i like someone, they like someone else... |
 Mar 8 2005, 09:56 PM
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Have u ever liked one of your best friends but u know that they like someone else because they talk to u abt her? Wellz, my friend likes this girl and he was asking me what he should do. I told him to go tell her and he did. Was that the rite thing to do cuz she likes him too. Let me repharse that. I shoudl be happy for him then why do i feel so crappy?
 okay, i kinda just wanted to write this somewhere so dont respond if u think this is stupid... |
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Mar 8 2005, 09:59 PM
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Well, you should be happy that your bestfriend has someone that likes him back. you feel crappy because he choose her & not you. You did the right thing, maybe you should consider moving on to another person?
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Mar 8 2005, 09:59 PM
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this should be in relationships, but anyways its good you did the right thing but of course you'll still feel bad about it...give it time. good luck!
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Mar 8 2005, 10:02 PM
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yeah...you did the right thing
you'll get over him soon but and you could tell him that you like him, just to let him know and he might be crawling to you 
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Mar 8 2005, 10:55 PM
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Heart | broken -Once again. Group: Member Posts: 260 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,092 |
omg yes i did, my best guy friend; he was like a guy that would talk to problems to and did all that girl's dreamed off, but he liked someone else. but you know what you did the right thing, and you never know he prob does like you, thats why he asked u that question--for your opinion; i maybe wrong, i dont wanna get ur hopes up :]
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Mar 13 2005, 12:31 AM
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you feel happy because your best friend got the girl that he liked...he asked her out and wasn't crushed, etc. You feel crappy because it's her with him and not you. And the fact that it's because of your advice/encouragement that he even told her how he felt.
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Mar 13 2005, 12:40 AM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
No, it's not stupid. You did what you did. You were helping your friend. I think you should feel happy about that. Not crappy. Well actually I will feel crappy. I will feel sad. Hm...
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Mar 13 2005, 12:48 AM
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Alright I know exactly how you feel..... except the friend that i like is a girl..........shes perfect...... but she doesnt like me back and confides in me her crushes..... she knows i like her she just doesnt feel the same...................... good luck................
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Mar 13 2005, 01:36 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
its not stupid. i'd feel crappy and sad if i were you.
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Mar 13 2005, 10:03 PM
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QUOTE(cool_twin @ Mar 13 2005, 12:48 AM) Alright I know exactly how you feel..... except the friend that i like is a girl..........shes perfect...... but she doesnt like me back and confides in me her crushes..... she knows i like her she just doesnt feel the same...................... good luck................  o i feel ur pain...i feel it 
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Mar 16 2005, 09:22 PM
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aww. don't feel crappy. its just a phase that boys go through. if its meant to be, he'll realize that he was in that phase and go to you :smile: keep your head up high
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Mar 16 2005, 09:25 PM
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i understand your feeling...coz i have similar problems...
all i can do is...pray for them every day and wish they could be happy together |
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Mar 16 2005, 09:26 PM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
well yeah you are going to feel crappy. but you can't give up on him. he could go from girl to girl to girl, but be blinded by the girl that has been right under his nose all along.
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Mar 16 2005, 09:32 PM
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 This is all my luck, it's all I got. Group: Member Posts: 1,373 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,532 |
Like everyone else said you did the right thing. lt feels bad because you want him to want you but he wants someone else. So yeah, i would feel crapy too. But you just have to move one and try to forget about him.
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Mar 17 2005, 02:29 AM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
aww srry... all you can do is just support him, and he might see you in a "different light" later on
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Mar 17 2005, 03:41 AM
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QUOTE(LEDO_D0RKETTE @ Mar 8 2005, 4:59 PM) Well, you should be happy that your bestfriend has someone that likes him back. you feel crappy because he choose her & not you. You did the right thing, maybe you should consider moving on to another person? agreed...u should move on..i think its the best thing to do... |
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Mar 18 2005, 07:27 PM
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thx guys. that helped :)
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Mar 21 2005, 08:21 AM
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 freakieee Group: Member Posts: 241 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,779 |
i tried this b4 as well....
u did da rite thing!! let's move on.... |
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Mar 21 2005, 08:36 AM
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Move on........
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Mar 25 2005, 11:59 PM
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u did the rite thing
good job [COLOR=orange] Theres no need to choose an impossible path. its fine to live as you like and die as you like but... protecting a percious person... you must not forget this no matter wat path u choose someone u acheknowledge with your heart,ur trust and love. [COLOR=orange] |
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Mar 26 2005, 12:06 AM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
You should feel happy for him. I mean, if he truly likes another girl, you don't want to make him like you if he doesn't initially have feelings for you. Plus, if you try to win him over, it might be awkward between you two since you both are best friends and all. Be a good friend and give him advice that will help in win over the person he has feelings for. You never know, in the future he might end up having feelings for you. :]
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Mar 26 2005, 12:07 AM
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ahh classic love stroy. if u rly like him let him make his own love decisions..
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Mar 26 2005, 02:39 PM
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awww
 guys are jerks-jp You'll get over him ^^ |
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Mar 26 2005, 02:46 PM
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Its tough wen that sort of thing happens. U were a true friend by saying go and get that girl. That happened to me once. I felt bad, like mayb i shldnt hav said that. They broke up and i was his best bet! Mayb it will happen to u also.
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Mar 26 2005, 03:00 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
then u move on. easy
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Mar 27 2005, 03:46 AM
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 sunshiine Group: Member Posts: 1,080 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,360 |
QUOTE(wincyyellow @ Mar 16 2005, 6:25 PM) i understand your feeling...coz i have similar problems... all i can do is...pray for them every day and wish they could be happy together yupp.. same. here. |
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Mar 27 2005, 08:07 PM
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Just be happy for him right now..Nothing last forever, so when the time comes for them to break up, you can comfort him and maybe become closer. *wink wink*
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