he was a girl, haha, yup. such a sweetheart....and that's not to say he never gets on my nerves, soemtiems he does, but not hat often, and never, ever, hits me or liek gets angry at me for no reason (some tiems he has reasons tho, lol)

sorry I can't help you maybe when your brother grows up a bit he'll be better

[shortiiex]

you are the older sister...so smack the shit out him....be mean and tell him that...ot you will NEVER buy a bithday/christmas present to him ever

[to-devastate]

me and my brother actually have a good relationship.
Smack him. Tie him down. And tell him who's boss.
.. or just be mean to your brother then. What goes around; comes around.

[*suddenly she*]

i'm completely with xd0rkette. go go go.

show some control. you > him.

[AngelTears]

Yes, punch him.. he needs to know who's incharge, and you are sense your the oldest.

That's sad though, I have a little brother, he wouldn't dare touch me though because he knows I could whoop his scronny little butt.

[blah1234567]

omg thats horrbile!!! wait...your bro is 10 and your 14?

[xtransatlanticis...]

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[WrathOfOnigo]

I know EXACTLY how you feel. You're brother is likethe clone of mine or something! Except my brother is 4 years older than me [17] hes really tall strong and i am so scrared of him . But with your little brother try as hard as you can to ignore/avoid him. When he does get annoying you smack the s*** out of him!!!

[dani41790]

o gosh thats so mean. i b*tch at my little bro if he starts pissing me off.

[nhj_2006]

my brother is 6 years older than me. couple years ago, we'll be fightin everyday over stupid things like food, computer etc. but now im more mature and i'll just leave him alone, i'll lock myself in my room and got my own comp and buy my own food.

[*mzkandi*]

sorry to read about your lil brother. i dont think your lame. even though your brother is younger than you, i can imagine it must hurt that he is mean to you all the time and shows you know love. have tried talking to your parents about your brother? also seeing that he is 10 you may just have to guve him time. i have a yonger brother two and sometimes when i was small i couldnt stand him, i use to wish he was never even bore, but now he is 19 and he is much more mature and LOVE him to death....

[Haruka]

It's not healthy that a 10 acts so violent. He should get some counceling or professional attention. Who knows why he is like that. (it may be somthing overlooked) If you really want to prove a point with your father, then get a tape recorder or an MP3 player with recording ability and record your fights and prove who did what when your parents ask.

Personally, I can't imagine hating my brothers or fighting violenty with them, even verbally. My brothers and I have always been pretty close, even though the one that is 1 year older than me PISSED me off sooooooooooooooooo bad sometimes when we were younger, I love him so much now =] . And the one that is 8 years older is such a sweety, he protects me all the time, and we can talk about pretty much anything.

I think that having siblings is such a great thing, and i feel bad for thoese who lose touch over the years, because it's your family, and sharing with your family is such a great thing. But even right now, sharing with your siblings is so nice, because they will always be there when you really need them.

[cherry_toothpast...]

i totally get what you mean!

i have a little brother too, and he can get *really* annoying. he can start fighting, but he's never gotten too violent.. he's bitten me before though. and he can get a bit crazy.. that's when i run to my room and slam the door.

try ignoring him, maybe? and when he starts to annoy you again, annoy the crap outta him with sweetness. or just try talking to him, and if you do, don't lecture him and make him feel small, but talk to him as an equal.

my parents don't believe me either. and when they do, they tell me that i could easily stop him from hitting me. they've got no idea how strong.

anyway, hope that helps!

[KELLYYY]

He needs anger management class. I don't know how it feels to have a younger sibling. =\ I'm the youngest out of my family, so yeah.

[iheartsimba]

moved to relationships.


I completely get your situation...i've been there. except my brothers 16. I've never done anyhting to him either..yeah I guess tell your parents? mine don't do anyhting about it but atleast let them know whats going on. Don't let your brother push you around either. You have to step up and show him your older, your in charge, and you arn't going to let him push you around like that. Because he seems to think he's pretty tough. I would do that..if he wasn't 2 years older then me

[laur3nw]

He's only 10! Take control over him. Be strong and take action. Haha. I remember one time when me and my little brother got into a fight...he started throwing things at me and hitting me, but I fought back and he ended up crying. =X

[Shattered_Hope]

I think you need to umm...do something..like yell...or maybe give him a smack in the face or on the head..if you don't teach him a lesson now...he might think it's OK to do that to people and not think about the consequences. Show him that you can be mean..and then he'll stop making you cry and picking on you. He's four years younger than you...for God's sake....don't let him get out of control.

[misoshiru]

just stand up to him. show him who's "boss"

[justalanna]

I know kind of what you are going through. Same thing but with my younger sister (5 years difference) and I finally after all these years convinced my mother that she has a serious problem and needs help. She's always hitting, punching, throwing things, and just recently pulled a steak knife on me. It's like, where does she come up with all this? Where does she get all this energy. It was pretty scary, I actually left my house for a half hour and wouldn't come back until she had calmed down (my mom was still at work, but she was home by time I came back). If it gets any worse, when he's not around tell your mother or your father or both that you want to talk to them alone. Tell them how you feel and that you don't want to go through it anymore. Good luck. =)

[whomps]

I sorta have the same problem with my brother. You don't hate your brother, you actually love him. But he does shit to you that makes you want to kill yourself and it's bullshit. One day I was tired of his crap and pushed him and it became a fistfight that lasted for 2 seconds until my cousin stopped it.
Why do you just stand there? Aren't you tired of his bullshit? You're his OLDER SISTER, when he tries pushing you just shove his head against the wall. DO SOMETHING.
Does he ask you for favors? Next time he does just don't do it. Be like "Fuck that. I ain't doing jack SHIT for you."

I'm not scared of my brother. We're twins.