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 Mar 6 2005, 11:30 AM
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me and my boyfriend broke up last night...
 we both still love each other.. it was kind of a chessy momment kus we were tellin each other that we rele rele did love each other [but it was nd still is sweet]... i was the one who wanted to break up w/ him b/c of the arguments, nd it was his plan to break up... then he said he regrets ever wantin to break up w/ me in tha firz place nd at that time i still wanted to break up.. but NOW today, im feelin that i wanna still be with him... but now im afraid that he doesnt want me back [for some reason] can ya help me out on what i should do? 
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Mar 6 2005, 11:51 AM
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 go go power rangers<3 Group: Member Posts: 321 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,457 |
I'd say to take some time on your own to figure things out. Then if you find out that it's him you want, try going back with him.
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Mar 6 2005, 11:58 AM
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 Fearless? Group: Member Posts: 215 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 100,183 |
Take a break off of him see what happens in like 2 weeks if you still like him if. If you still do ask him if he still likes/loves you too.
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Mar 6 2005, 01:30 PM
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QUOTE(X-Zeifer @ Mar 6 2005, 5:58 PM) Take a break off of him see what happens in like 2 weeks if you still like him if. If you still do ask him if he still likes/loves you too.  yeah give it a week or two first.. cuz ur feeling really vulnerable right now so its not a good time to make those kinda decisions so fast. im not saying try to get over him for the nxt week n see if u still like him.. im saying see wat happens after a week or so n see if those feelings are still there k? =) (tell him to do the same). dont ignore each other or anything n shut each other out! act as friends for now! n if after a week or 2 u both want it to be more than friends again then yey =D ur meant to be together still ^_^ dont worry bout it, break ups are tough and confusing at times after its done with.. but if its meant to be ull both want to get back together again =) gluck n take care! keep ur chin up! keep urself occupied =) |
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Mar 6 2005, 01:31 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 237 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 86,951 |
QUOTE(X-Zeifer @ Mar 6 2005, 5:58 PM) Take a break off of him see what happens in like 2 weeks if you still like him if. If you still do ask him if he still likes/loves you too. yeah give it a week or two first.. cuz ur feeling really vulnerable right now so its not a good time to make those kinda decisions so fast. im not saying try to get over him for the nxt week n see if u still like him.. im saying see wat happens after a week or so n see if those feelings are still there k? =) (tell him to do the same). dont ignore each other or anything n shut each other out! act as friends for now! n if after a week or 2 u both want it to be more than friends again then yey =D ur meant to be together still ^_^ dont worry bout it, break ups are tough and confusing at times after its done with.. but if its meant to be ull both want to get back together again =) gluck n take care! keep ur chin up! keep urself occupied =) |
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Mar 6 2005, 02:02 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
QUOTE(X-Zeifer @ Mar 6 2005, 6:58 AM) Take a break off of him see what happens in like 2 weeks if you still like him if. If you still do ask him if he still likes/loves you too. i agree...give ur self some time... |
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Mar 6 2005, 08:32 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
its called, "oh no, i lost my significant other, so, i need to find someone to fill that void until i can get over him and move my ass onward. hm, maybe i still love him."
so wait a loonnnnggg time. if u don't like him anymore, ha, i was right. if u do like him, ha, u shouldn't have broken up with him, and i hope things go all right for u. |
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Mar 6 2005, 08:39 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
so...you really love each other but broke up anyway? in a real, loving relationship, you two should be able to work out your differences
but since you deicided that you couldn't and dumped his ass, why do you want him back? for most people, the fighting never stops and no one ever changes for real when my boyfriend broke up with me when we fought, i got him to take me back...i did something really sweet and unexpected which i will not share, it's pg-13 but i will not share so you can steal it out from under me 
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Mar 6 2005, 09:10 PM
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whoa my god...
hmm...try doing what they said..take like 2 weeks off or something..then see if you feel the same... if you do...try going back again.. |
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Mar 6 2005, 09:18 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
tell him.
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Mar 6 2005, 09:35 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
well....since you had wanted to break up..and now that you both have...give it time..to figure out what you want...either to be with him or not.
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Mar 7 2005, 08:10 PM
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 Class of 2005!!! Group: Member Posts: 1,132 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,080 |
Ok, if you loved him why did u break up with him??
The only thing I can tell you is to talk to him. The worst he can do is reject you, and well, stuff happens. |
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Mar 7 2005, 08:13 PM
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ok ready. BREAK TIME!! take a week or so to just figure out your own feelings. at the end of those weeks, meet up at a cafe or something, then at that time tell each other how you feel.
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Mar 7 2005, 08:18 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
if you both had feeling about wanting to break up, y'all should be broken up. =/
sorry, but that is just how it sounds. if you both "love" each other, you would most likely would of been able to get over the arguments and stayed together. |
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Mar 7 2005, 08:20 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 73 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,896 |
Musical boyfriends is a fun game.
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Mar 8 2005, 04:02 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
QUOTE(chii @ Mar 7 2005, 9:39 AM) so...you really love each other but broke up anyway? in a real, loving relationship, you two should be able to work out your differences ^ Everything she said.
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Mar 8 2005, 12:43 PM
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 it's just me Group: Member Posts: 74 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 110,630 |
Take your time to think things over and maybe take a break from the relationship and all the arguing. After all of that, you still want to be with him, then go talk to him! You don't want to lose a good thing!!
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Mar 8 2005, 03:12 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
just telll him how you feel, you want to get back togther but you may need time to figure what your heart is telling u
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Mar 8 2005, 05:06 PM
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 to be loved by someone you love is.. everything Group: Member Posts: 1,207 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,205 |
yeah, this has happened to me like 4-8 times w/ the same guy
 but you'll move on, don't worry
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Mar 8 2005, 08:45 PM
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 free hugs Group: Member Posts: 188 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,202 |
wait a while then see
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