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 Mar 7 2005, 08:55 PM
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What is the greatest age difference you would date/marry?
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Mar 7 2005, 08:58 PM
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 most definitely. Group: Member Posts: 284 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,416 |
My boyfriend is only 2 1/2 years older than me and it took my parents a LONG TIME to qet to trust him. But, the hiqhest I'd probably qo is 3-4 years, while I'm a teenaqer.
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Mar 7 2005, 09:07 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
my parents are 10 years apart too
i don't care, i'd date anyone who appeals to me...well as long as their not younger, they're so immature  the love of my life is only 3 months older than me  the oldest guy i dated was 21 and i was 15-16 at the time 
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| *stephinika* |
Mar 7 2005, 09:23 PM
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well i don't know since all my boyfriends have been the same age, but a few years difference isn't too bad...my parents are 5 years apart, and my mom is the older one.
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Mar 7 2005, 10:02 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
im only 14 so right now only 2 but when im 18 ill make it 7 or 8
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Mar 7 2005, 10:16 PM
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 crushed. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,432 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,026 |
same with my parents, they are 10 years apart. The most I probably would go is three I think.
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Mar 7 2005, 10:20 PM
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i'd say...two years in difference, +/-, being a little bit of a stretch. preferably same age tho. one year difference: fine.
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Mar 7 2005, 11:57 PM
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 who ma bitch? you ma bitch, bitch. Group: Member Posts: 1,920 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 55,278 |
um...17 years apart. my friend parents
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Mar 8 2005, 12:37 AM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
My parents are 7 years apart, and my boyfriend is almost 2 years older than me.
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Mar 8 2005, 12:39 AM
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your daily math lesson :
my stepmom- 24 me-12 almost 13 my dad- 38 almost 39 nasty,eh? |
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Mar 8 2005, 12:40 AM
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 rwar (; Group: Member Posts: 590 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,308 |
1-2 during teenage
3-4 after 20 5-6 for marriage but they have to be older (: |
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Mar 8 2005, 01:09 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
3 yrs older than me would be nice
 QUOTE your daily math lesson : my stepmom- 24 me-12 almost 13 my dad- 38 almost 39 nasty,eh? wow.. are u rli 12? u look so much older.. |
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Mar 8 2005, 01:28 AM
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 when we speak, we breathe Group: Member Posts: 1,635 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,760 |
QUOTE(xSonia @ Mar 7 2005, 8:55 PM) Well.. CurrentLy dating someone who is 5 years older..haha..i don't think i'll go much higher then that.. ;x  No offense to you, but that is way too old for someone so young. You're younger then my little sister, who just turned fourteen yesterday, and if she ever dated someone that was eighteen, I'd personally kick his ass. He should honestly look for someone his age or older. At your age, it doesn't seem right for someone who can legally do so much more than you can. Hell, he's probably almost graduting highschool, and you're just graduating 8th grade. That really makes you wonder what his reasons are. I have never known someone that age who wanted to date someone your age. And there is a MAJOR maturity/experience difference between 13 and 18 year olds. I dated someone younger than me when I was 13. It's different as you get older (usually past the age of 17) because guys really are fickle about the consent laws. I've gotten my fair share of "you're just too young," or "too much age difference," when I was around 16. However, currently, my boyfriend is 22; four years older then me. |
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Mar 8 2005, 01:48 AM
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 define our lives for us. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
Lol.. My ex, who was my first bf and the only bf, was only a few months younger than me..
My mom and her bf are like 10 years apart, too. 
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| *Azarel* |
Mar 8 2005, 02:17 AM
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Mar 8 2005, 02:21 AM
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 mmm hmmm Group: Member Posts: 1,591 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,325 |
hrmm I'm 21 now. If I was single i'd date a guy between 19 - 30.... I guess when ur like an adult it doesn't really matter.. as long as they're HOT. lol
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Mar 8 2005, 03:14 AM
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when we speak, we breathe Group: Member Posts: 1,635 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,760 |
So you only date guys if they're hot? :\
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Mar 8 2005, 05:40 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
max i would date is yeah 5 yrs older than me.
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Mar 8 2005, 05:51 PM
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 Live Your Own Party Group: Member Posts: 1,261 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,489 |
Well, for adults, my parents are 12 years apart and my cousin is dating a guy like... 19 years older than her I think. But we love him and he doesn't use her for anything. They were co-workers first and he's awesome.
For preteens and teens I don't think you should go any farther up than 5 or 6 years older. When I was 12 I dated an 18 year old. He wasn't my boyfriend, but we dated. And I've hooked up with a 21 year old and I'm 13 but that was just WRONG. Blah.. Don't ask. So yeah.... |
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| *AngelicEyz00* |
Mar 8 2005, 05:59 PM
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I'm 17. I went on a "date" with a 23 year old last friday. I don't really thin about the age difference, y'know? It doesn't seem like a big deal when you're with the person. Now the whole having to be 18 thing really sucks
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Mar 8 2005, 08:22 PM
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when we speak, we breathe Group: Member Posts: 1,635 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,760 |
QUOTE(rOckThISshYt @ Mar 8 2005, 5:51 PM) For preteens and teens I don't think you should go any farther up than 5 or 6 years older. When I was 12 I dated an 18 year old. He wasn't my boyfriend, but we dated. And I've hooked up with a 21 year old and I'm 13 but that was just WRONG. Blah.. Don't ask. So yeah.... 15 and younger should not date older then 1-2 years. No offense, but that most've been one pathetic guy to hook up with someone who is seven years his senior. My friend was twenty when he hooked up with a fourteen year old, however, it wasn't for a relationship, as it was perely sexual related. Never knew someone at that age (20+) who actually wanted to be with someone that was much younger and less mature then they were. It just doesn't seem right for some reason. Same with when you dated an 18 year old; that's just f**king weird. You weren't even a teenager, and probably in seventh grade. I say just stick with guys your age for now, so you can just get the jist of it all, and as you're older (16+) date older guys. |
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Mar 8 2005, 08:24 PM
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my parents are ten yeras apart but now i think of it ew..like if my dad would get married at the age 20...so then my mom would be 10
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Mar 8 2005, 08:35 PM
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when we speak, we breathe Group: Member Posts: 1,635 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,760 |
QUOTE(Shortiiex @ Mar 8 2005, 8:24 PM) my parents are ten yeras apart but now i think of it ew..like if my dad would get married at the age 20...so then my mom would be 10 haha, my boyfriend and I do the same thing. We're currently four years apart, so when I was graduating 8th grade, he was graduating highschool. Granted, we never knew eachother until last year, but he always teases me about it and whatnot. |
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Mar 8 2005, 08:54 PM
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 ~*~KatieSue~*~ Group: Member Posts: 32 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 63,984 |
My parents are only three years apart. My friends mom and dad are 15 years apart! I'm dating a guy right now and we are exactly 11 months and 21 days apart!
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Mar 8 2005, 10:04 PM
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 Why is life such a burden? Group: Member Posts: 74 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 107,737 |
well it doesnt really matter but preferably not that big...but as long as LOVE remains in both people than theres nothing wrong in having a age gap...
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Mar 9 2005, 03:01 PM
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 engrish.1 Group: Member Posts: 16 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,803 |
i really dont mind..the highest i would prob go for now is 7 yrs older... because older then that.. i wouldnt know how to understand why someone like that would like me.. :/
for some reason.. only older guys is appealing to me.. i would never date anyone who is younger... its perfect if they are 1-3 years older. i dont feel like being a teacher and babysitter. :P |
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Mar 9 2005, 04:35 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
the most i'll go is probably 5 years older
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Mar 9 2005, 08:38 PM
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 ha ha ha. you're not funny. Group: Member Posts: 95 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,890 |
*gasp* i feel honored!
 yet sad at the same time. my old topic is ..missing? strange..never knew this many people would reply to this kind of topic. on the other hand, it is rather interesting to know people's opinion on age difference. when i first saw this topic, i thought it was mine. so my face had many expressions just now. >>     lol sorry, i was mad when i saw my exact topic then when i read that you couldn't find it, i was umm ..kinda proud that someone would make another topic like mines since they couldn't find it. ok, now on to my opinion.i'll tell you when i find the right guy.  cause you never know, he could be older or even younger than i imagined he would be.
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Mar 9 2005, 08:52 PM
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ha ha ha. you're not funny. Group: Member Posts: 95 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,890 |
well lookie here. look what i found.
http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php...0&hl=difference ^ my old topic. i guess it might've been because you either didn't type in the right keyword or you only searched for the past 30 days topics. i'm sure you didn't do that purposely, right? 
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Mar 9 2005, 08:55 PM
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when we speak, we breathe Group: Member Posts: 1,635 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,760 |
Accidents happen.
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Mar 9 2005, 09:03 PM
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Well.
I went out with a friend of mine whos 16 and I'm 13. Yah. I don't care I guess. |
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Mar 9 2005, 09:51 PM
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lAzN YiN YanGl Group: Member Posts: 376 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,905 |
Age's dont matter because two of my closest friends (girl is 14 and guy is 19) have been going out for a year and are so close and tight and its just so cuteee =]
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Mar 9 2005, 09:52 PM
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 boa loyal fans 4eva!!!! Group: Member Posts: 533 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 100,738 |
my uncle in vietnam he marry a girl that like 20 years younger than him, that crazy!
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Mar 9 2005, 10:15 PM
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 to be loved by someone you love is.. everything Group: Member Posts: 1,207 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,205 |
3 years
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Mar 9 2005, 10:16 PM
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 dripping destruction Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,282 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,929 |
younger 2 years older one year.
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Mar 9 2005, 10:25 PM
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Well while Im a teenager 4 or 5 years tops.. but when Im older, my parents are 11 years apart and I have a friend who's parents are 12..
So I really think that you shouldnt really marry someone and worry about there age, because love isnt bassed on that so age doesnt really matter in the long run. Now I do think if a 21 year old girl Marrys a 94 year old man theres gotta be something wrong with that picture, lol |
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Mar 9 2005, 10:36 PM
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right now im going out with a girl that is 2 years younger than me, i have no problem with it, shes pretty mature and all.
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Mar 9 2005, 10:47 PM
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mmm hmmm Group: Member Posts: 1,591 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,325 |
QUOTE(jordanriane @ Mar 8 2005, 3:14 AM) So you only date guys if they're hot? :\ no they have to be HOT AND RICH!
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Mar 10 2005, 09:51 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
haha im usually the older one...but only by like 6 months or something....
oldest person i've hooked up with....23? |
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Mar 10 2005, 09:53 PM
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 highfive. Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,951 |
age is just a number.
but.. the largest difference i saw was like this 40 year old woman and this 13 year old boy.. on Maury. Mad freaky. i would date or marry less than 5 years older than me. hehe. This post has been edited by xd0rkette: Mar 10 2005, 09:54 PM |
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Mar 10 2005, 10:00 PM
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dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
^^oh my god, i saw that
they had a WHOLE segment on stuff like that  i saw it a few days ago, this woman was dating a 16 yeard old...she was 47? and the boy's own mom was 10 years YOUNGER than that woman  it's so gross, i couldn't watch the whole thing because it was 10 and i was already really late  this 15 year old who was this woman's son's best friend, got married to the lady, i think she was in her late 30's and his parents agreed to the marriage!!! |
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Mar 11 2005, 09:39 PM
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I guess 3-4 years. I don't want them to be THAT much older than me.
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Mar 11 2005, 10:08 PM
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i am seeing someone who is 6 years older than me, i first met him when i was 18 and he was 24. i think it relays on the level of maturity if one of the people in a relationship is a lil bit older by 5-10 years or more
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Mar 11 2005, 10:22 PM
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 Serious As A Heart Attack. Group: Member Posts: 2,292 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,344 |
as of right now..i think the oldest i would go is 5 years older..but if im really in love with someone, i dont think age will matter
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Mar 13 2005, 08:29 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
there really is no greatest age difference for me..becuz age difference doesn't matter to me...as long as the guy isn't younger than me...
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