Wat a jerk!, Oh i cant stand it |
 Mar 9 2005, 05:45 PM
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 Oh Goddamnit.  Group: Member Posts: 711 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,884  |
My first boyfriend who also happened to be my first love dumped me over instant message. I'm really sad, but now more than sad I am angry. He is a really really big jerk of an ex boyfriend. Another problem is that I'm friends with his friends so its weird. People think Im mad at him because he broke up with me but thats not it im mad because of reasons they dont know. Its weird, I dont like him anymore, but I just feel like I miss knowing that someone loves me in a boyfriend/girlfriend way and someone who will hold my hand and hug me when I'm down. Sorry lol I just had to vent and if anyone has advice id be happy and grateful.
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| *Programmer* |
Mar 9 2005, 05:49 PM
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get the f*ck outta dodge.....
your in the same groups of freinds it'll work out...just ignore him.... 
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Mar 9 2005, 06:01 PM
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 none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
Get over the anger. He isn't worth you getting mad over. Find yourself a new guy
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Mar 9 2005, 06:26 PM
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 HAAAAAAAA. Group: Member Posts: 4,472 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,068 |
^agreed. find a new guy. i think dumping someone over an instant messege is stupid. they're not brave enough to say it in person. you're not alone, sweety.
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Mar 9 2005, 07:23 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
over instant messenger? wow.
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Mar 9 2005, 07:24 PM
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 Class of 2005!!! Group: Member Posts: 1,132 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,080 |
Well, if you don't like him anymore, realize hes a jerk, and hes like that. Forget about him, move on, then people wont' think you still like him.
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Mar 9 2005, 07:29 PM
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 to be loved by someone you love is.. everything Group: Member Posts: 1,207 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,205 |
If you've realized he's a jerk, don't like him anymore..... and all you want is someone to be there..... get another b/f!!
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Mar 9 2005, 09:12 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 636 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 59,646 |
"moving in, moving out, moving on..."
yes. its not worth holding a grudge for a long time. |
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Mar 9 2005, 10:04 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(Frankie @ Mar 9 2005, 7:23 PM) over instant messenger? wow.  i know  at least my bastard ex did it in person  the good thing is that it seems like you're over him, you just miss being with someone like you said. you should probably just spend more time with your friends, and then out of nowhere, you'll find someone else 
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| *stephinika* |
Mar 10 2005, 02:14 AM
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^^
agreed. don't worry about it, you'll be fine i'm sure. and yeah over im....thats retarded. shows what a coward he is. |
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Mar 10 2005, 02:40 AM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
Get over him. If your friends are his friends, that shouldnt be a big problem. Just ignore him or solve it and if ur friends are really ur friends, they wont stop being ur friends just cuz u two broke up. And there will always be someone else to make you feel loved and hold your hand and comfort you when your down.
JUST PLEASE! dont take your anger or bad experience out on the next guy you meet, All guys arent jackasses and pigs, so give the next guy a chance b4 u assume hes just like the last, i hope all the ladies read this part ><; |
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Mar 10 2005, 05:50 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
QUOTE(im_s0_sp0ngey @ Mar 10 2005, 7:26 AM) i think dumping someone over an instant messege is stupid. they're not brave enough to say it in person. ^ I agree. Coward. QUOTE(DrEaMgUy2K1 @ Mar 10 2005, 3:40 PM) Get over him. If your friends are his friends, that shouldnt be a big problem. Just ignore him or solve it and if ur friends are really ur friends, they wont stop being ur friends just cuz u two broke up. And there will always be someone else to make you feel loved and hold your hand and comfort you when your down. ^ If your friends ditch you because your bf broke up with you, they're not worth being friends with. If they are, they should be there for you during the hard times.
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Mar 10 2005, 07:10 AM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
move on. don't show that ur sad or angry to him. show that ur perfectly fine, if not better off, without him.
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Mar 10 2005, 12:35 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
yeah maybe he is a jerk , but dont worry they will realize it soon enough that your not mad at him..
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Mar 10 2005, 01:07 PM
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 Another ditch in the road... you keep moving Group: Member Posts: 6,281 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,152 |
dumping someone over IM is just not on. im sorry... i sya we all gang up and like, hurt him.
but just hang with the friends, and try not ot put them in teh middle, because thats never good. and eventually, tho it may e hard, te anger/resentment/ desire to kill wil fade |
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Mar 10 2005, 04:27 PM
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 highfive. Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,951 |
he sounds like a jerk.
ignore him; he's not worth your time. |
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Mar 12 2005, 11:34 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
from what you've just said, he is a jerk. forget about him and move on.....Find someone new.
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Mar 12 2005, 11:35 PM
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 OMG! Group: Member Posts: 61 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,243 |
whos a jerk?
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Mar 13 2005, 05:48 PM
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 it's just me Group: Member Posts: 74 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 110,630 |
I think you should just forget about him and move on. Find another guy to like and maybe go out with. He's not worth your time anymore. Smile! =)
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Mar 13 2005, 05:50 PM
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Running Group: Member Posts: 596 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,064 |
Wow your first love... I think you need to learn what infautuation and love is... Maybe he didnt feel what you felt towards him.
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Mar 13 2005, 05:54 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
QUOTE(say_what_you_mean @ Mar 9 2005, 1:01 PM) Get over the anger. He isn't worth you getting mad over. Find yourself a new guy i agree... |
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Mar 13 2005, 06:05 PM
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 when we speak, we breathe Group: Member Posts: 1,635 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,760 |
1. You're not going to be single forever, so don't mope around about it.
2. Find things to occupy your time, and your thoughts. 3. If his friends are your friends, and they're still your friends, don't worry about that. 4. Live your life as a single person right now, enjoy that time. Have fun with your friends, go out boy hunting, and don't worry about being single. Being single is just as much fun as having a boyfriend, you just have to know how to have the fun. I loved being single because I didn't have to worry about flirting with other guys, or handing out my phone number, etc. Just do what you do best, and enjoy that. You don't need another person to make you feel whole. |
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Mar 13 2005, 08:44 PM
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 my pet rock doesn't like you Group: Member Posts: 258 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,866 |
Most guys are too immature to know how to handle girls. Don't be hurt by him, and have some more girlfriends. Leaning on guys all the time for support isn't healthy. Other people, more trustworthy than guys can care about you too.
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