Relationships, What should I do now? |
 Mar 5 2005, 01:33 AM
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This could turn out to be a long story, but...ok, so there's this girl that I like at my school (We're in Gr. 10). We're friends, and we see each other a fair amount outside of school. I wasn't sure if she already liked someone else, but a few of my friends had said that she did. I hadn't noticed anyone that showed that they liked her though, so I decided to tell her that I liked her. Only recently, I managed to say that I did like her, wanted to be with her, and asked for a chance to be her bf. She said that we should remain friends because she thinks that our relationship isn't strong enough. I'm not quite sure what to do now... Even after being rejected, I still feel that I like her though. It didn't change the way that I felt. Should I just give up or could I try to develop our relationship so I could ask again later (I think that she likes someone else though...) ? How can I develop a better relationship (I'm kinda shy)?
I would be grateful if I got some good advice, thanks. |
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Mar 5 2005, 02:05 AM
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 Oh babyy. :d Group: Member Posts: 616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,708 |
Try to hang out with her at school, talk to her online, go to the movies with her and your friends and some of her friends too ect ect. Don't become stalker-ish though. Good luck with her.
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Mar 5 2005, 03:34 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,541 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,332 |
^^ She stole my idea.
=/ Exactly, though! Just gotta get to know her better. Yay! You can type properly! |
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Mar 5 2005, 03:40 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 889 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,392 |
i say...........dont give up
my best friend didn't like my ex.. though he liked her...but he kept hanging out with her... paying attention to her...n now.. they're going out. n when i asked her y she jus said that she didn't know. but he sorta greew on her. |
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Mar 5 2005, 08:46 AM
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 Ah, mon Dieu ! Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
get to be her friend first.
take it from then on. |
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Mar 5 2005, 09:00 AM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
build ur relationship. talk to her, but not too much, cause then ur creepy. be sweet, etc etc, god i'm so late for class bye.
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Mar 5 2005, 10:37 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
QUOTE(dahding @ Mar 5 2005, 10:00 PM) ... god i'm so late for class bye.  tsk tsk, createblog at school!!  'anyway, try to win her affection. DO NOT STALK. |
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Mar 5 2005, 05:04 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,831 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,324 |
hang out with her and let her get to know you more.
help her on homework. give her compliments. just be sweet. |
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Mar 5 2005, 07:09 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 2 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 106,704 |
Wow, thanks alot! Some problems though...we're both shy, and we usually sit with a group of friends at school (In one huge group, not separate). I don't really know what to talk about at school...It's hard to get her to talk, she's pretty quiet most of the time, except once in a while when she's with her friends...and should I forget the fact that she may already like another person?
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Mar 22 2005, 05:22 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
I think you should just settle for friendship now...and let it develope on its own....if there is anything, I'm sure you'll know....but if you see that there's no change...just stay friends...and move on...
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Mar 22 2005, 06:03 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
become better friends with her...get to better know her...and then try again..if it doesnt work, then u should move on..
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