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 Mar 1 2005, 07:42 PM
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 Crazyinlove08  Group: Member Posts: 40 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,287  |
I HAVE A HUGE PROBLEM! okay My so called best friend should be happy IM going out with this guy i've liked for ever..Well since me and him have been going out they both hate eachother. I dont know what to do. He doesnt live around ehre so its not a big deal. But Like she gets jealous a lot of me atleast she sends signs that she is. She gets mad that the guys that she likes like me. Because they tell me in front of her. And that I flirt with them Its not my fault i flirt a lot is it? Im just so used to hanging around guys I flirt and another thing is she seems to get pissy all the time if I talk wtih my other friends in class..I HAVE other friends not just her and it gets so annoying. And she gets mad if I dont buy her stuff..I dont know what to do! I dont know how to tell her to stop telling me everything and what is best for my life cause its my life not hers. Can you guys help me out on what to do? thanks
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Mar 1 2005, 07:54 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Find a new best friend...or just talk to her....and tell her that she should just get over it and to stop telling you what to do?
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Mar 1 2005, 08:02 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
well then , tell her the deal.
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Mar 1 2005, 09:16 PM
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 rwar (; Group: Member Posts: 590 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,308 |
QUOTE She gets mad that the guys that she likes like me. same here !! i had a bestfriend and she was jst likethat. she liked this guy for what.. 3 yrs ? and then he starts talking to me so we`re chatting and afterclass she`s all like " DUDE YOU`RE FRCKN FLIRTING WITH HIM LIKE CRASY" and went around telling everyone that. i was jst talking for gawsh sakes  *ahem* anywayss back to your subj. my friend is jst like yours. she gets mad when i talk to other ppl and all that bull. so my advice is to jst drop her. i mean she`s not exactly what you can call a "best friend" to you. so why be her bestfriend when she`s doing nothing in return for you ? |
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Mar 1 2005, 09:59 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
talk to her about it because she really isnt being a very good friend to you. if she doesnt listen then ditch her
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Mar 1 2005, 11:39 PM
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sit you two down to some donuts, and talk about it.
figure it out, if she can't deal..tell her to find another friend. |
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Mar 2 2005, 01:38 AM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
She's probably that you're not doing a very good job being a friend and she is trying to become a great friend to you but she doesn't know how. So you only can teach her how. Maybe she never had a great friendship with someone, maybe your her first? So I guess teach her? I think that's great if you try to do that. Or maybe she's just a worry-wart. Worrying things about you. Or maybe she's a lesbian...
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Mar 2 2005, 01:39 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 575 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,400 |
^agreed.. except the lesbian part. lols.
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Mar 2 2005, 03:20 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
QUOTE(crazyinlove08 @ Mar 2 2005, 8:42 AM) Because they tell me in front of her. And that I flirt with them Its not my fault i flirt a lot is it?  It depends. How much is "a lot"? Some friends of mine don't like it when i flirt too much because they think i'm neglecting them on purpose. Maybe that's her problem. QUOTE(crazyinlove08 @ Mar 2 2005, 8:42 AM) And she gets mad if I dont buy her stuff.. Sounds like she uses you for your money. DITCH HER. It's your wallet, not hers. QUOTE(angel-roh @ Mar 2 2005, 2:38 PM) Or maybe she's a lesbian... lol.. scary thought 
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Mar 2 2005, 05:40 PM
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 vertically challenged Group: Member Posts: 181 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 36,342 |
Well everyone's saying you should just ditch her, but if you and her have been good friends for a long time and it's just recently that she's acting like this, you should talk to her. Maybe she says all that because she feels like you are drifting away from her or changing? i don't know... sometimes its complicated when your friends start changing so just talk to her if you really care.
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Mar 2 2005, 10:17 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 59,075 |
QUOTE It depends. How much is "a lot"? Some friends of mine don't like it when i flirt too much because they think i'm neglecting them on purpose. Maybe that's her problem. true true.. and maybe you could stop flirting that much.. it'll probably make her feel better since she does have a crush on that/those guy(s). she probably feels that you just want attention since you already have a boyfriend, but still flirting with other guys, especially the one that she likes. But yes, maybe flirting less with the guys will help.. she's probably envying you and that ... could be scary. |
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Mar 2 2005, 10:39 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
I think you should talk to her about it because she is not being a very good friend. i think she's jealous of you & your boyfriend. if things don't work out, find a new best friend to hang with.
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Mar 3 2005, 10:02 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
talk to her about it. maybe its time you should find a new best friend.
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