my life's all messed up, ugh help. Options

[mistaken_identit...]

God. I can't believe so many things are going wrong in my life and I've feel like I've lost total control of it. First there were just sooooo much homework and tests and I'm just unable to manage it. I used to get all that managed but now it seems like it's not up to me. It's like somebody's controlling me and nothing's working out like it used to.

My parents are pissed off at me about just about everything I do. My friends were ignoring me for no reason and the guy I like is kind of pissed off at me for no reason as well.

Why is my life so darn sucky?? Anyone feeling the same as me? What can I do to make it better........-.-

[Wishful_Dream]

lols. I totally understand. Except, school work isn't that hard for me. Actually, it is. I'm just ignoring it.

Maybe, your just spending a little too much time on the computer, with your friends... or something? Maybe, you need to give your friends some space. You shouldn't be around them 24/7. Go hangout with other people. You don't always have to hangout with the same people all the time. =)

Homework.. mmm.. yeah, just try to study. When I don't have enough time, I usually stay up to study or to finish my homework. I know it's not good for you and you get baggy eyes, but yea... I do that a lot. Sorry, I'm not much help.

Okay, your parents are annoying ne? Or they just getting you angry? Ignore them. That's all you can really do. Or you can try talking to them. Tell them to give you some space and that you like doing what you do...

Erm.. the guy you like.. does he know you like him? =/ Maybe he had a bad day or something. Hehe. It's just a crush... crushes can fade.. =)

[dahding]

oh please. that defines as a sucky life? sooo many tests, oh who cares. everyone has a crapload of tests.

study harder, work harder, stop thinking about ur crush, and get me a smoothie.

[Nicolatofu]

Life will have its hard times. There's nothing you can really do, except hang in there. You think that's bad? What about the kids who won't eat tonight, or tomorrow; it may be a week until they get anything. Think of how good you have it compared to other people! Sounds like maybe there are some communication problems between you and your friends, so talk to them about it, and if they ignore you, then I think it's time to get worthy friends

[mistaken_identit...]

I'm sorry, but this does concern me a lot. Stress just ruins me. It's not just stress. It's the part where people are starting to act strange. My friends are changing and it's changing from good to worse.

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

We all have times where things overwhelm us. Just remember to breath. Take it easy haha. First off. If your being overwhelmed by homework and test i suggest u switch up your scheduling a bit. When things change, you have to adapt ><; . And as for your parents , friends, and ur crush, dont just sit there wondering why everyone is mad at you, go to them and ask them whats up. Communicating is the solution :]

[oXMuhNirvanaXo]

That sucks big well i have been haveing a hard time to ith friends and boys i like .. but ya know i suck it up wipe my tears away and keep going coz tomorow will be much better then today You know what i mean ! Number 100 baby YEA! whoah .. moveing on :-)

[lilbabicarmi]

swtie, i've been through this before n i knw exactly how hard it is because even after many months, the aftermath of it is still catching up to me now.

SKO0L- i can't really give an advice about this cuz well honestly, i went to sko0l fo about 2 hrs last week but when im there i try. when it doesn't seem to work, i put a little more effort and say i tried my best and who can condemn me for that?

PARENTS- these ppl hoo yoo call yoor parents bought yoo up n provided for yoo. there are times when i wanna yell and curse at them because of unfairness or because of a curfew. they still dun like it when i go to church that i go to now. jus keep yoor anger down. when they yell at yoo jus ignore it, sing yoor fav. song inside yoor head.

FRWDS- my best frwd and this place we both went to, i'll call it a convention. she hated me along with 2 of her closest frwds n most of the ppl at the convention as well even th0h they had their own judgement. after a while, a person with a higher power than us at the convention made us tlk things over and we realized what the problem was. i was too sassy n she wouln't jus come out n say it to me before things got out of hand.

GUY YOO LIKE- crushes when they happen and yoor caught up in the moment, they seem like the world to you right? but after a while they start to float away. dun dink too much about it.

n no, yoor life isn't the only one that suqs. many other ppl have it a lot worse and always had it like that. dun be so down on yoorself.

[LQ_Darksoul]

Don't be a cocksmoker. Life isn't that bad. Trust me, it can get much much worse, I've seen it, I've experienced it, I've lived it. best you can do, is try to stay calm, work hard, continue doing what you do, if it doesn't work out, then find a new path and start over. And if all that fails...At least your not in southern africa, with aids, no food, swollen from dehydration and homeless.

[usv04babe]

hun, being stressed and worrying too much is part of life. Things will get better for you. I know exactly where you are coming from. I am all stressed out myself. Just relax a little, and before you know it, everything will start to be ok again. I am a full time college student taking the max. courses I can, and they all happen to be honors, and advanced placement, and I only go to college 2 days a week, so I have so much work, tests and such that I have to have done, and it really gets to me sometimes, and I think about giving up, but then I think what is giving up going to get me? A job at Mc D's til I am 60. No I am going to finish college and deal with everything I have to so I can get the job I want, and make the money.

Your parents are not trying to make it harder on you, though it may seem that way. My parents at times still get pissed off at me for the stupid little things that no one can control. It is part of life and parents don't realize how hard it is these days to be a teenager worrying about school, work, sports, guys, fitting in, and such.

Friends and people change. You may feel like they are ignoring you, but they probably aren't. Have you drawn away from them, and given them a little reason to like ignore you? The guy you like doesn't know what he is missing if he is pissed with you for no reason and isn't talking to you. I would just say to relax a little, take a little time to yourself, and everything will get better again. Life is like a roller coaster, it has it's ups and downs, and this is just a minor down in your life.

[EmmalieV]

oh please. that defines as a sucky life? sooo many tests, oh who cares. everyone has a crapload of tests.

study harder, work harder, stop thinking about ur crush, and get me a smoothie.

harsh but semi true

UM , life gets better , trust me later on in life you will laugh about it , ive done it before many times.

[mouse_3k]

omg i have like so much tests and like my parents are just so like annoying boowhoo

cry me a damn river, ur life is nothing. stop complaining like a child. if your life was sucky then u would be pregnant at age of 12, both parents dead, and a druggie. THATS a sucky life. not alot of tests. deal with it and stop whining like a little kid.

[cHuNsAbAbIe012]

MAKE ur friends talk to u for one. second feel lucky ur in school n get ur work done at a library ALONE. best way for me or get a study group u KNOW U can work with. if u need help as teachers or friends. third, the guy who likes u...well just give him time. guys need time. school is stressful but try your best to keep up with the work. do watever u have to do. it only feels like someone is controlling ur life but only because u let them.