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post Mar 9 2005, 03:45 PM
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When your crush starts liking someone else other then you what do you do? do you compete with that other person?Or do you just let the other person win right away? Please tell me what you think you would do or what you do because...err...im kinda in a situation exactly like this... cry.gif i bet you guys didnt understand a word i just said...and oh yeah. sorry my post is so long sad.gif

here is my story that might help you answer this question:

this guy who iv been crushing on for a while liked me also for a while. but then there was this new girl that came and he started liking her other then me. i knew this because he was flirting with her and he was also spening alot of time with her. after he got to know her more it seemed as if he did not like me as much as he used to at first...do you think he still likes me? do you think i should stop liking him? do you think that i should compete with the other girl so that the guy will like me more? sorry for asking so many questions...im just really confused right now _unsure.gif

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i forgot to say that when i was around/near him he was kinda nervous. i dont think he was nervous of me that he had a crush on me or he was nevous about that other girl that he liked. i think it was because he was nevous that he knew that i was starting to know that he liked the other girl instead of me. he also knew that i had a crush on him....
 
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post Mar 9 2005, 04:14 PM
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sometimes i do. once i let my bestfriend win cause well everyone in school knows that she liked him and i just kept quiet about it. but after they broke up i found out that he acutally liked me _dry.gif
 
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post Mar 9 2005, 04:48 PM
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well kind of i just hang around her and ask her if she wants to do stuff thats about it.
 
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post Mar 9 2005, 05:03 PM
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you gotta do what you gotta do rolleyes.gif
 
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post Mar 9 2005, 05:05 PM
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well, sometimes, if I think I have a chance with him. But if not, then I don't compete with the girl.
 
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post Mar 9 2005, 05:18 PM
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Oh man i compete... Pain is love right, and so sometimes a mans gotta go through the dirty to get the girl he wants. Alot of the times when i find a girl, and i find out she likes someone else, i feel as though i have to be better at everything... *sigh* ermm.gif
 
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post Mar 9 2005, 06:34 PM
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QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ Mar 9 2005, 4:14 PM)
sometimes i do.  once i let my bestfriend win cause well everyone in school knows that she liked him and i just kept quiet about it.  but after they broke up i found out that he acutally liked me _dry.gif
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i hope in the and that will happen to me... kinda like your story mabye it will turn out that he actually liked me and he was only trying to become friends with the girl but then it just went further then what he planned...
 
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post Mar 9 2005, 06:35 PM
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hell yeah i would. nobody gonna take my hubby. shifty.gif
 
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post Mar 9 2005, 06:56 PM
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Probably...
 
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post Mar 9 2005, 10:51 PM
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nopes (:
if he likes someone eles, then i jst back off.
i mean, not like i had a chance anyway (;
 
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post Mar 9 2005, 11:24 PM
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if he like some one else i give up.. if he doesnt like me now then hell never like me...and him liking someone else just confirms that he isnt interested
 
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post Mar 9 2005, 11:27 PM
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hm. if my crush liked someone else.. i guess i would make her life miserable and start hating on her. LOL.

Well. I think you should just get closer to him. I'm a competitive person so I would try to know him better than her.. so he likes me more xP. But that's just me. Do what your heart tells you to.
 
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post Mar 10 2005, 07:14 AM
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all's fair in love and war.

remember. ur fighting a war here. whoop some ass and get what u want.

happy.gif teehee.
 
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post Mar 10 2005, 07:51 AM
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QUOTE(xd0rkette @ Mar 9 2005, 11:27 PM)
hm. if my crush liked someone else.. i guess i would make her life miserable and start hating on her. LOL.

Well. I think you should just get closer to him. I'm a competitive person so I would try to know him better than her.. so he likes me more xP. But that's just me. Do what your heart tells you to.
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really? i would just hate the guy...coz i know he liked me back coz he was staring at me all the time and stuff...and trying to get to know me. till the new girl came

i think i will try to get to know him better but its gonna be hard coz i dont see him to often and i need to make the time the best of it when i do see him.i dont know how ofter he sees the girls tho...

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remember. ur fighting a war here. whoop some ass and get what u want.

teehee.

ha ha lol...i need to remeber that one laugh.gif the next time i am seeing the guy
 
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post Mar 10 2005, 09:09 AM
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no i dont because i believe in the whole "oh if he's happy then i should be happy for him" sappy stuff.
 
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post Mar 10 2005, 12:30 PM
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Of course , i compete ...a girls nature.
 
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post Mar 10 2005, 03:01 PM
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i never compete...it probably was never meant to be anyway
 
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post Mar 10 2005, 03:07 PM
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QUOTE(Shortiiex @ Mar 10 2005, 3:01 PM)
i never compete...it probably was never meant to be anyway
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that what i was thinking of it as at first...i was thinking that things happen for a reason and obviously me and him were not ment to be...but then one part of me keept saying for me to compete and then the other said just let the other girl win... and they are both even and im confused wacko.gif
 
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post Mar 10 2005, 06:28 PM
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hell yea compete..if you cant get what you want at the time~fight for it
 
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post Mar 11 2005, 03:04 AM
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nah i dont compete. if i had a crush who liked another girl then too bad for me, guess i just gotta get over him.
 
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post Mar 11 2005, 03:35 AM
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I'm kinda in the same situation as you are, and there's this girl who's always flirting with him. I'd advice you to fight for him though 'cause if he once liked you then it means he probably still likes you. Who cares about the girl, you can always steal him back. Just hang in there and see if he shows interest. Never give up unless you are sure he has lost interest, cause you'll regret it if you lost him without a fight.
 
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post Mar 11 2005, 04:39 AM
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erm...
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post Mar 11 2005, 11:59 AM
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well..think about the other person's happiness...they could like you as a friend..but think about it...what would you rather want....the person to be happy or you to be happy and be selfish...
 
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post Mar 11 2005, 06:47 PM
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QUOTE(mistaken_identity @ Mar 11 2005, 3:35 AM)
I'm kinda in the same situation as you are, and there's this girl who's always flirting with him. I'd advice you to fight for him though 'cause if he once liked you then it means he probably still likes you. Who cares about the girl, you can always steal him back. Just hang in there and see if he shows interest. Never give up unless you are sure he has lost interest, cause you'll regret it if you lost him without a fight.
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omg...you really convinced me...but i still have to see what others have to say ^_^
 
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post Mar 11 2005, 09:44 PM
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No, I let them like whoever they want. I won't stop them. If he likes me, then cool. But if he likes the other girl, I'll be bummed, but I get over it.
 
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post Mar 12 2005, 01:02 AM
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nope. i have never competed, but if the guy's really worth it, sure.
 
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post Mar 12 2005, 10:54 AM
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QUOTE(laur3nw @ Mar 11 2005, 9:44 PM)
No, I let them like whoever they want.  I won't stop them.  If he likes me, then cool.  But if he likes the other girl, I'll be bummed, but I get over it.
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thats what i was doing at first but then i was thinking of competeing so then i asked you guys on your opinion ^_^
 
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post Mar 12 2005, 02:03 PM
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i do..only it was my boyfriend not...some crush.
 
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post Mar 12 2005, 09:34 PM
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yeah. if this girl likes the guy i like [as long as she's not like a good friend..] then IT'S ON BISNITCH! ;] you know how it goes.
 
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post Mar 12 2005, 10:11 PM
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post Mar 12 2005, 11:30 PM
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Sure. Challenges gives me more motivation. But if its a lost cause, i wont waste my time
 
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post Mar 13 2005, 12:15 AM
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Sometimes...depends on the person I'm supposedly competing for. whistling.gif
 
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post Mar 13 2005, 12:50 AM
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sometimes but yea it really depends on teh person because sometimes there not really worth it
 
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post Mar 13 2005, 09:57 AM
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hmmmmm.....*thinks to self* is my guy really worth it? yesssss!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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post Mar 13 2005, 02:16 PM
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sometimes...i start to hang out with him more
 
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post Mar 15 2005, 09:49 PM
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omg!!!for some reason he doesnt like that girl anymore...yay!!! well i guess you guys dont have to help me out anymore ;)
 
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post Mar 16 2005, 01:47 AM
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I'm the kind who would just back off and then brood continuously over it...until i forget or until it becomes a fading memory...that's what i would do...but everyone is different...if you feel that you really can't cope with it, then talk it out with him...you don't want this period of awkwardness to drag out...if he says really likes the other girl then wish him all the best and start thinking of him as a friend...if he says he likes you then just kiss him...hehe

But whatever you do, just make sure that you will have no regrets, because 'What ifs' can sting you worse than a box jellyfish can...just think about it carefully...follow your heart (I know it's cliche...but cliches are appropriate too you know!)

All the best!
 
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post Mar 16 2005, 11:06 PM
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if he didnt like me i wouldnt try to change or anything
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 12:04 AM
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ask him yourself if he lykes the new girl or if he still lykes you. if he lykes the new girl. try to move on but still keep your heart open to him. if he lykes you tell him how you feel so that its not too late.
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 12:07 AM
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QUOTE(DrEaMgUy2K1 @ Mar 12 2005, 11:30 PM)
Sure. Challenges gives me more motivation. But if its a lost cause, i wont waste my time
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yeah, same here. I love a challenge shifty.gif
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 12:54 AM
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Yes I do. Because I like the person and I become selfish and want to be with that person and also because it's out of jealousy or just because I don't realize that I'm doing it. But yeah, like others said, I like a challenge. It makes things more interesting. And I think you said he liked you before or something so if that's true then usually when people have liked someone a part of the feeling (whether big or small) is still there. So stick it out and COMPETE! haha
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 10:50 PM
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DUH you compete!! you dont just give up like that, at least put up a fight. i'm not saying fight nasty, i'm saying fight fair and win him over with your girlish charm.
 
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post Mar 20 2005, 11:27 PM
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i dont compete, because it would just make the relationship between me and my crush (this is a hypothetical situation) and he might start hating me for competing against his crush and making her feel uncomfortable or w.e. or he might just think that you're... err... possesive
 
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post Apr 18 2005, 04:35 AM
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I just let it go if he likes someone else, but if another girl likes him, and I find her a threat, I let it be known that I want that, and for some reason almost every girl has backed off, they find me intimidating.
 
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post Apr 19 2005, 01:12 PM
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Random people just come up to me trying to start a fight with me because some boy they like said he likes me. I didnt have a clue i was like i have a boyfriend! lol
 
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post Apr 19 2005, 04:06 PM
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QUOTE(wind&fire @ Mar 9 2005, 8:24 PM)
if he like some one else i give up.. if he doesnt like me now then hell never like me...and him liking someone else just confirms that he isnt interested
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yaya, I agree. but I mean if he still likes you than I would still try to flirt and stuff...like maybe he jsut likes you both, I donno..mayeb he's flirting and not realizing it, maybe he just wants to get to knwo her but he doens't really want a "relationship" with her.

I'd give him some space but don't give up all together innocent.gif
 
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post Apr 19 2005, 04:17 PM
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i dont compete but, i dont like it. he's gonna like who likes
 
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