HELP! guy problem, who to pick?! |
 Mar 5 2005, 10:00 PM
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ok two guys just asked me out and i dont know who to choose, and i both told them ill give them an answer later, and i both like them both!. HELP PLEASE!
guy 1: he is cute, but then he is not that type of person i could talk anything with him. like if im crying i cant call him and tell him why, hes just not the type of person i could connect with guy2:hes not cute at all, but i could talk to him about anything (its the exact oppsite as above) and he has a great personallity |
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Mar 5 2005, 10:03 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
well i think you should go with guy 2, it's better to go with someone who can connect with you, then go with some one that's only cute, but you both have nth in common.
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Mar 5 2005, 10:04 PM
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 Ah, mon Dieu ! Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
i would go with guy 2...
and so would any girl in the right mind. don't be so shallow... looks aren't everything. |
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Mar 5 2005, 10:32 PM
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 uoyevoli Group: Member Posts: 177 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,430 |
well it depends. i dont mean to sound shallow, or mean or anything. but there are some people who i think are horribly ugly, and it scares me to look at them. i avoid them at all costs. itf guy #2 fits in this category, i wouldnt pick him. but i also wouldnt want a guy i cant talk to..so if hes not scary looking, i would pick guy#2. i can deal with ugly..but not scary
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Mar 5 2005, 11:23 PM
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 I'm with Stupid. Group: Member Posts: 410 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,973 |
You kinda make it sound like we should pick number 2. =)
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Mar 5 2005, 11:36 PM
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 Quand j'étais jeune... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 6,826 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,272 |
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If you pick guy one... you're shallow... but HEY, if it means you can hang on the arms of a hunk... go for it. If you pick guy two... you're not going to be bored with anything he has to say... but if he's really ugly... then you're going to have a hard time showing him off to your friends.... Pick no one and live a sex-free life. Moved to relationships. This is not uninspiredfae... this is her alter ego... one of them anyway. |
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Mar 5 2005, 11:41 PM
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 Yea Yea. Group: Member Posts: 837 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 79,366 |
if guy two isn't extremely ugly i'd pick him... definitely.
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Mar 5 2005, 11:57 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Well I would pick guy 2- it's better to have someone you feel comfortable talking to and around than someone that you don't. And anyways, after a while, he'll look cute in your eyes.
That was like me- my ex was hot, but not someone I really connected with. My current boyfriend, I didn't really think of anything of him, but we were able to talk about anything, and now I think he's the hottest guy I've known. |
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Mar 6 2005, 01:54 AM
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Stalking Createblog... Group: Member Posts: 155 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,300 |
Did you change your avator, fae? o_0
Don't pick any. If you're unsure, you don't like any of them. |
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Mar 6 2005, 03:36 AM
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 rwar (; Group: Member Posts: 590 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,308 |
guy two ! whats the point of a boyfriend if you cant even talk to him ?
i mean would you make a regular friend if you couldnt even relate to them? couldnt start a convo with them ? couldnt even talk to them ? |
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Mar 6 2005, 03:46 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 889 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,392 |
i'd say good personality before looks n e day
before.. i mostly liked guys for their looks... even WITH them being nicne n all that... but the guy right now.... he sin't cute ...nor hot....but hes soo ncie n funny n all of that...n thats what caught me... i told him i liked him...n he said he did tooooo=) |
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Mar 6 2005, 09:17 AM
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 o.x Group: Member Posts: 89 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 78,026 |
It's not fair to guy 1 to let him think you really like him for who he is when really it sounds like your just in it for his looks. Guy 2 sounds ideal, except for the looks. For me, I usually find that if I like someone, then they are good looking no matter what. Í can't help it.
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Mar 6 2005, 01:24 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 499 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,961 |
I wouldn't go w/ either one of them cause I would wait till the guy w/ both characteristics would come along...but if you realli need to choose pick guy number one...and you never kno maybe his true side will come out and you'll be able to see that!!!...but don't always go w/ what is easy I wouldn't want a easy relationship that is all laid out...but if you wanna be on the safe side choose guy number 2!!!...hope I helped girly!!!....
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Mar 6 2005, 09:24 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
guy 2.
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Mar 6 2005, 09:38 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 3 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 14,980 |
guy 2
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Mar 6 2005, 09:43 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 62 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,558 |
I would say guy #2. Okay he might not have the "look" but atleast you can conect with him and know that when you need someone to talk to he will be there. Who knows eventually you'll find the cuteness in him, LIKE think he is good-looking.
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Mar 7 2005, 07:05 AM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
how about, neither.
cause u like both of them. so its not fair to either one. to find out that u said, "i'll give u an answer later." and then have them find out u decided to go out with someone else. i'd pick guy 2 tho in ur situation. |
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Mar 7 2005, 11:23 AM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
man ur dumb haha. sorry. who to pick to be my boyfriend....? The guy who looks good but i cant connect with at all or a guy that isnt as attractive but he will be there for me when im crying and need someone to talk to and someone i can connect with,.. i wonder...
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Mar 7 2005, 01:42 PM
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Miss Lia Group: Member Posts: 14 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 107,759 |
Pick number 2, looks aren't everything. If you have a connect with the second guy, that should be your pick.
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Mar 7 2005, 03:56 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
trust me u'll find the good looking side of guy two if u get to know him better. u dont have to be attracted to him. attraction isnt love or caring even. it's just...pple getting it on u know? n there's no point in being with guy 1 if u cant even connect with him n be comfortable around him.
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Mar 7 2005, 08:58 PM
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 APPLE Group: Member Posts: 2,989 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,182 |
Obviously guy #2..because..Looks f a d e..
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Mar 7 2005, 08:59 PM
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 most definitely. Group: Member Posts: 284 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,416 |
Guy #2...looks shouldn't compare to emotions. If you want a boyfriend who you just have for the looks, but you can't confide in him for emotional support then why have him?
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Mar 7 2005, 09:01 PM
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most definitely. Group: Member Posts: 284 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,416 |
QUOTE(DrEaMgUy2K1 @ Mar 7 2005, 11:23 AM) man ur dumb haha. sorry. who to pick to be my boyfriend....? The guy who looks good but i cant connect with at all or a guy that isnt as attractive but he will be there for me when im crying and need someone to talk to and someone i can connect with,.. i wonder...  Ur dumb? What the f**k? You don't even know the qirl. Shut the f**k up before you start sayinq shit about people you don't KNOW, dumbass. |
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Mar 7 2005, 11:15 PM
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Quand j'étais jeune... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 6,826 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,272 |
QUOTE(espionage @ Mar 6 2005, 1:54 AM) Did you change your avator, fae? o_0 Yes, yes I did. That's my doggie. You like? 
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Mar 7 2005, 11:36 PM
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Running Group: Member Posts: 596 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,064 |
QUOTE(baybeexlien @ Mar 5 2005, 10:00 PM) ok two guys just asked me out and i dont know who to choose, and i both told them ill give them an answer later, and i both like them both!. HELP PLEASE! guy 1: he is cute, but then he is not that type of person i could talk anything with him. like if im crying i cant call him and tell him why, hes just not the type of person i could connect with guy2:hes not cute at all, but i could talk to him about anything (its the exact oppsite as above) and he has a great personallity If you pick guy 1 then your really shallow... But if you pick guy number 2 you could have a more intimate relationship... Theres no point in choosing someone over looks... |
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Mar 7 2005, 11:53 PM
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QUOTE(YaWeaveIzOnFiyah @ Mar 7 2005, 6:01 PM) Ur dumb? What the f**k? You don't even know the qirl. Shut the f**k up before you start sayinq shit about people you don't KNOW, dumbass. no need to get all upset, jeez. he has a point. no need for profanities. 
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Mar 7 2005, 11:55 PM
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 who ma bitch? you ma bitch, bitch. Group: Member Posts: 1,920 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 55,278 |
pick number two he has more pros than cons
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Mar 8 2005, 12:57 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
guy 2. he duznt have to be cute.. i mean, he cant help the way he's born. but, at least u can connect with him, give the poor guy a chance.
if it was up to me.. i'd pick guy 3. then it'd be fair for both of them. |
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Mar 8 2005, 01:17 AM
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F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
QUOTE(YaWeaveIzOnFiyah @ Mar 7 2005, 6:01 PM) Ur dumb? What the f**k? You don't even know the qirl. Shut the f**k up before you start sayinq shit about people you don't KNOW, dumbass. yeah , telling me i dont have the right ot call her dumb when u go around calling someone u dont know a dumbass. WOW! your ignorant and your a hypocrite =] . Good job. |
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Mar 8 2005, 01:27 AM
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 HAAAAAAAA. Group: Member Posts: 4,472 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,068 |
Guy 2. It's what's on the inside...
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Mar 8 2005, 02:26 AM
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 i <3 giraffes & hamsters Group: Member Posts: 69 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 104,830 |
[FONT=Arial][SIZE=2]in my opinion, if you`re asking us this question, then you are either really shallow or this guy is really hot 0_o
anyways, go guy #2 |
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Mar 8 2005, 08:10 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 73 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,896 |
QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ Mar 5 2005, 11:03 PM) well i think you should go with guy 2, it's better to go with someone who can connect with you, then go with some one that's only cute, but you both have nth in common. And you can always get another, better looking guy for the non-talking parts. |
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Mar 8 2005, 08:48 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
go out with both first..and then decide.
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Mar 8 2005, 11:23 AM
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thats tough, but pick guy 2 or pick none
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Mar 8 2005, 12:33 PM
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 it's just me Group: Member Posts: 74 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 110,630 |
I would pick guy #2 because in the end looks don't matter. I would rather be able to talk to someone and have an intellectual conversation with them or any conversation at that, than just be with someone because they are really cute. You'll get tired of looking at him after a while, trust me.
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Mar 8 2005, 03:43 PM
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 original member. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,825 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,460 |
guy 2
whats good having a bf if you guys can't talk to each other? |
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Mar 8 2005, 04:21 PM
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well, the definition of a boyfriend doesnt state that he has to be hot. More or less, it's really someone who you can talk to and someone you can hang around and have fun with. Besides, if you think about it, i'd probably feel guilty for breaking guy2's heart?
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Mar 8 2005, 04:22 PM
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 Retired Posting Whore Group: Member Posts: 699 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,911 |
QUOTE(baybeexlien @ Mar 5 2005, 10:00 PM) ok two guys just asked me out and i dont know who to choose, and i both told them ill give them an answer later, and i both like them both!. HELP PLEASE! guy 1: he is cute, but then he is not that type of person i could talk anything with him. like if im crying i cant call him and tell him why, hes just not the type of person i could connect with guy2:hes not cute at all, but i could talk to him about anything (its the exact oppsite as above) and he has a great personallity This is a hard one... Hmmm...Lets be shallow and pick the good lookin guy who you can't talk to at all and whom you have no real future with because of lack of being able to communicate... Good luck with that! |
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Mar 8 2005, 04:39 PM
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 to be loved by someone you love is.. everything Group: Member Posts: 1,207 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,205 |
2nd person. Why would you want to be someone when you can't be intellectual?
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Mar 8 2005, 10:18 PM
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 Why is life such a burden? Group: Member Posts: 74 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 107,737 |
well looks dont really matter...love does...but since u love both of them, then pick number 2 because u love him AND he has a good personality and u can relate to him.
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Mar 8 2005, 11:52 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 90 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 110,867 |
Ask a friend to picka number from 1-10
if the number is odd, then pick guy #1 if the number is even, then pick guy #2 Simple |
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Mar 9 2005, 12:18 AM
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Retired Posting Whore Group: Member Posts: 699 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,911 |
QUOTE(FireArrow @ Mar 8 2005, 11:52 PM) Ask a friend to picka number from 1-10 if the number is odd, then pick guy #1 if the number is even, then pick guy #2 Simple This is why you are rated "Newbie." 
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Mar 22 2005, 05:10 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
you'd have a longer relationship with guy 2...
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Mar 22 2005, 10:18 PM
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 sunshiine Group: Member Posts: 1,080 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,360 |
i think u have picked the right one already.. anyways.. wud u rather have someone to talk to or someone just for looks. in my opinion someone who can listen to me is better so i wud go with 2.
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Mar 22 2005, 10:32 PM
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Guy 2!!Looks dont mean SHIT personality does!
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Mar 22 2005, 11:05 PM
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 brandon demarin Group: Member Posts: 287 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,512 |
2. definately.
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Mar 23 2005, 02:59 AM
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number 2!! why u need a bf that u can't tell him anything.. u need a bf/partner that support u @ anytime.. wats the point of getting a bf that u can't tell them anything.. why dun just fling then. *well just my opionion.. sor ha..
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Mar 23 2005, 06:56 AM
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number two.
duh. |
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May 3 2005, 12:12 AM
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sometimes a guy who's not too cute will grow on you........but i mean there needs to be some physical attraction there too!
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May 3 2005, 08:31 AM
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 .bubblicious inspirations. @ www.bubbliciousoul.com Group: Member Posts: 466 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,228 |
hem... i'd say pick guy 2. cuz u'd be able to speak mroe openly with him... no point going out with someone when u can't be yourself.
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May 4 2005, 02:21 PM
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 sweet but sour Group: Member Posts: 170 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,953 |
#2 definitely, you'd have more of a relationship since you guys can talk
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May 4 2005, 04:03 PM
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I think you should stay single.
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May 4 2005, 08:17 PM
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If I were you, I would choose guy # 1. You never know he might be what you thought he can never be. Some people appear to be different in terms of looks, but deep inside they really aren't what they seem. Some good looking people really has great personalities when better known.
 But, as how you described him now, I think you should [rather] pick the 2nd guy. As you said; he is a great listener, someone who'll be there in times of need. Just don't decide for what seem to be right, but what really is right. Otherwise, it's you who'll suffer from the results. Likewise though, it's all in you. You're the one making the decision anyway, by now, you should know which one. -[Lalainester]- |
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May 4 2005, 08:45 PM
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 kATARiNA Group: Member Posts: 38 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 133,352 |
guy 2 cuz you need to feel comfortable with who you with..
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May 5 2005, 05:21 PM
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 michaelx3 Group: Member Posts: 26 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,600 |
guy 2..no communication with ur guy is just gonna make u miserable..good luck w/ whOever u choose
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May 5 2005, 07:44 PM
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 peggy's here. Group: Member Posts: 239 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,603 |
follow your heart.
if that is me, great personality rocks more than how that person looks. |
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May 9 2005, 03:57 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 6 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 136,777 |
well maybe cuz u didnt get a chance to get to know #1 well enough? or is it just that u guys dont get along or u dont feel very comfortable? i really think its important to get physically attracted too, to be honest, i'd prob go for the first guy (not necessarily be official just yet) and be honest and tell him that i wanna get to know him better.. it seems like the second guy would make a good friend..
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May 9 2005, 04:40 AM
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i would choose guy 2
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May 9 2005, 06:37 PM
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GUY # 2 >=) He has a great personality and perfect to talk to about ANYTHING looks aren't everything and if you guys go out you don't have to worry about those shallow girls that come up to him and flirt.
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May 9 2005, 06:39 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
I wuld actually come back and visit the forums instead of make one single post. :)
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