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do you feel obligated to marry one race or another?
like if you were half korean and half white do your parents pressure you to marry either or? or one of those races (ex. only korean) my dad told me a few days ago i was 1/16 native american (cherokee pride!) and he said he'd appreciate it if i married another native american prefferably(sp?) cherokee. is this happening to anyone else? ![]() |
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#2
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![]() insanitys contagious. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 ![]() |
nope i dont..
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*tweeak* |
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#3
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...no. im a complete european hybrid (well, and some other stuff too maybe. who the hell knows anymore) so it makes absolutely no differnce
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*stephinika* |
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#4
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nope. my parents don't really care, and neither do i.
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#5
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 ![]() |
My mom is very open and says she doesn't care, but when I used to see my dad, he'd never let me talk to black people. But now I'm free to date or marry any race of my choice
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#6
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 4,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,115 ![]() |
My parents want me to marry another chinese man.
Who cares, it's who I love, not them. |
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#7
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![]() original member. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,825 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,460 ![]() |
1/16th?
wow. |
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#8
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![]() Class of 2005!!! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,132 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,080 ![]() |
Well, my family is racist, and I totally don't agree with any of it. They think I should stick to my race, which is caucasian, but, I dont think it makes a difference either or...
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#9
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![]() Blasian, Asian, INVASION! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 ![]() |
My parents dont pressure me to do anything with guys *except to make the right choice blah blah blah*. I, yes ME, choose to be with the asian race. My parents had nothing to do with it
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#10
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![]() I have no life ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,119 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,675 ![]() |
my parents care more about the religon part....but I'll marry an asian just like me:P
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#11
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![]() who ma bitch? you ma bitch, bitch. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,920 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 55,278 ![]() |
nope not really
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#12
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![]() i'm susan ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 ![]() |
I'm South Korean...but my dad's mother is north korean.... so I'm like 1/2 North Korean heh.... I think? LOL... I think that was a joke from my dad.... I don't know I believed that I was... hahahaha. Anyways... my dad didn't say that I needed to marry a north korean guy haha...whew for that hahaha. he prefers south koreans haha... only south koreans... not american nor japanese..... my mom wants me to marry american people though
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#13
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![]() RiKACHANtEL ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,876 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,230 ![]() |
naw my mama nem dont care if i date black dudes or not. there are some fine ass white and filipino boys out there even though my preference is black boys
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#14
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to hell with you ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,547 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,506 ![]() |
my mom says im not allowed to date black guys, mexican guys, or even chinese guys. and im chinese! yeah..shes pretty racist.
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#15
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![]() Day's Nearly Over ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,553 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 45,183 ![]() |
My parents don't care who the hell I marry... as long as it's a) A guy b) Not such a bad guy and uhh.... yeah. That's what they told me.
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#16
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at this point my parents would be happy if i managed to land any guy, i kind of sound like an old maid, but my parents are just weird
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#17
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No, my parents don't care . . . THANK GOD!
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#18
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mixed people are so hot....
i am not mixed but i can probably only marry.. or my parents just really prefer me marry people of the same race.. easier to communicate |
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#19
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![]() just chillin ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 429 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,562 ![]() |
i kno ppl who are mixed, and they date around w/ both races, cuz their parents dont really set rules for them. i guess they just feel obligated to pick one or the other.
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#20
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![]() This is all my luck, it's all I got. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,373 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,532 ![]() |
No, my parents havent told me that and if they did i wouldnt listen to them.
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#21
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my family wanted me and my sisters to marry a white guy. my eldest one did.. problems came up and she became a single mom. since then, my whole family started to get racist against white people (except my grandma. she loves them.) my parents would most likely want me to be with a filipino guy but.. whatever. so now, i dunno. but i seriously don't care.
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#22
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![]() <3 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 ![]() |
my parents doesn't really care who i go out with or marry someone.
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*salcha* |
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#23
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im full chinese, but my parents dont care who i marry.
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#24
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![]() unify and defeat... divide and crumble ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 ![]() |
My parents haven't actually said it, but I'm pretty sure they want me to marry chinese
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#25
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My parents just want it to be a guy.
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#26
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![]() aNNa BaNaNa >.< ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 102 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 104,244 ![]() |
yah i kinda did before... since i live with a korean mother and a korean stepfather... GUESS what type of race they wanted me to marry? lol... but honestly since my sister is gonna marry a mexican guy their preferences have widened a bit more... i know it sounds so racist but they just dont want me to marry anyone black... which im totally NOT gonna listen to if i fall in love with one... but thats just my parents
sometimes it sucks to be mixed though... like when i take my SATs i have to just choose ONE of my races when im proud of both. plus i cant ever marry a full korean guy cus the prefer full korean girls... it may have changed now but not by much... and i dont know... i cant really relate with many full korean people since im not FULL like them... i do have two great friends that are full... lol but they are americanized... and with my hispanic friends i feel like im the asian one in the group... hehe its weird. sorry ive been babbling... i had to get that out >.< |
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#27
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![]() durian ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 ![]() |
... Psssh.. my dad doesn't want me to marry at all lol. And my mother won't let me marry until I'm 25. She hasn't told me what race she would like me to marry. Actually, my parents don't even want to put any ideas about marriage in my head..
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#28
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![]() hello : ) ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,227 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,139 ![]() |
QUOTE(ItzOnlySydney @ Mar 8 2005, 12:57 PM) No, I don't feel obligated in any way. QUOTE(ItzOnlySydney @ Mar 8 2005, 12:57 PM) I am half korean and half white. I guess it's a bit incorrect to say half white since I have some Cherokee mixed in there as well, but the point is no, my parents don't. They couldn't really care less. I'm sure there is part of my mom that might want me to marry a nice korean boy or something, but if I weren't to marry one, it's not like she would be devastated or something. And I agree with korbana05 about the last part in her post. About marrying a full korean guy. Yeah, I think it's highly doubtful that I'd be able to marry a full korean guy because I think they tend to lean more towards the other full asian girls. Sometimes it's hard to be mixed. |
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#29
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mixed people always seem to turn out good lookin'
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#30
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![]() ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 ![]() |
My parents want me to marry an Asian guy. And the only guy I'd ever consider is Asian. So yeah.
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