i got this new boyfriend., and my best friend is a guy |
 Mar 7 2005, 04:16 PM
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okay. yesterday i started going out with this guy. who i liked for a while now and my best friend jacob already knew about. well yesterday jacob didnt really talk to me at all. normally we spend hours talking a day. then this morning i got online and he was on and it was a wierd conversation. and normally when we sign off . its later BFF today he goes. later best friend. then at school. we sat together in lunch. and he just rested his head down and staired at me , looking into my eyes. after lunch we were walkign together, and like i saw my boy friend. i gave him 2 hugs and jacob stayed by me. my boy friend asked for a hug and walked away. then , jacob standing there i go ill see you after civics ! and he was like brittany and i was like yea and he goes can i have a hug ? so i gave him one.
i dont kno whats going on. but this is my first boyfriend i've had since last juy. when i wasnt even close with jacob. do you think these signs means he likes me? should i stay with my boyfriend til i figure this out with jacob. i feel him getting closer. but loosing him at the same time . what do i do ? 
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Mar 7 2005, 07:41 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
it seems as if you kinda like jacob too but give your new bf a chance come on,,
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Mar 7 2005, 08:02 PM
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They both want to have sex with you.
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Mar 7 2005, 08:09 PM
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 Class of 2005!!! Group: Member Posts: 1,132 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,080 |
I think your best friend likes you, and I feel that your kind of being selfish. Dont' ignore your friend just because your boyfriends around. I dont' care if you've never had a boyfriend. Friends first, boys second. Always
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Mar 7 2005, 08:09 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 73 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,896 |
That way, boys will compete more for your attention, so you get both in the long run.
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Mar 7 2005, 08:27 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
hello! duh! it is obvious that your guy-best-friend has feeling/emotions for you!
 if he didn't, than he would be moping around the place begging/asking for affection from you. i mean this in the best way possible, your best friend needs to get over it. i mean, did your guy-best-friend make any kinds of signs making you think that he liked you? if he didn't, it is his fault that you got with anther guy. |
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Mar 7 2005, 08:40 PM
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QUOTE(Frankie @ Mar 7 2005, 8:27 PM) hello! duh! it is obvious that your guy-best-friend has feeling/emotions for you! if he didn't, than he would be moping around the place begging/asking for affection from you. i mean this in the best way possible, your best friend needs to get over it. i mean, did your guy-best-friend make any kinds of signs making you think that he liked you? if he didn't, it is his fault that you got with anther guy.  i agree maybe he did show you emotions or hints of him liking you, but you just never noticed. but hey, you've got a bf already and you do like him right? |
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Mar 7 2005, 08:44 PM
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 most definitely. Group: Member Posts: 284 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,416 |
QUOTE(Aesirus @ Mar 7 2005, 8:02 PM) They both want to have sex with you.  I think that you want your new boyfriend to qet jealous of you in a way, so you're acting real close to your best friend?Give your new boyfriend a chance and don't give him the wrong idea. Your best friend also may be developing feelings for you JUST NOW because he thought that before he could have you all to hisself because you weren't taken. Now that he sees that you have a boyfriend he feels like he lost something, and is developing feelings and trying to draw you back?  
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Mar 7 2005, 08:54 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
well...i think he's trying to protect you. he's your best friend he doesn't want you to get hurt, he's just checking out your boyfriend to see if there's anything wrong. he's a guy, he'll know these types of things. big whoop if he changed his goodbye thing on AIM, stop being so paranoid
and Aesirus will you stop doling out the dumb advice?
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Mar 7 2005, 09:25 PM
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QUOTE(Frankie @ Mar 7 2005, 5:27 PM) hello! duh! it is obvious that your guy-best-friend has feeling/emotions for you! if he didn't, than he would be moping around the place begging/asking for affection from you. i mean this in the best way possible, your best friend needs to get over it. i mean, did your guy-best-friend make any kinds of signs making you think that he liked you? if he didn't, it is his fault that you got with anther guy. agreed. so just try to make him feel better, but he has to realize that he's only your friend so yeah...good luck. |
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Mar 8 2005, 06:18 PM
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 who ma bitch? you ma bitch, bitch. Group: Member Posts: 1,920 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 55,278 |
QUOTE(Emmaliev @ Mar 7 2005, 4:41 PM) it seems as if you kinda like jacob too but give your new bf a chance come on,, yeah what she said |
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Mar 8 2005, 07:10 PM
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QUOTE(BrokenHeartsKILLME @ Mar 7 2005, 5:16 PM) okay. yesterday i started going out with this guy. who i liked for a while now and my best friend jacob already knew about. well yesterday jacob didnt really talk to me at all. normally we spend hours talking a day. then this morning i got online and he was on and it was a wierd conversation. and normally when we sign off . its later BFF today he goes. later best friend. then at school. we sat together in lunch. and he just rested his head down and staired at me , looking into my eyes. after lunch we were walkign together, and like i saw my boy friend. i gave him 2 hugs and jacob stayed by me. my boy friend asked for a hug and walked away. then , jacob standing there i go ill see you after civics ! and he was like brittany and i was like yea and he goes can i have a hug ? so i gave him one. i dont kno whats going on. but this is my first boyfriend i've had since last juy. when i wasnt even close with jacob. do you think these signs means he likes me? should i stay with my boyfriend til i figure this out with jacob. i feel him getting closer. but loosing him at the same time . what do i do ? ha. im in jacobs situation right now... yeah. he likes you. youre killing him. seriously seriously killing him. |
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Mar 8 2005, 07:16 PM
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 none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
Aw, I feel sorry for Jacob
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Mar 8 2005, 07:20 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,614 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,903 |
I do to and i do think they want to have sex with you but yea know .. give the new dude a chance to spred his wings :-D
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Mar 9 2005, 10:55 AM
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 Je vous aime Group: Member Posts: 361 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,078 |
QUOTE(DanielleMaria05 @ Mar 7 2005, 8:09 PM) I think your best friend likes you, and I feel that your kind of being selfish. Dont' ignore your friend just because your boyfriends around. I dont' care if you've never had a boyfriend. Friends first, boys second. Always Agreed. You shouldn't ignore your best friend since you have a boyfriend now. He probably does have feelings for you, havn't you ever seen When Harry Met Sally? Guys and Girls cant be best friends without some sort of tension going on.  I dont belive that but it just kind of fit the problem. |
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Mar 9 2005, 03:34 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
Your BFF is either jealous or sick of the love or having a bad day and kepping a secret from you
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Mar 9 2005, 04:10 PM
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but you see. jacob; he is in love iwth one of my other best friends rachel. have been since like november. and i m maen today he like glabbed my wrist and was like you need to eat tody and like said pleas. he didnt grob them hard though. like a soft gentle touch. and like today. he wanted me to stay after and eat wit him and i was like sure okay ! and then he looked at me and was like nevermind got up and threw away his tray without finishing lunch was like what was that for. and he was like you gotta see bud. and im not ignoringjacob by any means ! but i use to like him l; and he knew that. and never did anything about that. then i stopped and stuff. ad everybody thinsk me and jacob are going out. seriously. and it gets annoying. and i relaly really like bud. my boyfriend, and im not ignoring any of them..
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Mar 9 2005, 04:25 PM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
Signs are obvious the boy likes you...!!!
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Mar 9 2005, 04:30 PM
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Yeah, poor guy. he likes you
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Mar 9 2005, 05:56 PM
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 dripping destruction Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,282 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,929 |
any guy who's best friends with a girl has at least considered the possibility of a romatic relationship.
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Mar 10 2005, 09:30 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 59,075 |
guys have to stop being so shy and all that.. it's getting annoying. they should just say what they f**king want to say. giving mix signals aint nice. and you already have a boyfriend, he should just eff off. if he likes you, TOO BAD, because he already know before and didn't do a shit about it. If he doesn't like you, then ask him what's wrong or some shit.. just ask him what's going on and why is he acting this way.
it seems like you still have a lil bit feeling for him.. i'm not sure.. that's just what i'm thinkin by the way you said it. i think he likes you, too. i think you should sit down and talk to him about it, after that.. you sit down alone for a week or less or more.. and think about it. |
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Mar 11 2005, 12:04 AM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
QUOTE(Frankie @ Mar 7 2005, 3:27 PM) hello! duh! it is obvious that your guy-best-friend has feeling/emotions for you! if he didn't, than he would be moping around the place begging/asking for affection from you. i mean this in the best way possible, your best friend needs to get over it. i mean, did your guy-best-friend make any kinds of signs making you think that he liked you? if he didn't, it is his fault that you got with anther guy. i agree.. |
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Mar 11 2005, 02:58 AM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
its pretty obvious he likes you. i think its hurting him alot that you're going out with another guy
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Mar 11 2005, 04:28 AM
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 .:gossipgirl:. Group: Member Posts: 156 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 111,300 |
so...
u liked yr frd. and i feel u luved him much more than your bf come on, give him a chance love ya*muah |
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Mar 11 2005, 05:07 PM
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hmm. maybe. but like today. i use to have his id card infront of my wlalet. but my boyfriend gave me his and i put his in front. and jacob saw that. and like he took his id card. and after i begged for it back he was like omay just hold on. and he wrote i love rachel on the back. but told me never to show anyone. and like last night h e was all like you have everything i want. someone u love and loves you back. and stuff. and hwen i was signing off. he goes. okay good night n sweet dreams . and i was like you to. and he goes "i love you bye" . and then today. he skipped class and hung out with me. it was wierd. and at lunch u just saw tears in his eyes. and he would never tell me why. its confusing. i use to like him. but now i find it a lil annying how he is acting like this. going up to my bf askign hwere im at and that he needs me . and stuff. and talkingto m bf online not telling me what they say. eh.
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Mar 11 2005, 05:44 PM
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 to be loved by someone you love is.. everything Group: Member Posts: 1,207 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,205 |
QUOTE(Aesirus @ Mar 7 2005, 8:02 PM) They both want to have sex with you. lol 
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Mar 11 2005, 06:21 PM
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 Nymphetamine Girl Group: Member Posts: 206 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,433 |
He likes you. Apparently a lot. Most guys are afraid to admit to such things because they are just as afraid of rejection. No offence guys or anything. But yeah. He probably lieks you and feels that he will never get a chance with you now that your with your new boyfriend. If things continue..confront him.
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Mar 11 2005, 10:09 PM
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Yeah, I think he likes you a lot. And the whole thing between him and your bf..it seems like he wants to take him away from you.
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Mar 13 2005, 11:53 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
just because you have someone new..doesn't give you any right to be less affectionate to your best friend. And ignore him either..
It's obvious....that your best friend has feelings for you... 
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Mar 14 2005, 04:44 AM
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 boo Group: Member Posts: 5,512 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,765 |
I think Jacob is jealous. And, he may have some feelings for you too.
Now, you gotta think, who do you like more? Then, you make your move. |
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